Is dating a 16 year old as a 22 year old weird?

[buddhistking]

That was a joke added after a point. You ignored the main part where i said guys dont date young girls because of societal backlash, thats what you called cope

Societal backlash is overrated cope, unless its illegal nobody cares, it just looks low smv for a guy to do

 

[groupiekiller]

16 19 max

 

[Asdec]

Just curious, but what are the people's opinion of this who are close to you and her? Yk her friends, family, your friends and family etc

 

[Big Boss]

You're a pedo bro.

Explain why its wrong.

Societal backlash is overrated cope, unless its illegal nobody cares, it just looks low smv for a guy to do

you have no evidence to just say its overrated cope. Its the same as if i just say 16 year olds are adults without any reasoning. You literally have no argument except for “thats cope”. Dating 16-18 year olds clearly has societal backlash for older people and a clear example of that is literally this thread. .org is a place of degeneracy and unhinged people, and yet, more than half of people are clearly calling me a pedophile, so what do you think the publics reaction would be?

You say it’s 'low SMV,' but that’s a lazy way to avoid the reality of social pressure. People don't avoid this because they can't get other girls; they avoid it because they don't want the headache of public perception.

Look at the history of it. Whether it's Russell Brand, Paul Walker, Ayrton Senna, Woody Allen, or even someone like Drake. the backlash is always there. These men were all at the top of their game with massive status, and they still dealt with the 'creep' label. If it happens to the most famous, high status men in the world, it’s clearly not about the guy being 'low SMV.' It’s about the fact that society has a collective, irrational panic button they hit whenever they see an age gap like this.

I’m aware of that pressure. I choose to ignore it because I value my own reality over the approval of strangers. You’re confusing social compliance with 'sexual market value. The only difference between me and the guys who 'know better’ is that I’m not willing to let a social script dictate who I connect with

 

[buddhistking]

Look at the history of it. Whether it's Russell Brand, Paul Walker, Ayrton Senna, Woody Allen, or even someone like Drake. the backlash is always there. These men were all at the top of their game with massive status, and they still dealt with the 'creep' label. If it happens to the most famous, high status men in the world, it’s clearly not about the guy being 'low SMV.' It’s about the fact that society has a collective, irrational panic button they hit whenever they see an age gap like this.

You're being so ignorant, the reasons why they got the backlash is because they were ALREADY FAMOUS. Ofc Drake tryna fuck a 17-18 year old is gonna make headlines, he is Drake.

I'm saying for an average normie, with no name, nobody cares, unless it's illegal then it's a real issue and there is alot of backlash

 

[ØUROBOROS]

Bro

Explain why its wrong.


you have no evidence to just say its overrated cope. Its the same as if i just say 16 year olds are adults without any reasoning. You literally have no argument except for “thats cope”. Dating 16-18 year olds clearly has societal backlash for older people and a clear example of that is literally this thread. .org is a place of degeneracy and unhinged people, and yet, more than half of people are clearly calling me a pedophile, so what do you think the publics reaction would be?

You say it’s 'low SMV,' but that’s a lazy way to avoid the reality of social pressure. People don't avoid this because they can't get other girls; they avoid it because they don't want the headache of public perception.

Look at the history of it. Whether it's Russell Brand, Paul Walker, Ayrton Senna, Woody Allen, or even someone like Drake. the backlash is always there. These men were all at the top of their game with massive status, and they still dealt with the 'creep' label. If it happens to the most famous, high status men in the world, it’s clearly not about the guy being 'low SMV.' It’s about the fact that society has a collective, irrational panic button they hit whenever they see an age gap like this.

I’m aware of that pressure. I choose to ignore it because I value my own reality over the approval of strangers. You’re confusing social compliance with 'sexual market value. The only difference between me and the guys who 'know better’ is that I’m not willing to let a social script dictate who I connect with

It isn't about finding a 16 year old attractive that is normal it is because of the difference in mental state most 16 year olds are retarded especially 16 year old foids. The 16 year old can easily get taken advantage of. And another way to see it imagine your sixteen year old daughter brings a 22 year old man that would be horrible.

 

[Big Boss]

You're being so ignorant, the reasons why they got the backlash is because they were ALREADY FAMOUS. Ofc Drake tryna fuck a 17-18 year old is gonna make headlines, he is Drake.

I'm saying for an average normie, with no name, nobody cares, unless it's illegal then it's a real issue and there is alot of backlash

You're missing the point. Fame is just a magnifying glass; it doesn't create the bias, it just highlights it. If you think the normie doesn't face backlash, you haven't actually observed how people gossip or how family units operate. The only difference is that a celebrity gets a PR team to handle it, while a normie has to handle the social shunning themselves.

It isn't about finding a 16 year old attractive that is normal it is because of the difference in mental state most 16 year olds are retarded especially 16 year old foids. The 16 year old can easily get taken advantage of. And another way to see it imagine your sixteen year old daughter brings a 22 year old man that would be horrible.

Your whole argument relies on the assumption that a 16 year old has zero agency. You're calling an entire demographic
'retarded' while ignoring the fact that society treats them as adults in almost every other legal capacity (work, taxes, driving).

You're also using the 'imagine your daughter' card, which is just an appeal to parental fear. If you have to resort to hypotheticals about family members to make your point, it means you don't actually have a logical argument for why the relationship itself is wrong. You're just projecting your own discomfort.

 

[ØUROBOROS]

You're missing the point. Fame is just a magnifying glass; it doesn't create the bias, it just highlights it. If you think the normie doesn't face backlash, you haven't actually observed how people goss

You're missing the point. Fame is just a magnifying glass; it doesn't create the bias, it just highlights it. If you think the normie doesn't face backlash, you haven't actually observed how people gossip or how family units operate. The only difference is that a celebrity gets a PR team to handle it, while a normie has to handle the social shunning themselves.


Your whole argument relies on the assumption that a 16 year old has zero agency. You're calling an entire demographic
'retarded' while ignoring the fact that society treats them as adults in almost every other legal capacity (work, taxes, driving).

You're also using the 'imagine your daughter' card, which is just an appeal to parental fear. If you have to resort to hypotheticals about family members to make your point, it means you don't actually have a logical argument for why the relationship itself is wrong. You're just projecting your own discomfort.

Yeah I ain't reading alll that.

 

[Big Boss]

Yeah I ain't reading alll that.

Low iq, low attention span

 

[buddhistking]

You're missing the point. Fame is just a magnifying glass; it doesn't create the bias, it just highlights it. If you think the normie doesn't face backlash, you haven't actually observed how people gossip or how family units operate. The only difference is that a celebrity gets a PR team to handle it, while a normie has to handle the social shunning themselves.

The only people that care when it's legal is the family of the daughter and that's it, literally nobody else cares irl you are exagerrating, unless it is some huge gap like a 40 year old with an 18 year old, then I agree that there is some shunning. Especially from foids.

 

[Big Boss]

The only people that care when it's legal is the family of the daughter and that's it, literally nobody else cares irl you are exagerrating, unless it is some huge gap like a 40 year old with an 18 year old, then I agree that there is some shunning. Especially from foids.

You're conflating legality with social capital. Nobody is talking about prison, we’re talking about reputation. Even if a relationship is legal, you are judged by your peer group's standards, not the legal code. If your friends, family, or professional circle perceive a 16 year old as an inappropriate target, you get branded. Getting laughed at in a group chat, losing the respect of your peers, or being labeled a creep is real world social shunning. If you think you can navigate those social circles while being viewed as a predator just because you're legal, you’re ignoring how human status works

everyone knows this for a fact, something as little as your friends making fun of you in a group chat and calling you a pedo as a joke. That is societal backlash even if its legal. To deny that is cope.

 

[HexumReincarnated]

If my sister was dating a 22 year old I would castrate him.

You are a legal pedophile.

 

[Big Boss]

If my sister was dating a 22 year old I would castrate him.

You are a legal pedophile.

Im sure you would, because you are a emotional thinker. Read all my replies before jumping to conclusions

 

[HexumReincarnated]

Im sure you would, because you are a emotional thinker. Read all my replies before jumping to conclusions

You are having sex with a 22 year old.

And Idc about ur other replys nigger

 

[Big Boss]

You are having sex with a 22 year old.

And Idc about ur other replys nigger

Im 22. And yeah im sure you wont read them because you know your wrong. Like the rest, it shows your iq, and ignorance

 

[Short]

Its legal in the UK. Me and my gf. But is it weird/morally wrong? Lets discuss

Yea its weird asfuck.

Wouldnt be weird if she was the 22 year old tho it would be hot

 

[Big Boss]

Yea its weird asfuck.

Wouldnt be weird if she was the 22 year old tho it would be hot

You are having sex with a 22 year old.

And Idc about ur other replys nigger

The only people that care when it's legal is the family of the daughter and that's it, literally nobody else cares irl you are exagerrating, unless it is some huge gap like a 40 year old with an 18 year old, then I agree that there is some shunning. Especially from foids.

All u bitch niggas cant debate me. Imagine losing a 10 vs 1. Get iq mogged to oblivion

 

[Deleted member 192735]

personally I wouldn't do it and it seems weird but just do whatever you want nigga

 

[Big Boss]

Its legal in the UK. Me and my gf. But is it weird/morally wrong? Lets discuss

 

[dkxe]

its not weird at all, completely normal and everyone whos saying ur a pedo is brainwashed