Is it a bad thing all my dates are from cold approach?

[Deleted member 25223]

All my school friends date & fuck girls/guys from their social circle. I was the kid that was a little weird with no social status so that was never an option for me.

After university and highschool people's social circles start to disintegrate and the normies with decent social status find it alot harder to get into relationships and have sex, while I can get a girl if you give me a couple hours on a busy street.

But I guess that normie that didn't struggle until his mid twenties can start cold approaching whenever.

 

[EXTREME SUBHUMAN]

No, it is just extremely inefficient

 

[cytoplasm]

Yes.

 

[AspiringMogger]

All my school friends date & fuck girls/guys from their social circle. I was the kid that was a little weird with no social status so that was never an option for me.

After university and highschool people's social circles start to disintegrate and the normies with decent social status find it alot harder to get into relationships and have sex, while I can get a girl if you give me a couple hours on a busy street.

But I guess that normie that didn't struggle until his mid twenties can start cold approaching whenever.

Not at all. The only issue is if you are looking for a LTR, doing so from cold approaching is an absolute shitshow. You won’t know the way she behaved before you two dated, you won’t truly know the extent of her dating history and she is gonna be a major mystery. For slaying cold approaching doesn’t matter tho

 

[Deleted member 25223]

Yes.

why though? I barely get any matches and the ones that are responsive are always less attractive then the girls I talk to.

 

[Deleted member 25223]

Not at all. The only issue is if you are looking for a LTR, doing so from cold approaching is an absolute shitshow. You won’t know the way she behaved before you two dated, you won’t truly know the extent of her dating history and she is gonna be a major mystery. For slaying cold approaching doesn’t matter tho

same goes for online dating which is like 30-50% of the way people meet

 

[AspiringMogger]

same goes for online dating which is like 30-50% of the way people meet

Another reason it’s over.

 

[BearBoy]

All the girls I get are with cold approach and it works very well.

 

[New Poster]

Do what works

 

[Clown Show]

while I can get a girl if you give me a couple hours on a busy street.

On busy streets of Mumbai.

 

[Deleted member 25223]

No, it is just extremely inefficient

Online dating is pointless for me even the overweight girls flake when I ask them for their number, and I can't even get one match a day.

 

[cytoplasm]

why though? I barely get any matches and the ones that are responsive are always less attractive then the girls I talk to.

Because the highest quality girls are from social circles. So you are missing out

 

[Deleted member 25223]

Because the highest quality girls are from social circles. So you are missing out

As long as that girl leaves the house to go to her lecture...


I pounce

 

[Deleted member 25223]

Because the highest quality girls are from social circles. So you are missing out

I'm going to be going university in the future so its going to be quite a bit easier

 

[Deleted member 19610]

Do you not realise this forum is entirely a bunch of misfit rejected weirdos?

 

[cytoplasm]

I'm going to be going university in the future so its going to be quite a bit easier

So you're in high school now?

 

[Deleted member 25223]

On busy streets of Mumbai.

Do you not realise this forum is entirely a bunch of misfit rejected weirdos?

obviously we got pua deniers here

 

[Clown Show]

obviously we got pua deniers here

How do you cold approach?

 

[Deleted member 25223]

How do you cold approach?

I try to be more direct but the few girls I got from cold approach were very flakey until by Iuck I saw them again.

The only way you know it works is by walking away from an interaction like "that girl really liked me and we had a good conversation and vibed well" (which is really hard to do when ur not chad or don't have insanely good social skills) because in reality when guys get numbers they get flaked on, relatively my game is very beginer but I'm HTN.

 

[Deleted member 19610]

JFL and what makes your game not a "beginner"

 

[Deleted member 23218]

N

Because the highest quality girls are from social circles. So you are missing out

ot possible to get a social circle if ur not gl enough

 

[cytoplasm]

N

ot possible to get a social circle if ur not gl enough

I mean if you're ugly yeah. But any normie can. And iirc op claims to be htn or something

 

[Deleted member 25223]

JFL and what makes your game not a "beginner"

done like 70 approaches in total, the pua ytbers say approach anxiety goes after 100-400 approaches

 

[Deleted member 19610]

lmao

 

[Deleted member 25223]

I mean if you're ugly yeah. But any normie can. And iirc op claims to be htn or something

ye I only recently ascended a bit after strict calorie counting, I was MTN for most my approaches though

 

[cytoplasm]

ye I only recently ascended a bit after strict calorie counting, I was MTN for most my approaches though

So just socialcirclemaxx whats the issue

 

[Deleted member 31889]

I try to be more direct but the few girls I got from cold approach were very flakey until by Iuck I saw them again.

The only way you know it works is by walking away from an interaction like "that girl really liked me and we had a good conversation and vibed well" (which is really hard to do when ur not chad or don't have insanely good social skills) because in reality when guys get numbers they get flaked on, relatively my game is very beginer but I'm HTN.

You fucking retard if you were HTN you'd get 10+ matches a day

 

[Deleted member 25223]

lmao

being 6'1/6'0 MTN/HTN makes it alot easier than joe schmo, this guy says 300 approaches for an average looking beginer to slay one girl.
I got a girl who was dtf from my first 20 approaches and dating one now that seems to be going into an LTR

 

[Deleted member 25223]

You fucking retard if you were HTN you'd get 10+ matches a day

Ethnic tax

 

[Deleted member 23218]

I mean if you're ugly yeah. But any normie can. And iirc op claims to be htn or something

I messed up in the begenning of uni so it’s over I didn’t go to any parties invited too cuz high inhib but I’m taking a gap year now

 

[Deleted member 19610]

I gotta just ignore list these idiots from the jump. Better threads to waste my time in

 

[cytoplasm]

I messed up in the begenning of uni so it’s over I didn’t go to any parties invited too cuz high inhib but I’m taking a gap year now

Meanwhile i didnt get any invites to anything

Good idea. Looksmaxx and lowinhibmaxx in the meantime

 

[Deleted member 25223]

Meanwhile i didnt get any invites to anything

Good idea. Looksmaxx and lowinhibmaxx in the meantime

I messed up in the begenning of uni so it’s over I didn’t go to any parties invited too cuz high inhib but I’m taking a gap year now

I go out with mates once a week now, girls and guys, went to a party a few weeks ago actually do things with friends 2-4 times a week

 

[Deleted member 31889]

Ethnic tax

Sounds like a larp still. What do you look like?

 

[Deleted member 25223]

Sounds like a larp still. What do you look like?

fuck man i still don't understand it, I went from getting roughly 1 match a month from hinge to roughly 3 a week with utter trash quality women when I got better photos and ascended a bit

I'm gonna keep cutting I've still got a long way to go from 15-16% body fat

 

[Blackgymmax]

The fact that you were able to defy the odds and get stuff on cold approaches is amazing. Props to you

 

[Deleted member 31889]

fuck man i still don't understand it, I went from getting roughly 1 match a month from hinge to roughly 3 a week with utter trash quality women when I got better photos and ascended a bit

I'm gonna keep cutting I've still got a long way to go from 15-16% body fat

Massive LARP. You ain't HTN. I got like 2 matches a day on Tinder before looksmaxing as a 15 year old

 

[Deleted member 25223]

Massive LARP. You ain't HTN. I got like 2 matches a day on Tinder before looksmaxing as a 15 year old

u in north america or europe, i think tinder is 89% men in uk while 77% in usa

 

[Deleted member 25223]

Massive LARP. You ain't HTN. I got like 2 matches a day on Tinder before looksmaxing as a 15 year old

I mog tom holland who gets called htn on here

 

[Deleted member 31889]

u in north america or europe, i think tinder is 89% men in uk while 77% in usa

Bro I live in Europe and I got 2 matches a day with this:
I look like utter Shit and nowhere near HTN

 

[Deleted member 25223]

Bro I live in Europe and I got 2 matches a day with this:
I look like utter Shit and nowhere near HTN

ur pretty much HTN in my books at better lighting but I should be getting more matches unless ur eastern europe becuase I got photos that look quite professional

 

[Deleted member 31889]

ur pretty much HTN in my books at better lighting but I should be getting more matches unless ur eastern europe becuase I got photos that look quite professional

Still im 15 Bro, ethnic tax can't be worse than Pedo tax

 

[Deleted member 23218]

Meanwhile i didnt get any invites to anything

Good idea. Looksmaxx and lowinhibmaxx in the meantime

I will just gymcel and coloring maxx while I work. It was just people on my dorm hyper nt people

 

[Deleted member 29786]

Bro I live in Europe and I got 2 matches a day with this:
I look like utter Shit and nowhere near HTN

 

[Deleted member 31889]

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That nose is edited btw
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[Clown Show]

relatively my game is very beginer but I'm HTN.

Stopped reading there.

Thread closed.

 

[Deleted member 25223]

the girl I went on a date with said, you're so good looking you've only been approached in a club a few times

and every girl I've gotten since i started looksmaxing complimented me looks this other one said i was so pretty and another asked if i had a girlfriend with geniune desire and lust in her eyes in a club we made out i played with her breasts and ass

 

[ShowerMaxxing]

Online dating is pointless for me even the overweight girls flake when I ask them for their number, and I can't even get one match a day.

Why is your success so much better irl? Size?

 

[Deleted member 25223]

Why is your success so much better irl? Size?

sam reason you see LTN with MTB or looksmatched couples when you go outside, except I'm getting my looksmatch or slightly below because looks only matter alot when your on tinder thats 90% men

 

[Ken]

Not at all. The only issue is if you are looking for a LTR, doing so from cold approaching is an absolute shitshow. You won’t know the way she behaved before you two dated, you won’t truly know the extent of her dating history and she is gonna be a major mystery. For slaying cold approaching doesn’t matter tho

All dating apps tell you is that shes a slut. Once you know her name you can easily find her on social media and see what shes like there.