Is being a player a good thing?

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When I ascend I’m questioning if I wanna go down the oneitis route or player route. Like just fuck and leave women over and over again. Have a roster, rotation and never committed to a relationship ever. Is this a good thing? Or is it not the way
 
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No
 
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When I ascend I’m questioning if I wanna go down the oneitis route or player route. Like just fuck and leave women over and over again. Have a roster, rotation and never committed to a relationship ever. Is this a good thing? Or is it not the way
I understand what you mean. From my perspective, it isn't. Having sex with multiple women just makes you seem like a douchebag, it also makes you numb and further strips you from your morals and values (if you have any in this context). To each their own.

Women with high body counts being disgusting hoes applies to men too.
 
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I understand what you mean. From my perspective, it isn't. Having sex with multiple women just makes you seem like a douchebag, it also makes you numb and further strips you from your morals and values (if you have any in this context). To each their own.

Women with high body counts being disgusting hoes applies to men too.
All the PSL gods and male models and celebs are players. Every successful man in this world is a cheater and womanizer.
 
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All the PSL gods and male models and celebs are players. Every successful man in this world is a cheater and womanizer.
It's not going to be as fulfilling as you're imagining
 
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When I ascend I’m questioning if I wanna go down the oneitis route or player route. Like just fuck and leave women over and over again. Have a roster, rotation and never committed to a relationship ever. Is this a good thing? Or is it not the way
manslut is term amongst foids bro
 
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All the PSL gods and male models and celebs are players. Every successful man in this world is a cheater and womanizer.
Yeah, I understand. A good portion of these people are also blinded by vanity, pride, etc. You know how most of the people on top have Dark Triad traits? That applies here too. I've been friends with some of these people and trust me, behind the scenes they are so insufferable, and insecure.

But again, to each their own man. If that's what will bring you joy and you're doing nothing wrong, then go for it ig.
 
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Only if you have fun doing it and understand what comes with it
 
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With my morals and values, I would say for you not to go on the playboy route. But that’s just my opinion. I believe life is much more fulfilling and deep without the constant sex.
 
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Yeah, I understand. A good portion of these people are also blinded by vanity, pride, etc. You know how the people on top have Dark Triad traits? That applies here too. I've been friends with some of these people and they are so insufferable, and insecure.

But again, to each their own man. If that's what will bring you joy and you're doing nothing wrong, then go for it ig.
I mean idk what to do. When I ascend I would have options and it would be dumb to not take advantage of them. Everyone says enjoy your youth. You only have one life. I think I would be happier with only one woman. But men don’t benefit from pair bonding as much, and I’m super blackpillers and I think that these loyal women if they wanted to would cheat on you in a second. Everyone in this life is so fake and would switch up very quickly. I’ve learned to not trust anyone and take advantage of ppl unfortunately. It’s kill or be killed
 
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Only if you have fun doing it and understand what comes with it
What comes with it? I thought it was good for men to sleep around because that means they’re desirable
 
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What comes with it? I thought it was good for men to sleep around because that means they’re desirable
It's very likely that you will become numb to the feeling of love and sex. Sex, love, and intimate relationships in general literally rewires our brains a lot.
 
Fantasizing abt ur ascension that may never happen btw
 
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All the PSL gods and male models and celebs are players. Every successful man in this world is a cheater and womanizer.
its more like a phase for most. theyll start like that but theyll end up w their oneitis or w no one
 
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What comes with it? I thought it was good for men to sleep around because that means they’re desirable
The type of women you want for an ltr likely won't want you, sexual disease, unintended pregnancy, and possibly falling in love with a hoe.

I think those are the major drawbacks
 
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you can do both
 
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The type of women you want for an ltr likely won't want you, sexual disease, unintended pregnancy, and possibly falling in love with a hoe.

I think those are the major drawbacks
But I thought it was good since u are desirable by other women and you get to enjoy your youth and have fun
 
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But I thought it was good since u are desirable by other women and you get to enjoy your youth and have fun
I won't say it isn't fun, especially if that's your type of fun. Just be careful.
 
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I won't say it isn't fun, especially if that's your type of fun. Just be careful.
I know, but every man that ascends and makes more money and has a high smv all sleeps around. Your fav male model and celebrity is a player. Idk what to do though. I have no idea what I want. But every idea of a successful man is a player
 
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