antiantifa
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Apologies for the long post, this is my first ever post!
So I've been dating this guy for two months, and I'm having strong indications that he is an Alpha, but I'd love to know other's thoughts on this.
Because he is very physically attractive, confident and relaxed around women. He has clearly been around women many times and knows them very well and how to read me.
Even though he is financially not well off and his job is not high status, he still has a very high level of respect for himself and this makes me attracted to him. I think if he lost his confidence I would fall out of love with him.
Because he is so confident, I can feel relaxed and safe around him. He leads, while still respecting my wishes and making sure I'm enjoying myself.
On our first date he directed it so we went to 3 different venues, wasn't shy or awkward at all. At the time I was also seeing an MD who was financially doing very well, and friends told me i should choose him but I didn't because his awkwardness was an instant turn off.
Dating seems to come naturally to him, he doesn't seem nervous or uncomfortable. He is clearly in control of the situation, without needing to use any force or pressure whatsoever.
If I want to leave, I can and he won't be upset. He's clearly told me my options, if I cheat, the relationship is over, no second chances. Even if we were together for 50 years and had 12 kids he would break up in one second if I was unfaithful.
This makes me respect him because he respects himself.
Because he is calm and confident and in control of the situation, I instantly feel safe and relaxed (I have anxiety issues) and I've never felt this way with anyone before.
So is he a red pill guy without knowing it?
TLDR: I think I'm dating a guy who's red pill without knowing it
So I've been dating this guy for two months, and I'm having strong indications that he is an Alpha, but I'd love to know other's thoughts on this.
Because he is very physically attractive, confident and relaxed around women. He has clearly been around women many times and knows them very well and how to read me.
Even though he is financially not well off and his job is not high status, he still has a very high level of respect for himself and this makes me attracted to him. I think if he lost his confidence I would fall out of love with him.
Because he is so confident, I can feel relaxed and safe around him. He leads, while still respecting my wishes and making sure I'm enjoying myself.
On our first date he directed it so we went to 3 different venues, wasn't shy or awkward at all. At the time I was also seeing an MD who was financially doing very well, and friends told me i should choose him but I didn't because his awkwardness was an instant turn off.
Dating seems to come naturally to him, he doesn't seem nervous or uncomfortable. He is clearly in control of the situation, without needing to use any force or pressure whatsoever.
If I want to leave, I can and he won't be upset. He's clearly told me my options, if I cheat, the relationship is over, no second chances. Even if we were together for 50 years and had 12 kids he would break up in one second if I was unfaithful.
This makes me respect him because he respects himself.
Because he is calm and confident and in control of the situation, I instantly feel safe and relaxed (I have anxiety issues) and I've never felt this way with anyone before.
So is he a red pill guy without knowing it?
TLDR: I think I'm dating a guy who's red pill without knowing it
