Is having a girlfriend optimal?

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do you think you’d be able to progress and better you life in all aspects like physical,socially,financially,spiritually,mentally,etc if you had a girlfriend or if you did it alone?

Me personally I think having a girlfriend would slow me down and I wouldn’t be as motivated to achieve my goals because I’d have a constant source of dopamine and oxytocin being like ‘no baby you don’t need to improve yourself your already perfect the way you are’. JFL…

There’s a famous quote by some guy who said “You grow the most at your loneliest” and I think it’s true tbh
 
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Having a gf is much better than grinding solo
 
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do you think you’d be able to progress and better you life in all aspects like physical,socially,financially,spiritually,mentally,etc if you had a girlfriend or if you did it alone?

Me personally I think having a girlfriend would slow me down and I wouldn’t be as motivated to achieve my goals because I’d have a constant source of dopamine and oxytocin being like ‘no baby you don’t need to improve yourself your already perfect the way you are’. JFL…

There’s a famous quote by some guy who said “You grow the most at your loneliest” and I think it’s true tbh
Not like i would know:feelskek:
 
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do you think you’d be able to progress and better you life in all aspects like physical,socially,financially,spiritually,mentally,etc if you had a girlfriend or if you did it alone?

Me personally I think having a girlfriend would slow me down and I wouldn’t be as motivated to achieve my goals because I’d have a constant source of dopamine and oxytocin being like ‘no baby you don’t need to improve yourself your already perfect the way you are’. JFL…

There’s a famous quote by some guy who said “You grow the most at your loneliest” and I think it’s true tbh
friends with benefits is optimal for oxytocin without the stress of a real relationship
 
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friends with benefits is optimal for oxytocin without the stress of a real relationship
True I’ve never had a FWB situation so maybe your onto something
 
do you think you’d be able to progress and better you life in all aspects like physical,socially,financially,spiritually,mentally,etc if you had a girlfriend or if you did it alone?

Me personally I think having a girlfriend would slow me down and I wouldn’t be as motivated to achieve my goals because I’d have a constant source of dopamine and oxytocin being like ‘no baby you don’t need to improve yourself your already perfect the way you are’. JFL…

There’s a famous quote by some guy who said “You grow the most at your loneliest” and I think it’s true tbh
having a gf
 
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But would you be as motivated? Cause think about it any time you wanna quit instead of feeling like shit you’ll always feel good cause you can just be with her yk
 
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Destroys your socialization potential, especially with girls. Looksmatch + personality is hard enough, so finding all that plus a girl with the same goals and values who is motivated enough to push you is even more rare, and chances are she’ll just want to stay in with you and waste months at a time.
 
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no they increase cortisol
 
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Destroys your socialization potential, especially with girls. Looksmatch + personality is hard enough, so finding all that plus a girl with the same goals and values who is motivated enough to push you is even more rare, and chances are she’ll just want to stay in with you and waste months at a time.
Bro finally someone who gets it. Yes that’s exactly what I’m talking about. The people here don’t understand how hard it is to find a girlfriend who actually pushes you instead of enabling you to be lazy and simp-like.
 
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Only LTR virgins nigga all the other hoes end up leaving you
 
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Yes.
 
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No she'll drain your hardmax funds
 
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Progress? Im already maxxed out esp financially so its mandatory for me.
 
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its kinda boring tbh
 
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id use her just to have sex and forget tbf
 
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do you think you’d be able to progress and better you life in all aspects like physical,socially,financially,spiritually,mentally,etc if you had a girlfriend or if you did it alone?

Me personally I think having a girlfriend would slow me down and I wouldn’t be as motivated to achieve my goals because I’d have a constant source of dopamine and oxytocin being like ‘no baby you don’t need to improve yourself your already perfect the way you are’. JFL…

There’s a famous quote by some guy who said “You grow the most at your loneliest” and I think it’s true tbh
Yes bro, bc having a girl motivates you… a normie last night from my school just asked me for looksmaxxing advice, and I replied with “you have a cute happy relationship” (he actually has a good looking girlfriend for being LTN she’s like a HMTB) and he said”bro I know but I want to Improve so she doesn’t leave me” the strive with a girlfriend genuinely helps
 
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do you think you’d be able to progress and better you life in all aspects like physical,socially,financially,spiritually,mentally,etc if you had a girlfriend or if you did it alone?

Me personally I think having a girlfriend would slow me down and I wouldn’t be as motivated to achieve my goals because I’d have a constant source of dopamine and oxytocin being like ‘no baby you don’t need to improve yourself your already perfect the way you are’. JFL…

There’s a famous quote by some guy who said “You grow the most at your loneliest” and I think it’s true tbh
nah
 
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do you think you’d be able to progress and better you life in all aspects like physical,socially,financially,spiritually,mentally,etc if you had a girlfriend or if you did it alone?

Me personally I think having a girlfriend would slow me down and I wouldn’t be as motivated to achieve my goals because I’d have a constant source of dopamine and oxytocin being like ‘no baby you don’t need to improve yourself your already perfect the way you are’. JFL…

There’s a famous quote by some guy who said “You grow the most at your loneliest” and I think it’s true tbh
If shes nice
 

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