Is being ND or mentally ill bad for your smv?

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I still got mixxed responses on my older thread.
"Doesnt matter if your chad" yes but only 1% of ppl are fucking "Chad" and im not fucking one of em.
SMV = Sexual Market Value

Here is my problem: There are times where I enjoy having ADHD, Autism and hearing voices, but there are also times in which I wish that I didnt have them. I do not want to stuff medication in my mouth, be emotionally numb and all of it, just to be seen as NT from society or smth.

Seriously how bad is all the ADHD, Autism and hearing voices stuff? I mean at night it can get weird, but im not giga ND. Im not punching myself like in this scene or smth


My only real problems regarding foids are that I get attached super fast and super strong. I dont really think that the voices are like that bad even though I have received some negative online comment from a foid once. I suppose if i keep everything I have to myself it cant be that bad.

Please share your honest thought
 
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Yes obv
 
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Ur prob schizotypal

Distraught Mood: People with schizotypal traits tend to be apprehensive and ill at ease, particularly with regard to social encounters. They are usually agitated and anxiously watchful, evincing distrust of others and suspicion of their motives – tendencies that persist despite growing familiarity with the other. They also manifest an apathetic, sluggish, joyless, and spiritless presentation. Many have marked deficiencies in face-to-face rapport and emotional expression.

Estranged Self-Image: Individuals with schizotypal features display recurrent social perplexities and illusions as well as experiences of depersonalization, derealization, and dissociation. For instance, they may repeatedly have the feeling that they are observing themselves from outside of their body, or they have a sense that things around them are not real. Many also feel detached from themselves and their emotions and have repetitive thoughts about the emptiness and meaninglessness of life.

Undoing Dynamics: Schizotypal people often have bizarre mannerisms and idiosyncratic thoughts that appear to reflect a reversal of previous acts or ideas that have stirred feelings of anxiety, conflict, or guilt in them. This is related to their peculiar behavior, speech patterns, and perceptions, as those peculiarities may have formed as unconscious rituals to ward off such negative feelings. By extension, many engage in ritualistic or magical behaviors which serve to repent for or nullify presumed misdeeds or "evil" thoughts.

Circumstantial Cognition: People with schizotypal traits are often characterized by an inability to read the thoughts and feelings of others adequately. Hence, their social communications are often mixed with personal irrelevancies, circumstantial speech, digressions from the main point, and false ideas that random occurrences are directly related to them. They are often ruminative and appear self-absorbed and lost in daydreams with occasional magical thinking, bodily illusions, obscure suspicions, and odd beliefs.

Peculiar Expressions: Individuals with schizotypal features tend to display awkward and peculiar mannerisms. They are often perceived by others as abnormal and disposed to behave in an unobtrusively odd, aloof, curious, or bizarre manner. For instance, they may rarely laugh or smile and have problems expressing what they think or feel. Hence, they are often misunderstood or described as “odd” or “weird”.

Fragmented Psyche: Schizotypal people have difficulties sorting out their thoughts and past experiences. They tend to be disjointed and have challenges internalizing the consequences of their actions. Moreover, their excessive fluidity when it comes to making connections between occurrences may be manifested in beliefs about paranormal psychic forces (i.e., mind reading, telekinesis, or out-of-body experience) as well as deeply personal superstitions.

Secretive Conduct: People with schizotypal traits often prefer privacy and isolation. They tend to have few attachments, personal obligations, and a consistent pattern of discomfort with close relationships and interactions. On this point, schizotypal people may also be influenced by their suspiciousness of others, exasperating their difficulties in forming and maintaining close relationships.

Chaotic Contents: Individuals with schizotypal features tend to be characterized by disorganized internal thoughts and feelings. For instance, others may perceive them to ramble on about different topics, have disjointed and jumbled memories of the past, and act on their feelings in ways that seem peculiar. This is often related to their atypical view of reality, odd thoughts, and abnormal interpretations of ordinary events.





Antagonomia: Unconditional skepticism toward common beliefs, ways of thinking, assumptions, and values, taking an eccentric stance in opposition, with a drive to understand the world at a deeper level in a detached, anthropologist or scientist like manner, which is often perceived as a gift and having a radically unique and exceptional being



Delayed sleep phase: A tendency to sleep and wake much later than the average person, with better mood and mental functioning during the night than in the day



Ambivalence: An abnormally high tendency to have strong mixed feelings toward many things, such as other people, one's self, and decisions



Dyslexic-like traits: Dyslexia is linked to the schizophrenia spectrum and schizotypal personality disorder is associated with features of dyslexia



Motor control: Difficulties with fine motor control are found in StPD, often leading to difficulties with skills such as handwriting and using tools that require precision



Rejection sensitivity: People with schizotypal personality disorder are more prone to sensing rejection and are more likely to have a stronger reaction to it



Unusual sexual interests: Unusual sexual interests are common in StPD, and historically the sexuality of persons with STPD has been described as chaotic



Heat intolerance: Studies have shown that persons with schizophrenia spectrum disorders have higher baseline body temperature and have more significant increases in temperature in response to physical activity
 
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Yes
 
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1. What exactly makes that it will lower my smv?
2. This all is like a part of me. Im not a big fan of just numbing myself with meds. Olanzapine (schizo/bipolar med) for example even reduces the volume of your prefrontal cortex. I kinda like being myself. Is there anything else besides meds and the "just control urself" I can do?
@1966Ford
 
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@Softmax09 ohne viel von den DMs zu sagen
 
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Ur prob schizotypal
Could be, but making assumptions on this topic is very difficult. It could be BPD or anything. I doubt that Im schizophrenic though. A user send me a study showing that autism raises the psychosis chances by 30%, makes sense
 
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1. What exactly makes that it will lower my smv?
2. This all is like a part of me. Im not a big fan of just numbing myself with meds. Olanzapine (schizo/bipolar med) for example even reduces the volume of your prefrontal cortex. I kinda like being myself. Is there anything else besides meds and the "just control urself" I can do?
@1966Ford
1 In my personal experience (being diagnosed with ADHD) I have always found that people don't relate to me when Im myself so I had to mask it. However, people eventually find out that im weird and then begin to distance themselves from me.

2 Im not fan of the meds either, so a good strategy for the short-term would be to mask your tendencies if you can do that, but in the long-term you should try to find people that accept you the way you are.
 
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1 In my personal experience (being diagnosed with ADHD) I have always found that people don't relate to me when Im myself so I had to mask it. However, people eventually find out that im weird and then begin to distance themselves from me.
Yes same, even though there are ppl that ask me out to hang out but I always refuse, im not a big fan of hanging out anymore, i like being alone etc.
2 Im not fan of the meds either, so a good strategy for the short-term would be to mask your tendencies if you can do that, but in the long-term you should try to find people that accept you the way you are.
I suppose thats just the goal. I dont care about friends, its more about getting a wife. My parents say that I will have a hard time finding someone regarding my personality
 
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I suppose thats just the goal. I dont care about friends, its more about getting a wife. My parents say that I will have a hard time finding someone regarding my personality
Well, I wish the best of luck to you, and I hope that you can find a partner that loves you:heart:
 
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honestly i have no clue on bitches, i haven’t talked seriously to one in over 2 years but i think it wouldn’t affect smv too much unless your below hltn. Below that i think it will cause them to find you even less attractive
 
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honestly i have no clue on bitches, i haven’t talked seriously to one in over 2 years but i think they wouldn’t affect smv too much unless your below hltn. Below that i think it will cause them to find you even less attractive
Okay good
 
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1. What exactly makes that it will lower my smv?
2. This all is like a part of me. Im not a big fan of just numbing myself with meds. Olanzapine (schizo/bipolar med) for example even reduces the volume of your prefrontal cortex. I kinda like being myself. Is there anything else besides meds and the "just control urself" I can do?
 
I still got mixxed responses on my older thread.
"Doesnt matter if your chad" yes but only 1% of ppl are fucking "Chad" and im not fucking one of em.
SMV = Sexual Market Value

Here is my problem: There are times where I enjoy having ADHD, Autism and hearing voices, but there are also times in which I wish that I didnt have them. I do not want to stuff medication in my mouth, be emotionally numb and all of it, just to be seen as NT from society or smth.

Seriously how bad is all the ADHD, Autism and hearing voices stuff? I mean at night it can get weird, but im not giga ND. Im not punching myself like in this scene or smth


My only real problems regarding foids are that I get attached super fast and super strong. I dont really think that the voices are like that bad even though I have received some negative online comment from a foid once. I suppose if i keep everything I have to myself it cant be that bad.

Please share your honest thought

Yes it is, i’m ND and it’s hell bro
 
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1. What exactly makes that it will lower my smv?
2. This all is like a part of me. Im not a big fan of just numbing myself with meds. Olanzapine (schizo/bipolar med) for example even reduces the volume of your prefrontal cortex. I kinda like being myself. Is there anything else besides meds and the "just control urself" I can do?
i thought the girl in ur pfp was holding a dick instead of ice cream for a second
 
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Autism nukes smv dud especially for LTRS prob the worst one to have
 
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Autism nukes smv dud especially for LTRS prob the worst one to have
I think im on the lowest scale of autism.
I dont meet ppl cuz I like being alone but it cant be that bad cuz in school i do stuff with girls sometimes. Like studying in the brakes together or smht
what is LTRS?
 
Okay based on the comments its bad, but what can I do??
 
I think im on the lowest scale of autism.
I dont meet ppl cuz I like being alone but it cant be that bad cuz in school i do stuff with girls sometimes. Like studying in the brakes together or smht
what is LTRS?
Long term relationships it just depends how weird normies think you are since NT people are extremely good at picking up on autism so you’d have to find somebody who doesn’t mind it long term yk
 
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Long term relationships it just depends how weird normies think you are since NT people are extremely good at picking up on autism so you’d have to find somebody who doesn’t mind it long term yk
My only goal is LTRS :( Fuck
Is there like anything I can do?
 
no clue but how bad is it tho like making friends if you can make friends quite easily shouldn’t be that brutal
I dont like people. I isolate myself on purpose. But there are like 2 guys that want to hang out with me, so i suppose i still have a chance? I wont hang out with them though
 
I dont like people. I isolate myself on purpose. But there are like 2 guys that want to hang out with me, so i suppose i still have a chance? I wont hang out with them though
Theres a lot of videos on it on YouTube it’s too nuanced for me to tell you what u need to do
 
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I still got mixxed responses on my older thread.
"Doesnt matter if your chad" yes but only 1% of ppl are fucking "Chad" and im not fucking one of em.
SMV = Sexual Market Value

Here is my problem: There are times where I enjoy having ADHD, Autism and hearing voices, but there are also times in which I wish that I didnt have them. I do not want to stuff medication in my mouth, be emotionally numb and all of it, just to be seen as NT from society or smth.

Seriously how bad is all the ADHD, Autism and hearing voices stuff? I mean at night it can get weird, but im not giga ND. Im not punching myself like in this scene or smth


My only real problems regarding foids are that I get attached super fast and super strong. I dont really think that the voices are like that bad even though I have received some negative online comment from a foid once. I suppose if i keep everything I have to myself it cant be that bad.

Please share your honest thought

i wish i wish i wish I was nt My ocd is ruining my life that pared with social anxiety is a killer combo your probably fine
 
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The goal doesn’t have to be becoming neurotypical it’s understanding which traits actually cause problems and which ones are simply part of who you are.

It is up to the foids if they accept you
 
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only if it’s not severe neurodivergence like mental retardation or autism
 
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my brother another me and sadly sometimes i be a lil too extra and they all just disappear:Oldge:
if they dont like u for u whats the point unless its clubbing/hookup culture, just be urself no need to act n u will find the one eventually
 
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if they dont like u for u whats the point unless its clubbing/hookup culture, just be urself no need to act n u will find the one eventually
yeah i usually just move on but damn its exhausting when it keeps on happening:pepeAgony:
 
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