is dating worth it and if yes how

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so basically an oportunity for a girlfriend has opened up
I have found from a credible source (my friend's gf) that some girl from her class while they were playing pass or smash while listing the pictures for the senior book or whatever you call it and has said that im "super smash"

I was shocked when I found out this since I kinda already accepted that it was over
but it's obviously not :feelsgood:

the problem is I have never interacted with her, we are different grades and I literally don't even know how to start talking to her, irl or insta

but the problem is in my 18 chud years of life I have never dated anyone or did anything with a girl and I'm wondering if it's even worth it.
I like my peace and quiet and im wondering if it's worth sacrificing that for that

basically, is it worth it having a gf/starting to date and if yes how tf do I start anything with her
 
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if you want to slay
 
Ask gpt noone reading ts :KEKEZ:
 
is there really no positive thing to having a gf other than slaying
if it's your first oxytoxin boost and if she's genuinely good then of course she will be beneficial
 
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so basically an oportunity for a girlfriend has opened up
I have found from a credible source (my friend's gf) that some girl from her class while they were playing pass or smash while listing the pictures for the senior book or whatever you call it and has said that im "super smash"

I was shocked when I found out this since I kinda already accepted that it was over
but it's obviously not :feelsgood:

the problem is I have never interacted with her, we are different grades and I literally don't even know how to start talking to her, irl or insta

but the problem is in my 18 chud years of life I have never dated anyone or did anything with a girl and I'm wondering if it's even worth it.
I like my peace and quiet and im wondering if it's worth sacrificing that for that

basically, is it worth it having a gf/starting to date and if yes how tf do I start anything with her
depends on the girl, all are different, get to know her if shes a pain, leave if not, take it further. simple
 
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it really depends on the female i think dating young is kinda pointless in a way but its pretty good for experience but saying that u could prob get better experience from slaying but at the end of the day dating and taking it serious under like 25 is pointless
 
it really depends on the female i think dating young is kinda pointless in a way but its pretty good for experience but saying that u could prob get better experience from slaying but at the end of the day dating and taking it serious under like 25 is pointless
I mean I know plenty of people a little older than me that dated and married before 25
 
how do I get to know her is the problem?
ask her on a date, u said shes a mutual, hang out all together, then see her personality, if shes needy, annoying, smug, rude, leave her no matter how she looks, if shes,kid, humble,funny, not just to you but to everyone, then you can move on
 
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To be honest with you bro if she truly liked you it would be obvious to you, No point in chasing in my experience when girls have liked me they have made it obvious that they did. I’d say chase a little bit like try some talk and if she didn’t really like show it back for example ask questions about you or it’s a one side convo just leave it at that.
 
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I mean I know plenty of people a little older than me that dated and married before 25
yeah im not saying its impossible to carry a rlsp under 25 but its like when u have a girl in public and who has friends its pretty normal for her to want to go out to clubs and partys with her friends at a young age, so it really depends on the girl and where u guys live.

so its really ur decision if wanna take 1 girl serious or just slay n play
 
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lmao I’m kinda in this same situation
 
so basically an oportunity for a girlfriend has opened up
I have found from a credible source (my friend's gf) that some girl from her class while they were playing pass or smash while listing the pictures for the senior book or whatever you call it and has said that im "super smash"

I was shocked when I found out this since I kinda already accepted that it was over
but it's obviously not :feelsgood:

the problem is I have never interacted with her, we are different grades and I literally don't even know how to start talking to her, irl or insta

but the problem is in my 18 chud years of life I have never dated anyone or did anything with a girl and I'm wondering if it's even worth it.
I like my peace and quiet and im wondering if it's worth sacrificing that for that

basically, is it worth it having a gf/starting to date and if yes how tf do I start anything with her
If you see her, say hi. See how she reacts. Start a conversation. Check if she's still interested. Continue from there. Eventually ask her out. Good luck
 
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