Is having a gf cucking yourself?

[Jason Voorhees]

I always hear this on the forum that by having a gf you missing out on the other girls/ opportunities and monogamy is self cucking. You’re missing out on all the other opportunities and pussy out there bro etc

I'll give my perspective and what my experiences were. I'm not some chad or whatever. I'm just a normie and back when I was doing casual sex. I was genuinely miserable. I was addicted to alcohol and was degenerate myself and waking up next to girls that I didn't have any connection to, constantly chasing the next dopamine hit, dealing with flakes, drama, and the empty feeling afterward. Everything felt incomplete. I lost my motivation, my peace, and felt lonely so I left that lifestyle and remained a celibate for a long time and focused on my academics, going to gym and fixing my life that I had neglected for a long time

Now that I have a girlfriend, I feel way more grounded. I still get IOIs from time to time. Girls give more attention to guys that are taken for some reason and I sometimes do have urges and lust after random girls who give me attention but I still don't act on them because I love my gf and her companionship matters more to me than the temporary high.

In return for not banging random girls but you gain actual companionship, regular sex without the chase, emotional support, and someone who has your back. The trade off feels worth it for me. I’m not constantly anxious or hollow anymore. I'm quite happy and content with my life now. There's no constant craving for intimacy but that's just me

Maybe if you're Chad enough you can get all the benefits without the emotional investment and baggage. I wouldn't know. I'm just sharing my experience as a normie. What do you niggas think?

 

[Jason Voorhees]

@Chadeep @imontheloose @BigBallsLarry @Daddy's Home

 

[Jason Voorhees]

Explain jfl react! @browncurrycel

 

[Lyndon]

Monogamy is law
Niggas who disagree are just closeted cucks
Based take Jason, love is fulfilling.

 

[eology]

slaying is pointless

 

[Whatsamaxilla__]

I always hear this on the forum that by having a gf you missing out on the other girls/ opportunities and monogamy is self cucking. You’re missing out on all the other opportunities and pussy out there bro etc

I'll give my perspective and what my experiences were. I'm not some chad or whatever. I'm just a normie and back when I was doing casual sex. I was genuinely miserable. I was addicted to alcohol and was degenerate myself and waking up next to girls that I didn't have any connection to, constantly chasing the next dopamine hit, dealing with flakes, drama, and the empty feeling afterward. Everything felt incomplete. I lost my motivation, my peace, and felt lonely so I left that lifestyle and remained a celibate for a long time and focused on my academics, going to gym and fixing my life that I had neglected for a long time

Now that I have a girlfriend, I feel way more grounded. I still get IOIs from time to time. Girls give more attention to guys that are taken for some reason and I sometimes do have urges and lust after random girls who give me attention but I still don't act on them because I love my gf and her companionship matters more to me than the temporary high.

In return for not banging random girls but you gain actual companionship, regular sex without the chase, emotional support, and someone who has your back. The trade off feels worth it for me. I’m not constantly anxious or hollow anymore. I'm quite happy and content with my life no. There's no constant craving for intimacy but that's just me

Maybe if you're Chad enoughyou can get all the benefits without the emotional investment and baggage. I wouldn't know. I'm just sharing my experience as a normie. What do you niggas think?

I am a khhv and tbh i dont even care about sex anymore, i just want a good looking girl to actually love me. I envy you nigga.

 

[Deleted member 360680]

I always hear this on the forum that by having a gf you missing out on the other girls/ opportunities and monogamy is self cucking. You’re missing out on all the other opportunities and pussy out there bro etc

I'll give my perspective and what my experiences were. I'm not some chad or whatever. I'm just a normie and back when I was doing casual sex. I was genuinely miserable. I was addicted to alcohol and was degenerate myself and waking up next to girls that I didn't have any connection to, constantly chasing the next dopamine hit, dealing with flakes, drama, and the empty feeling afterward. Everything felt incomplete. I lost my motivation, my peace, and felt lonely so I left that lifestyle and remained a celibate for a long time and focused on my academics, going to gym and fixing my life that I had neglected for a long time

Now that I have a girlfriend, I feel way more grounded. I still get IOIs from time to time. Girls give more attention to guys that are taken for some reason and I sometimes do have urges and lust after random girls who give me attention but I still don't act on them because I love my gf and her companionship matters more to me than the temporary high.

In return for not banging random girls but you gain actual companionship, regular sex without the chase, emotional support, and someone who has your back. The trade off feels worth it for me. I’m not constantly anxious or hollow anymore. I'm quite happy and content with my life no. There's no constant craving for intimacy but that's just me

Maybe if you're Chad enoughyou can get all the benefits without the emotional investment and baggage. I wouldn't know. I'm just sharing my experience as a normie. What do you niggas think?

No you are an cuck dickhead if you go around fucking multiple girls all around. There is not benefit from it and you are not going to be happy with it. Having an girlfreind who you actually love and sleeping with her is ideal it is always the best.

 

[Jason Voorhees]

I am a khhv and tbh i dont even care about sex anymore, i just want a good looking girl to actually love me. I envy you nigga.

You'll get a girl one day too bro

 

[BigBallsLarry]

Long term relationships are optimal for happiness. I actually had this conversation with @Chad and we both agree that the entire concept of 'slaying' is retarded and pointless.

I think it's NORMAL for a human to crave fucking just for the sake of fucking, it's just sexual urges that every person has, but it won't satisfy you long term and will eventually lead to a feeling of emptiness (just like you said). The best part of having a girlfriend ISN'T SEX. It's the shared affection, passion, children and bonding.

 

[Deleted member 360680]

I am a khhv and tbh i dont even care about sex anymore, i just want a good looking girl to actually love me. I envy you nigga.

Same

 

[Deleted member 360680]

You'll get a girl one day too bro

 

[Daddy's Home]

I always hear this on the forum that by having a gf you missing out on the other girls/ opportunities and monogamy is self cucking. You’re missing out on all the other opportunities and pussy out there bro etc

This is something a short ugly dude would say after he saw a reel from a gymmax short ugly dude telling him "how it really is" with girls/serious relationships, and how when you're young you should go from one mid girl to another, and only after you're in your 30s and financially well off you should look for a serious relationship with an early 20s stacy who wants you because you're a "high value man"

I've turned down over 10 girls in my life who showed a lot of interest in me and wanted something more, and I'm still single now, so I don't know what to say about that, but definitely looking for long-term relationships is ideal, but it's often assumed that mid-ugly insecure girls are looking for serious relationships, while beautiful and desirable girls like promiscuity..

 

[Nectar]

What else am I supposed to do? Jfl

 

[Jason Voorhees]

Long term relationships are optimal for happiness. I actually had this conversation with @Chad and we both agree that the entire concept of 'slaying' is retarded and pointless.

I think it's NORMAL for a human to crave fucking just for the sake of fucking, it's just sexual urges that every person has, but it won't satisfy you long term and will eventually lead to a feeling of emptiness (just like you said). The best part of having a girlfriend ISN'T SEX. It's the shared affection, passion, children and bonding.

Agreed the best part of the gf isn't sex it's the intimacy, feeling desired and picked etc

 

[lovesjoyyy]

yeah but like its harder to get a gf then to slay so like

 

[Daddy's Home]

back when I was doing casual sex. I was genuinely miserable. I was addicted to alcohol and was degenerate myself and waking up next to girls that I didn't have any connection to, constantly chasing the next dopamine hit, dealing with flakes, drama, and the empty feeling afterward.

Also holy sexhavers fakecells.org

 

[lovesjoyyy]

Agreed the best part of the gf isn't sex it's the intimacy, feeling desired and picked etc

feeling wanted, love not lust , im envying u brot

 

[Deleted member 378632]

No in my opinion

 

[121]

I always hear this on the forum that by having a gf you missing out on the other girls/ opportunities and monogamy is self cucking. You’re missing out on all the other opportunities and pussy out there bro etc

I'll give my perspective and what my experiences were. I'm not some chad or whatever. I'm just a normie and back when I was doing casual sex. I was genuinely miserable. I was addicted to alcohol and was degenerate myself and waking up next to girls that I didn't have any connection to, constantly chasing the next dopamine hit, dealing with flakes, drama, and the empty feeling afterward. Everything felt incomplete. I lost my motivation, my peace, and felt lonely so I left that lifestyle and remained a celibate for a long time and focused on my academics, going to gym and fixing my life that I had neglected for a long time

Now that I have a girlfriend, I feel way more grounded. I still get IOIs from time to time. Girls give more attention to guys that are taken for some reason and I sometimes do have urges and lust after random girls who give me attention but I still don't act on them because I love my gf and her companionship matters more to me than the temporary high.

In return for not banging random girls but you gain actual companionship, regular sex without the chase, emotional support, and someone who has your back. The trade off feels worth it for me. I’m not constantly anxious or hollow anymore. I'm quite happy and content with my life now. There's no constant craving for intimacy but that's just me

Maybe if you're Chad enough you can get all the benefits without the emotional investment and baggage. I wouldn't know. I'm just sharing my experience as a normie. What do you niggas think?

dnr i agree tho

 

[willsmith]

I always hear this on the forum that by having a gf you missing out on the other girls/ opportunities and monogamy is self cucking. You’re missing out on all the other opportunities and pussy out there bro etc

I'll give my perspective and what my experiences were. I'm not some chad or whatever. I'm just a normie and back when I was doing casual sex. I was genuinely miserable. I was addicted to alcohol and was degenerate myself and waking up next to girls that I didn't have any connection to, constantly chasing the next dopamine hit, dealing with flakes, drama, and the empty feeling afterward. Everything felt incomplete. I lost my motivation, my peace, and felt lonely so I left that lifestyle and remained a celibate for a long time and focused on my academics, going to gym and fixing my life that I had neglected for a long time

Now that I have a girlfriend, I feel way more grounded. I still get IOIs from time to time. Girls give more attention to guys that are taken for some reason and I sometimes do have urges and lust after random girls who give me attention but I still don't act on them because I love my gf and her companionship matters more to me than the temporary high.

In return for not banging random girls but you gain actual companionship, regular sex without the chase, emotional support, and someone who has your back. The trade off feels worth it for me. I’m not constantly anxious or hollow anymore. I'm quite happy and content with my life now. There's no constant craving for intimacy but that's just me

Maybe if you're Chad enough you can get all the benefits without the emotional investment and baggage. I wouldn't know. I'm just sharing my experience as a normie. What do you niggas think?

He made a statement so true even org praised him
Totally agree, gf is law

 

[eology]

Also holy sexhavers fakecells.org

feels

 

[eology]

anyone has that og ER post where he calls out sex havers on incel forums

 

[norwegianjester]

I always hear this on the forum that by having a gf you missing out on the other girls/ opportunities and monogamy is self cucking. You’re missing out on all the other opportunities and pussy out there bro etc

I'll give my perspective and what my experiences were. I'm not some chad or whatever. I'm just a normie and back when I was doing casual sex. I was genuinely miserable. I was addicted to alcohol and was degenerate myself and waking up next to girls that I didn't have any connection to, constantly chasing the next dopamine hit, dealing with flakes, drama, and the empty feeling afterward. Everything felt incomplete. I lost my motivation, my peace, and felt lonely so I left that lifestyle and remained a celibate for a long time and focused on my academics, going to gym and fixing my life that I had neglected for a long time

Now that I have a girlfriend, I feel way more grounded. I still get IOIs from time to time. Girls give more attention to guys that are taken for some reason and I sometimes do have urges and lust after random girls who give me attention but I still don't act on them because I love my gf and her companionship matters more to me than the temporary high.

In return for not banging random girls but you gain actual companionship, regular sex without the chase, emotional support, and someone who has your back. The trade off feels worth it for me. I’m not constantly anxious or hollow anymore. I'm quite happy and content with my life now. There's no constant craving for intimacy but that's just me

Maybe if you're Chad enough you can get all the benefits without the emotional investment and baggage. I wouldn't know. I'm just sharing my experience as a normie. What do you niggas think?

I’ll just be happy if I get a girl atp even if she is ltb but I think I’m far from as i have never held a girls hand before and have not spoken to a girl my age in real life since 2021.

 

[Jason Voorhees]

bumo

 

[xevuxia]

I always hear this on the forum that by having a gf you missing out on the other girls/ opportunities and monogamy is self cucking. You’re missing out on all the other opportunities and pussy out there bro etc

I'll give my perspective and what my experiences were. I'm not some chad or whatever. I'm just a normie and back when I was doing casual sex. I was genuinely miserable. I was addicted to alcohol and was degenerate myself and waking up next to girls that I didn't have any connection to, constantly chasing the next dopamine hit, dealing with flakes, drama, and the empty feeling afterward. Everything felt incomplete. I lost my motivation, my peace, and felt lonely so I left that lifestyle and remained a celibate for a long time and focused on my academics, going to gym and fixing my life that I had neglected for a long time

Now that I have a girlfriend, I feel way more grounded. I still get IOIs from time to time. Girls give more attention to guys that are taken for some reason and I sometimes do have urges and lust after random girls who give me attention but I still don't act on them because I love my gf and her companionship matters more to me than the temporary high.

In return for not banging random girls but you gain actual companionship, regular sex without the chase, emotional support, and someone who has your back. The trade off feels worth it for me. I’m not constantly anxious or hollow anymore. I'm quite happy and content with my life now. There's no constant craving for intimacy but that's just me

Maybe if you're Chad enough you can get all the benefits without the emotional investment and baggage. I wouldn't know. I'm just sharing my experience as a normie. What do you niggas think?

@fartsniffer1135

 

[Chadeep]

 

[Jason Voorhees]

@Jimcel @Pony

 

[sphenoidnr]

I always hear this on the forum that by having a gf you missing out on the other girls/ opportunities and monogamy is self cucking. You’re missing out on all the other opportunities and pussy out there bro etc

I'll give my perspective and what my experiences were. I'm not some chad or whatever. I'm just a normie and back when I was doing casual sex. I was genuinely miserable. I was addicted to alcohol and was degenerate myself and waking up next to girls that I didn't have any connection to, constantly chasing the next dopamine hit, dealing with flakes, drama, and the empty feeling afterward. Everything felt incomplete. I lost my motivation, my peace, and felt lonely so I left that lifestyle and remained a celibate for a long time and focused on my academics, going to gym and fixing my life that I had neglected for a long time

Now that I have a girlfriend, I feel way more grounded. I still get IOIs from time to time. Girls give more attention to guys that are taken for some reason and I sometimes do have urges and lust after random girls who give me attention but I still don't act on them because I love my gf and her companionship matters more to me than the temporary high.

In return for not banging random girls but you gain actual companionship, regular sex without the chase, emotional support, and someone who has your back. The trade off feels worth it for me. I’m not constantly anxious or hollow anymore. I'm quite happy and content with my life now. There's no constant craving for intimacy but that's just me

Maybe if you're Chad enough you can get all the benefits without the emotional investment and baggage. I wouldn't know. I'm just sharing my experience as a normie. What do you niggas think?

Anyone who goes to clubs and slay are just closeted gays chuds

 

[Jimcel]

I always hear this on the forum that by having a gf you missing out on the other girls/ opportunities and monogamy is self cucking. You’re missing out on all the other opportunities and pussy out there bro etc

I'll give my perspective and what my experiences were. I'm not some chad or whatever. I'm just a normie and back when I was doing casual sex. I was genuinely miserable. I was addicted to alcohol and was degenerate myself and waking up next to girls that I didn't have any connection to, constantly chasing the next dopamine hit, dealing with flakes, drama, and the empty feeling afterward. Everything felt incomplete. I lost my motivation, my peace, and felt lonely so I left that lifestyle and remained a celibate for a long time and focused on my academics, going to gym and fixing my life that I had neglected for a long time

Now that I have a girlfriend, I feel way more grounded. I still get IOIs from time to time. Girls give more attention to guys that are taken for some reason and I sometimes do have urges and lust after random girls who give me attention but I still don't act on them because I love my gf and her companionship matters more to me than the temporary high.

In return for not banging random girls but you gain actual companionship, regular sex without the chase, emotional support, and someone who has your back. The trade off feels worth it for me. I’m not constantly anxious or hollow anymore. I'm quite happy and content with my life now. There's no constant craving for intimacy but that's just me

Maybe if you're Chad enough you can get all the benefits without the emotional investment and baggage. I wouldn't know. I'm just sharing my experience as a normie. What do you niggas think?

you aren't 'cucking' yourself

all it comes down to prefence, i havent really gone round sleeping with girls idk much

but i prefer sleeping with a girl im in a LTR with, i just feel more comfortable and the whole idea of sleeping with a girl you are close with appeals to me more.

it just seems more 'special' to me.

I dont get an awful lot of IOIs so im not missing out on anything anyway

 

[pony]

when I had a gf I felt locked in a cage that I wanted out of bad don’t think i’m built for relationships only copes

 

[joao23]

I always hear this on the forum that by having a gf you missing out on the other girls/ opportunities and monogamy is self cucking. You’re missing out on all the other opportunities and pussy out there bro etc

I'll give my perspective and what my experiences were. I'm not some chad or whatever. I'm just a normie and back when I was doing casual sex. I was genuinely miserable. I was addicted to alcohol and was degenerate myself and waking up next to girls that I didn't have any connection to, constantly chasing the next dopamine hit, dealing with flakes, drama, and the empty feeling afterward. Everything felt incomplete. I lost my motivation, my peace, and felt lonely so I left that lifestyle and remained a celibate for a long time and focused on my academics, going to gym and fixing my life that I had neglected for a long time

Now that I have a girlfriend, I feel way more grounded. I still get IOIs from time to time. Girls give more attention to guys that are taken for some reason and I sometimes do have urges and lust after random girls who give me attention but I still don't act on them because I love my gf and her companionship matters more to me than the temporary high.

In return for not banging random girls but you gain actual companionship, regular sex without the chase, emotional support, and someone who has your back. The trade off feels worth it for me. I’m not constantly anxious or hollow anymore. I'm quite happy and content with my life now. There's no constant craving for intimacy but that's just me

Maybe if you're Chad enough you can get all the benefits without the emotional investment and baggage. I wouldn't know. I'm just sharing my experience as a normie. What do you niggas think?

Bro, to have a loyal GF today, you need to be at least mid HTN+, lower you are just another one, i discovered this in the most brutal mode possible

 

[browncurrycel]

Explain jfl react! @browncurrycel

I'm just a normie

back when I was doing casual sex

I'm just sharing my experience as a normie

If this is meant to be a experience every average normal man has in life, i should just commit atp. There's just nothing going on here in my life

 

[Centurion Hunter]

r. I'm just a normie

6 2 chadpreet

 

[Jason Voorhees]

@epic09

 

[Sadist]

just pick your hoes well and you’re gucci