Is Interaction Worth It

[tyowuwe]

Most people dont have the intellectual capacity to hold a deep and sustained converstation, most women are superficial and will only listen to you speak if their brain deems you worth it based on your status or appearance, and therapists and only listen to you talk for money. Is there any hope for any form of meaningful converse with another human being or is social recluse the only way to live at this point.

 

[eyes33]

just talk to smart people

 

[yyk117]

honestly yes. i was thinking the same thing but 2 weeks ago i met a polish guy who is really into similar things as me and he is extremely intellectual. the chances of finding a person that you can have actual conversations should fuel you to have interactions.

 

[iblamemyhabits]

talk to drunk people
I'm being fr

 

[tyowuwe]

just talk to smart people

The rarity of that shit is so crazytho

 

[tyowuwe]

honestly yes. i was thinking the same thing but 2 weeks ago i met a polish guy who is really into similar things as me and he is extremely intellectual. the chances of finding a person that you can have actual conversations should fuel you to have interactions.

Youre right. Its just so painstaking having to interact with dipshits whose most important character trait is their favorite movie.

 

[tyowuwe]

talk to drunk people
I'm being fr

WHy? Cuz the speak their heart or sum?

 

[yyk117]

Youre right. Its just so painstaking having to interact with dipshits whose most important character trait is their favorite movie.

i fully agree with you. but unfortunately you will have to go through multiple retards to find a smart person

 

[iblamemyhabits]

WHy? Cuz the speak their heart or sum?

cause they speak their true thoughts
My deepest conversations were when I was drunk/high with other drunk/high people

 

[tyowuwe]

cause they speak their true thoughts
My deepest conversations were when I was drunk/high with other drunk/high people

Fair point. But then again most alcoholics are like that because of their dumb decisions (Atleast the ones I know). But I think I have had a decent conversation with drunk girl once.

 

[sasha108]

I wanted to post some bullshit and write DNR, but bro, it's true. I feel like because of this I'm losing connection with some of my friends. When I describe a problem or tell them something, I have doubts that they actually understand what I’m trying to say, or that they even care(some of them)

 

[tyowuwe]

I wanted to post some bullshit and write DNR, but bro, it's true. I feel like because of this I'm losing connection with some of my friends. When I describe a problem or tell them something, I have doubts that they actually understand what I’m trying to say, or that they even care(some of them)

Every time I talk about dying (I know right im so deep and philosophical ) or politics in the world everyone just brushes off the conversation and doesn't actually want to confront any truly deep form of converse.

 

[sasha108]

Every time I talk about dying (I know right im so deep and philosophical ) or politics in the world everyone just brushes off the conversation and doesn't actually want to confront any truly deep form of converse.

My main problem is this one, and for some reason I sometimes feel like there is a lack of respect. Not in the sense of bullying or anything like that, but more in the sense of being ignored sometimes, people not really listening to what I say, and things like that.

I still have friends who I don’t have these problems with, but I feel like I’m going to lose connection with a lot of people because of this.

 

[Latinolooksmaxxer]

Yes offtopic threads

 

[iblamemyhabits]

Fair point. But then again most alcoholics are like that because of their dumb decisions (Atleast the ones I know). But I think I have had a decent conversation with drunk girl once.

I'm not talking about alcoholics, just conventional drunk people
Tho talking to a alcoholic could be interesting if he's open enough to talk about his problems and why he became an alcoholic, which is unlikely
Also, u should start to react to the replies, most users will likely ignore u if u dont rep them

 

[tyowuwe]

My main problem is this one, and for some reason I sometimes feel like there is a lack of respect. Not in the sense of bullying or anything like that, but more in the sense of being ignored sometimes, people not really listening to what I say, and things like that.

I still have friends who I don’t have these problems with, but I feel like I’m going to lose connection with a lot of people because of this.

I just cut off everyone at this point in my life. If someone sees value in my words they will recognize it. No point in trying to earn respect from the narrow minded.

 

[sasha108]

I just cut off everyone at this point in my life. If someone sees value in my words they will recognize it. No point in trying to earn respect from the narrow minded.

True. I’ve really narrowed down my social circle. Even if it isn’t necessarily disrespect, this kind of communication pushes me away.

 

[tyowuwe]

I'm not talking about alcoholics, just conventional drunk people
Tho talking to a alcoholic could be interesting if he's open enough to talk about his problems and why he became an alcoholic, which is unlikely
Also, u should start to react to the replies, most users will likely ignore u if u dont rep them

Yes thanks bhai. I guess I'll have to try and see who I can meet. More social outgoing behavior in hopes of finding meaningful interaction

 

[miserycel]

Most people dont have the intellectual capacity to hold a deep and sustained converstation, most women are superficial and will only listen to you speak if their brain deems you worth it based on your status or appearance, and therapists and only listen to you talk for money. Is there any hope for any form of meaningful converse with another human being or is social recluse the only way to live at this point.

Dude totalyyyy

 

[iblamemyhabits]

i rather pretend to be dumb like them than to cut them off

I just cut off everyone at this point in my life. If someone sees value in my words they will recognize it. No point in trying to earn respect from the narrow minded.

 

[miserycel]

Most people dont have the intellectual capacity to hold a deep and sustained converstation, most women are superficial and will only listen to you speak if their brain deems you worth it based on your status or appearance, and therapists and only listen to you talk for money. Is there any hope for any form of meaningful converse with another human being or is social recluse the only way to live at this point.

Dude totalyyyy

 

[tyowuwe]

True. I’ve really narrowed down my social circle. Even if it isn’t necessarily disrespect, this kind of communication pushes me away.

A lot of people really just seem shallow man. One of the worsts part of the world.

 

[tyowuwe]

i rather pretend to be dumb like them than to cut them off

I tried that. And masking is so exhausting bro.

 

[Anatole]

Most people dont have the intellectual capacity to hold a deep and sustained converstation, most women are superficial and will only listen to you speak if their brain deems you worth it based on your status or appearance, and therapists and only listen to you talk for money. Is there any hope for any form of meaningful converse with another human being or is social recluse the only way to live at this point.

Find friends with who you can engage in deep conversations.
Each year, new class, I always find myself being friend with the other mentally open and smart people of the class. All the others are just passers-by in my school year.

 

[tyowuwe]

Find friends with who you can engage in deep conversations.
Each year, new class, I always find myself being friend with the other mentally open and smart people of the class. All the others are just passers-by in my school year.

Unironically the most bonding I felt was with heavily neurodivergent"awkward" kids. They tend to be very profound and so wholesome.

 

[iblamemyhabits]

Find friends with who you can engage in deep conversations.
Each year, new class, I always find myself being friend with the other mentally open and smart people of the class. All the others are just passers-by in my school year.

usually the "smart people" of the class are the most narrow-minded ones

 

[Anatole]

Unironically the most bonding I felt was with heavily neurodivergent"awkward" kids. They tend to be very profound and so wholesome.

I relate. Though online, I've been talking with a neurodivergent girl for a few months now, it is very fulfilling. She's really intelligent, pretty funny, and doesn't bother engaging in deep conversations from time to time.

 

[Anatole]

usually the "smart people" of the class are the most narrow-minded ones

When I said "smart" I didn't mean students that had the higher grades, as having good grades relies more on work than mental capacity.

 

[sonic55555]

not a single person on this earth gives a fuck about yo. life only revolves around securing a partner to have sex with

 

[tyowuwe]

not a single person on this earth gives a fuck about yo. life only revolves around securing a partner to have sex with

Yeah pretty much. But life is what you make of it to sum degree.

 

[sonic55555]

Yeah pretty much. But life is what you make of it to sum degree.

Indeed indeed