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Deleted member 1242
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A lot of the time i think it is. My dad was born short glasses from astigmatism in north dakota snd doesnt realize hes abnormal when he acts moodier and manlier than everyone around him.
I know tht he lived around big bubbas and he was obv at a disadvantage.
He acts :straighten up: mode in moments where its pointless like functions and get togethers because its a moralistic place to act tense and in his uptight defensive modes. In his pica hes too insecure ro be vulnerable and even smile. Its undisputedly insecurity growing up in a poor state
Its pointless to be in straighten up mode. His manliness or your uptightness is just protection from being off guard and positive.
Even if you correct him it feels to him like youre trying to get a horse off a spaced out stroll.
Women would rather have chad confidence than uotightness especially when kts social failo to be autistically tense
All this seems like news to him especially when i use process of elimination to undeniably relay his insecurities
Some act very unaware but i womder if its totally unknown until thr kdea gets pinned by the word insecurity
I know tht he lived around big bubbas and he was obv at a disadvantage.
He acts :straighten up: mode in moments where its pointless like functions and get togethers because its a moralistic place to act tense and in his uptight defensive modes. In his pica hes too insecure ro be vulnerable and even smile. Its undisputedly insecurity growing up in a poor state
Its pointless to be in straighten up mode. His manliness or your uptightness is just protection from being off guard and positive.
Even if you correct him it feels to him like youre trying to get a horse off a spaced out stroll.
Women would rather have chad confidence than uotightness especially when kts social failo to be autistically tense
All this seems like news to him especially when i use process of elimination to undeniably relay his insecurities
Some act very unaware but i womder if its totally unknown until thr kdea gets pinned by the word insecurity