Is anyone else really good over text, but horrible in person?

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Like I can talk to girls really well over text and sometimes calls, but in person I always freeze up

Now I'm not 100% sure that I'm gonna be like that when I first link up with a girl since i've never been 1 on 1 with a girl

Cuz the situation will be something foreign to me so it might not be as bad as my current experiences surrounded by girls

If anyone else is like this lmk

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cause you are overthinking irl and scared about what people think if you say something weird
 
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Opposite for me.
 
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Like I can talk to girls really well over text and sometimes calls, but in person I always freeze up

Now I'm not 100% sure that I'm gonna be like that when I first link up with a girl since i've never been 1 on 1 with a girl

Cuz the situation will be something foreign to me so it might not be as bad as my current experiences surrounded by girls

If anyone else is like this lmk

prime lima:

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Same I just don't know what to say abd and then she'll say oh he's boring and go to narcissist and then go to me again no I'm done with it if girl really likes you it'll be obvious
 
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cause you are overthinking irl and scared about what people think if you say something weird
you would think that i'd be high inhib for both tho :unsure:
 
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you would think that i'd be high inhib for both tho :unsure:
mabye idk tho dont know you, i used to be such a smooth talker on phone and was super awkward irl, i just stopped caring and had more confidence its a big leap and hard to do but thats the only way, reason why you see HTN's talking super smoothly to girls cause they dont care if they get rejected cause its easy for them to get someone else
 
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mabye idk tho dont know you, i used to be such a smooth talker on phone and was super awkward irl, i just stopped caring and had more confidence its a big leap and hard to do but thats the only way, reason why you see HTN's talking super smoothly to girls cause they dont care if they get rejected cause its easy for them to get someone else
lifefuel ngl

it's annoying but it's the truth

exposure therapy is the method

i'll prolly be on sum stuff tho 🀫
 
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lifefuel ngl

it's annoying but it's the truth

exposure therapy is the method

i'll prolly be on sum stuff tho 🀫
good luck bhai
 
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Opposite for me.
how tf
Same I just don't know what to say abd and then she'll say oh he's boring and go to narcissist and then go to me again no I'm done with it if girl really likes you it'll be obvious
yeah no attraction isn't the problem for me

i get called dry all the time even on the phone and they still text me

but like in person i literally have never been 1 on 1 with a girl so i have no clue how i'll be

i'm super high inhib tho so i'm expecting the worst
 

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