Is it a curse or blessing to be invisible

[Aetheron]

Let’s just say you’re a mid looking men with the potential of a htn and ltn if you descend

Let’s just say u look like this. What do u think the optimal strategy for navigating through life would be option a is very low profile guy with full financial independence we lives freely he’s a nobody. We can compare him to Tyler durden from fight club
Pros:
1. Reduced social pressure

• Fewer expectations to perform socially or maintain image
• Less comparison with others

2. Safe from the mog

• Less frequent direct comparison with higher-status or more attractive peers
• Less exposure to environments where you feel visually or socially outclassed
• Reduced self-consciousness triggered by constant status comparison

3. Lower conflict and drama

• Fewer interpersonal issues, gossip cycles, or reputation damage

5. Gift of anonymity

• Lower exposure to scams, harassment, targeted attention

Cons:

1 humans and all other species have a goal of being the most respected in the tribe(even in animals) that is after survival and reproduction. This will be always in our head to get fame or get social validation or status in some way. This thing will always affect your self esteem

2 no status halo to slay chicks or get celebrity treatment(self explanatory)

3 .Delayed “upgrading signal” effect

• Looksmax improvements only matter when others notice the change
• Low profile = improvements don’t convert into social rank shift

4 No sexual attention conditioning

• Stares, validation signals, subtle attraction cues train confidence
• Without it, your brain doesn’t normalize being perceived as attractive

5 there will always be a feeling in your head that you didn’t do anything great in life whereas there is no objective meaning to life but our monkey mind needs social validation

————————————————————

What do you think the optimal strategy to live life is some highiq ntcels preach that’s it’s a blessing to be invisible and live your life comfortably but the question I ask is. Is that life even worth living. They say suregrymaxx get a job or drive trucks and get a girl and live your life. What are your opinions on this
Which life is better no fame or fame to simply. Put it

 

[Aetheron]

Bump

 

[MirinDaZygos]

Let’s just say you’re a mid looking men with the potential of a htn and ltn if you descend

so mtn?

 

[Aetheron]

Let’s just say you’re a mid looking men with the potential of a htn and ltn if you descend


View attachment 4911970

Let’s just say u look like this. What do u think the optimal strategy for navigating through life would be option a is very low profile guy with full financial independence we lives freely he’s a nobody. We can compare him to Tyler durden from fight club
Pros:
1. Reduced social pressure

• Fewer expectations to perform socially or maintain image
• Less comparison with others

2. Safe from the mog

• Less frequent direct comparison with higher-status or more attractive peers
• Less exposure to environments where you feel visually or socially outclassed
• Reduced self-consciousness triggered by constant status comparison

3. Lower conflict and drama

• Fewer interpersonal issues, gossip cycles, or reputation damage

5. Gift of anonymity

• Lower exposure to scams, harassment, targeted attention

Cons:

1 humans and all other species have a goal of being the most respected in the tribe(even in animals) that is after survival and reproduction. This will be always in our head to get fame or get social validation or status in some way. This thing will always affect your self esteem

2 no status halo to slay chicks or get celebrity treatment(self explanatory)

3 .Delayed “upgrading signal” effect

• Looksmax improvements only matter when others notice the change
• Low profile = improvements don’t convert into social rank shift

4 No sexual attention conditioning

• Stares, validation signals, subtle attraction cues train confidence
• Without it, your brain doesn’t normalize being perceived as attractive

5 there will always be a feeling in your head that you didn’t do anything great in life whereas there is no objective meaning to life but our monkey mind needs social validation

————————————————————

What do you think the optimal strategy to live life is some highiq ntcels preach that’s it’s a blessing to be invisible and live your life comfortably but the question I ask is. Is that life even worth living. They say suregrymaxx get a job or drive trucks and get a girl and live your life. What are your opinions on this
Which life is better no fame or fame to simply. Put it

Bump

 

[Aetheron]

so mtn?

Yeah mtn

 

[dogpound]

Dnr ai slop

 

[Aetheron]

Let’s just say you’re a mid looking men with the potential of a htn and ltn if you descend


View attachment 4911970

Let’s just say u look like this. What do u think the optimal strategy for navigating through life would be option a is very low profile guy with full financial independence we lives freely he’s a nobody. We can compare him to Tyler durden from fight club
Pros:
1. Reduced social pressure

• Fewer expectations to perform socially or maintain image
• Less comparison with others

2. Safe from the mog

• Less frequent direct comparison with higher-status or more attractive peers
• Less exposure to environments where you feel visually or socially outclassed
• Reduced self-consciousness triggered by constant status comparison

3. Lower conflict and drama

• Fewer interpersonal issues, gossip cycles, or reputation damage

5. Gift of anonymity

• Lower exposure to scams, harassment, targeted attention

Cons:

1 humans and all other species have a goal of being the most respected in the tribe(even in animals) that is after survival and reproduction. This will be always in our head to get fame or get social validation or status in some way. This thing will always affect your self esteem

2 no status halo to slay chicks or get celebrity treatment(self explanatory)

3 .Delayed “upgrading signal” effect

• Looksmax improvements only matter when others notice the change
• Low profile = improvements don’t convert into social rank shift

4 No sexual attention conditioning

• Stares, validation signals, subtle attraction cues train confidence
• Without it, your brain doesn’t normalize being perceived as attractive

5 there will always be a feeling in your head that you didn’t do anything great in life whereas there is no objective meaning to life but our monkey mind needs social validation

————————————————————

What do you think the optimal strategy to live life is some highiq ntcels preach that’s it’s a blessing to be invisible and live your life comfortably but the question I ask is. Is that life even worth living. They say suregrymaxx get a job or drive trucks and get a girl and live your life. What are your opinions on this
Which life is better no fame or fame to simply. Put it

Bump

 

[chudcell999]

Let’s just say you’re a mid looking men with the potential of a htn and ltn if you descend


View attachment 4911970

Let’s just say u look like this. What do u think the optimal strategy for navigating through life would be option a is very low profile guy with full financial independence we lives freely he’s a nobody. We can compare him to Tyler durden from fight club
Pros:
1. Reduced social pressure

• Fewer expectations to perform socially or maintain image
• Less comparison with others

2. Safe from the mog

• Less frequent direct comparison with higher-status or more attractive peers
• Less exposure to environments where you feel visually or socially outclassed
• Reduced self-consciousness triggered by constant status comparison

3. Lower conflict and drama

• Fewer interpersonal issues, gossip cycles, or reputation damage

5. Gift of anonymity

• Lower exposure to scams, harassment, targeted attention

Cons:

1 humans and all other species have a goal of being the most respected in the tribe(even in animals) that is after survival and reproduction. This will be always in our head to get fame or get social validation or status in some way. This thing will always affect your self esteem

2 no status halo to slay chicks or get celebrity treatment(self explanatory)

3 .Delayed “upgrading signal” effect

• Looksmax improvements only matter when others notice the change
• Low profile = improvements don’t convert into social rank shift

4 No sexual attention conditioning

• Stares, validation signals, subtle attraction cues train confidence
• Without it, your brain doesn’t normalize being perceived as attractive

5 there will always be a feeling in your head that you didn’t do anything great in life whereas there is no objective meaning to life but our monkey mind needs social validation

————————————————————

What do you think the optimal strategy to live life is some highiq ntcels preach that’s it’s a blessing to be invisible and live your life comfortably but the question I ask is. Is that life even worth living. They say suregrymaxx get a job or drive trucks and get a girl and live your life. What are your opinions on this
Which life is better no fame or fame to simply. Put it

Not going to lie I DNR ed but yes being invisible is good because you can't get humiliated but even that's not true not to mention you would only want to be invisible if you are not Chad so being invisible it's just a reminder how much of a genetic failure you are because no one wants to truly be 100% invisible they just don't want to be judged or be looked at as less which is only a fear for someone who is actually less

 

[Aetheron]

Let’s just say you’re a mid looking men with the potential of a htn and ltn if you descend


View attachment 4911970

Let’s just say u look like this. What do u think the optimal strategy for navigating through life would be option a is very low profile guy with full financial independence we lives freely he’s a nobody. We can compare him to Tyler durden from fight club
Pros:
1. Reduced social pressure

• Fewer expectations to perform socially or maintain image
• Less comparison with others

2. Safe from the mog

• Less frequent direct comparison with higher-status or more attractive peers
• Less exposure to environments where you feel visually or socially outclassed
• Reduced self-consciousness triggered by constant status comparison

3. Lower conflict and drama

• Fewer interpersonal issues, gossip cycles, or reputation damage

5. Gift of anonymity

• Lower exposure to scams, harassment, targeted attention

Cons:

1 humans and all other species have a goal of being the most respected in the tribe(even in animals) that is after survival and reproduction. This will be always in our head to get fame or get social validation or status in some way. This thing will always affect your self esteem

2 no status halo to slay chicks or get celebrity treatment(self explanatory)

3 .Delayed “upgrading signal” effect

• Looksmax improvements only matter when others notice the change
• Low profile = improvements don’t convert into social rank shift

4 No sexual attention conditioning

• Stares, validation signals, subtle attraction cues train confidence
• Without it, your brain doesn’t normalize being perceived as attractive

5 there will always be a feeling in your head that you didn’t do anything great in life whereas there is no objective meaning to life but our monkey mind needs social validation

————————————————————

What do you think the optimal strategy to live life is some highiq ntcels preach that’s it’s a blessing to be invisible and live your life comfortably but the question I ask is. Is that life even worth living. They say suregrymaxx get a job or drive trucks and get a girl and live your life. What are your opinions on this
Which life is better no fame or fame to simply. Put it

Bump

 

[Aetheron]

Not going to lie I DNR ed but yes being invisible is good because you can't get humiliated but even that's not true not to mention you would only want to be invisible if you are not Chad so being invisible it's just a reminder how much of a genetic failure you are because no one wants to truly be 100% invisible they just don't want to be judged or be looked at as less which is only a fear for someone who is actually less

All the sub 5 and levels are leading the economic industry like Jeff bezos, Bernard arnault many more and top of that look up Marko jaric who got Adriana Lima just because of height and status halo facially he’s a sub5

 

[Aetheron]

B

Let’s just say you’re a mid looking men with the potential of a htn and ltn if you descend


View attachment 4911970

Let’s just say u look like this. What do u think the optimal strategy for navigating through life would be option a is very low profile guy with full financial independence we lives freely he’s a nobody. We can compare him to Tyler durden from fight club
Pros:
1. Reduced social pressure

• Fewer expectations to perform socially or maintain image
• Less comparison with others

2. Safe from the mog

• Less frequent direct comparison with higher-status or more attractive peers
• Less exposure to environments where you feel visually or socially outclassed
• Reduced self-consciousness triggered by constant status comparison

3. Lower conflict and drama

• Fewer interpersonal issues, gossip cycles, or reputation damage

5. Gift of anonymity

• Lower exposure to scams, harassment, targeted attention

Cons:

1 humans and all other species have a goal of being the most respected in the tribe(even in animals) that is after survival and reproduction. This will be always in our head to get fame or get social validation or status in some way. This thing will always affect your self esteem

2 no status halo to slay chicks or get celebrity treatment(self explanatory)

3 .Delayed “upgrading signal” effect

• Looksmax improvements only matter when others notice the change
• Low profile = improvements don’t convert into social rank shift

4 No sexual attention conditioning

• Stares, validation signals, subtle attraction cues train confidence
• Without it, your brain doesn’t normalize being perceived as attractive

5 there will always be a feeling in your head that you didn’t do anything great in life whereas there is no objective meaning to life but our monkey mind needs social validation

————————————————————

What do you think the optimal strategy to live life is some highiq ntcels preach that’s it’s a blessing to be invisible and live your life comfortably but the question I ask is. Is that life even worth living. They say suregrymaxx get a job or drive trucks and get a girl and live your life. What are your opinions on this
Which life is better no fame or fame to simply. Put it

Bump

 

[Aetheron]

Let’s just say you’re a mid looking men with the potential of a htn and ltn if you descend


View attachment 4911970

Let’s just say u look like this. What do u think the optimal strategy for navigating through life would be option a is very low profile guy with full financial independence we lives freely he’s a nobody. We can compare him to Tyler durden from fight club
Pros:
1. Reduced social pressure

• Fewer expectations to perform socially or maintain image
• Less comparison with others

2. Safe from the mog

• Less frequent direct comparison with higher-status or more attractive peers
• Less exposure to environments where you feel visually or socially outclassed
• Reduced self-consciousness triggered by constant status comparison

3. Lower conflict and drama

• Fewer interpersonal issues, gossip cycles, or reputation damage

5. Gift of anonymity

• Lower exposure to scams, harassment, targeted attention

Cons:

1 humans and all other species have a goal of being the most respected in the tribe(even in animals) that is after survival and reproduction. This will be always in our head to get fame or get social validation or status in some way. This thing will always affect your self esteem

2 no status halo to slay chicks or get celebrity treatment(self explanatory)

3 .Delayed “upgrading signal” effect

• Looksmax improvements only matter when others notice the change
• Low profile = improvements don’t convert into social rank shift

4 No sexual attention conditioning

• Stares, validation signals, subtle attraction cues train confidence
• Without it, your brain doesn’t normalize being perceived as attractive

5 there will always be a feeling in your head that you didn’t do anything great in life whereas there is no objective meaning to life but our monkey mind needs social validation

————————————————————

What do you think the optimal strategy to live life is some highiq ntcels preach that’s it’s a blessing to be invisible and live your life comfortably but the question I ask is. Is that life even worth living. They say suregrymaxx get a job or drive trucks and get a girl and live your life. What are your opinions on this
Which life is better no fame or fame to simply. Put it

Bump

 

[Aetheron]

Bu

Let’s just say you’re a mid looking men with the potential of a htn and ltn if you descend


View attachment 4911970

Let’s just say u look like this. What do u think the optimal strategy for navigating through life would be option a is very low profile guy with full financial independence we lives freely he’s a nobody. We can compare him to Tyler durden from fight club
Pros:
1. Reduced social pressure

• Fewer expectations to perform socially or maintain image
• Less comparison with others

2. Safe from the mog

• Less frequent direct comparison with higher-status or more attractive peers
• Less exposure to environments where you feel visually or socially outclassed
• Reduced self-consciousness triggered by constant status comparison

3. Lower conflict and drama

• Fewer interpersonal issues, gossip cycles, or reputation damage

5. Gift of anonymity

• Lower exposure to scams, harassment, targeted attention

Cons:

1 humans and all other species have a goal of being the most respected in the tribe(even in animals) that is after survival and reproduction. This will be always in our head to get fame or get social validation or status in some way. This thing will always affect your self esteem

2 no status halo to slay chicks or get celebrity treatment(self explanatory)

3 .Delayed “upgrading signal” effect

• Looksmax improvements only matter when others notice the change
• Low profile = improvements don’t convert into social rank shift

4 No sexual attention conditioning

• Stares, validation signals, subtle attraction cues train confidence
• Without it, your brain doesn’t normalize being perceived as attractive

5 there will always be a feeling in your head that you didn’t do anything great in life whereas there is no objective meaning to life but our monkey mind needs social validation

————————————————————

What do you think the optimal strategy to live life is some highiq ntcels preach that’s it’s a blessing to be invisible and live your life comfortably but the question I ask is. Is that life even worth living. They say suregrymaxx get a job or drive trucks and get a girl and live your life. What are your opinions on this
Which life is better no fame or fame to simply. Put

Bump

 

[Aetheron]

Let’s just say you’re a mid looking men with the potential of a htn and ltn if you descend


View attachment 4911970

Let’s just say u look like this. What do u think the optimal strategy for navigating through life would be option a is very low profile guy with full financial independence we lives freely he’s a nobody. We can compare him to Tyler durden from fight club
Pros:
1. Reduced social pressure

• Fewer expectations to perform socially or maintain image
• Less comparison with others

2. Safe from the mog

• Less frequent direct comparison with higher-status or more attractive peers
• Less exposure to environments where you feel visually or socially outclassed
• Reduced self-consciousness triggered by constant status comparison

3. Lower conflict and drama

• Fewer interpersonal issues, gossip cycles, or reputation damage

5. Gift of anonymity

• Lower exposure to scams, harassment, targeted attention

Cons:

1 humans and all other species have a goal of being the most respected in the tribe(even in animals) that is after survival and reproduction. This will be always in our head to get fame or get social validation or status in some way. This thing will always affect your self esteem

2 no status halo to slay chicks or get celebrity treatment(self explanatory)

3 .Delayed “upgrading signal” effect

• Looksmax improvements only matter when others notice the change
• Low profile = improvements don’t convert into social rank shift

4 No sexual attention conditioning

• Stares, validation signals, subtle attraction cues train confidence
• Without it, your brain doesn’t normalize being perceived as attractive

5 there will always be a feeling in your head that you didn’t do anything great in life whereas there is no objective meaning to life but our monkey mind needs social validation

————————————————————

What do you think the optimal strategy to live life is some highiq ntcels preach that’s it’s a blessing to be invisible and live your life comfortably but the question I ask is. Is that life even worth living. They say suregrymaxx get a job or drive trucks and get a girl and live your life. What are your opinions on this
Which life is better no fame or fame to simply. Put it

Bump

 

[Aetheron]

Let’s just say you’re a mid looking men with the potential of a htn and ltn if you descend


View attachment 4911970

Let’s just say u look like this. What do u think the optimal strategy for navigating through life would be option a is very low profile guy with full financial independence we lives freely he’s a nobody. We can compare him to Tyler durden from fight club
Pros:
1. Reduced social pressure

• Fewer expectations to perform socially or maintain image
• Less comparison with others

2. Safe from the mog

• Less frequent direct comparison with higher-status or more attractive peers
• Less exposure to environments where you feel visually or socially outclassed
• Reduced self-consciousness triggered by constant status comparison

3. Lower conflict and drama

• Fewer interpersonal issues, gossip cycles, or reputation damage

5. Gift of anonymity

• Lower exposure to scams, harassment, targeted attention

Cons:

1 humans and all other species have a goal of being the most respected in the tribe(even in animals) that is after survival and reproduction. This will be always in our head to get fame or get social validation or status in some way. This thing will always affect your self esteem

2 no status halo to slay chicks or get celebrity treatment(self explanatory)

3 .Delayed “upgrading signal” effect

• Looksmax improvements only matter when others notice the change
• Low profile = improvements don’t convert into social rank shift

4 No sexual attention conditioning

• Stares, validation signals, subtle attraction cues train confidence
• Without it, your brain doesn’t normalize being perceived as attractive

5 there will always be a feeling in your head that you didn’t do anything great in life whereas there is no objective meaning to life but our monkey mind needs social validation

————————————————————

What do you think the optimal strategy to live life is some highiq ntcels preach that’s it’s a blessing to be invisible and live your life comfortably but the question I ask is. Is that life even worth living. They say suregrymaxx get a job or drive trucks and get a girl and live your life. What are your opinions on this
Which life is better no fame or fame to simply. Put it

Bump

 

[Aetheron]

Bump

 

[Aetheron]

Bump

Dnr ai slop

bump

 

[Aetheron]

Bump

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[Outlander]

Being invisible is far better than being uglier and being a magnet of negative attention. Far from ideal, but it still beats that

 

[DigitalCoal400]

Good post, regardless of whatever is optimal and no matter what life strategy you have mapped in your mind, you will crave validation/attention especially if you've never received it during puberty or whatever. So your plan will end up breaking at the end

I'm 19 (Ascended from sub3 to MTN so far), 5,11 with a Wide frame, and I also work in cybersecurity but I don't have a great social life so I would sorta relate to this.

 

[Aetheron]

Being invisible is far better than being uglier and being a magnet of negative attention. Far from ideal, but it still beats that

What about mtn

 

[Outlander]

What about mtn

Mtn means you're likely to be invisible unless you're NT and have a good social circle. If you're even slightly ND on that looks level you will likely be invisible

 

[Aetheron]

Mtn means you're likely to be invisible unless you're NT and have a good social circle. If you're even slightly ND on that looks level you will likely be invisible

At that looks level should you aspire to achieve fame or will it just be a humiliation ritual for your self esteem what do u think

 

[Outlander]

At that looks level should you aspire to achieve fame or will it just be a humiliation ritual for your self esteem what do u think

Good luck getting fame as an average man if you weren't born into some rich family lol

 

[Aetheron]

Good post, regardless of whatever is optimal and no matter what life strategy you have mapped in your mind, you will crave validation/attention especially if you've never received it during puberty or whatever. So your plan will end up breaking at the end

I'm 19 (Ascended from sub3 to MTN so far), 5,11 with a Wide frame, and I also work in cybersecurity but I don't have a great social life so I would sorta relate to this.

Do u consider getting fame in future. Let’s just say u got a lot of fame today would you be happy with it as a mtn

 

[Aetheron]

Good luck getting fame as an average man if you weren't born into some rich family lol

We’re just supposing you somehow got fame and would you be happy with it

 

[Outlander]

We’re just supposing you somehow got fame and would you be happy with it

If you got fame you'd be stupid not to make the most of it. Most MTNs won't be that lucky though

 

[Aetheron]

Most of it in which way

If you got fame you'd be stupid not to make the most of it. Most MTNs won't be that lucky though

 

[DigitalCoal400]

Do u consider getting fame in future. Let’s just say u got a lot of fame today would you be happy with it as a mtn

If I somehow randomly got fame/attention today as an MTN, I'd fear social judgement (my inhib is already high as it is) and would push my inhib even higher.

Unless I successfully ascend to HTN, and receive validation/positive feedback, i'd be better trained to handle it

 

[Aetheron]

If I somehow randomly got fame/attention today as an MTN, I'd fear social judgement (my inhib is already high as it is) and would push my inhib even higher.

Unless I successfully ascend to HTN, and receive validation/positive feedback, i'd be better trained to handle it

But don’t you think even chads at some point face a level of social judgement. It’s just impossible to have fame and no social judgement at the same time. And the fame thing is just deep in our monkey mind how do we even cope from it

 

[Aetheron]

Bump

Let’s just say you’re a mid looking men with the potential of a htn and ltn if you descend


View attachment 4911970

Let’s just say u look like this. What do u think the optimal strategy for navigating through life would be option a is very low profile guy with full financial independence we lives freely he’s a nobody. We can compare him to Tyler durden from fight club
Pros:
1. Reduced social pressure

• Fewer expectations to perform socially or maintain image
• Less comparison with others

2. Safe from the mog

• Less frequent direct comparison with higher-status or more attractive peers
• Less exposure to environments where you feel visually or socially outclassed
• Reduced self-consciousness triggered by constant status comparison

3. Lower conflict and drama

• Fewer interpersonal issues, gossip cycles, or reputation damage

5. Gift of anonymity

• Lower exposure to scams, harassment, targeted attention

Cons:

1 humans and all other species have a goal of being the most respected in the tribe(even in animals) that is after survival and reproduction. This will be always in our head to get fame or get social validation or status in some way. This thing will always affect your self esteem

2 no status halo to slay chicks or get celebrity treatment(self explanatory)

3 .Delayed “upgrading signal” effect

• Looksmax improvements only matter when others notice the change
• Low profile = improvements don’t convert into social rank shift

4 No sexual attention conditioning

• Stares, validation signals, subtle attraction cues train confidence
• Without it, your brain doesn’t normalize being perceived as attractive

5 there will always be a feeling in your head that you didn’t do anything great in life whereas there is no objective meaning to life but our monkey mind needs social validation

————————————————————

What do you think the optimal strategy to live life is some highiq ntcels preach that’s it’s a blessing to be invisible and live your life comfortably but the question I ask is. Is that life even worth living. They say suregrymaxx get a job or drive trucks and get a girl and live your life. What are your opinions on this
Which life is better no fame or fame to simply. Put

 

[Aetheron]

Let’s just say you’re a mid looking men with the potential of a htn and ltn if you descend


View attachment 4911970

Let’s just say u look like this. What do u think the optimal strategy for navigating through life would be option a is very low profile guy with full financial independence we lives freely he’s a nobody. We can compare him to Tyler durden from fight club
Pros:
1. Reduced social pressure

• Fewer expectations to perform socially or maintain image
• Less comparison with others

2. Safe from the mog

• Less frequent direct comparison with higher-status or more attractive peers
• Less exposure to environments where you feel visually or socially outclassed
• Reduced self-consciousness triggered by constant status comparison

3. Lower conflict and drama

• Fewer interpersonal issues, gossip cycles, or reputation damage

5. Gift of anonymity

• Lower exposure to scams, harassment, targeted attention

Cons:

1 humans and all other species have a goal of being the most respected in the tribe(even in animals) that is after survival and reproduction. This will be always in our head to get fame or get social validation or status in some way. This thing will always affect your self esteem

2 no status halo to slay chicks or get celebrity treatment(self explanatory)

3 .Delayed “upgrading signal” effect

• Looksmax improvements only matter when others notice the change
• Low profile = improvements don’t convert into social rank shift

4 No sexual attention conditioning

• Stares, validation signals, subtle attraction cues train confidence
• Without it, your brain doesn’t normalize being perceived as attractive

5 there will always be a feeling in your head that you didn’t do anything great in life whereas there is no objective meaning to life but our monkey mind needs social validation

————————————————————

What do you think the optimal strategy to live life is some highiq ntcels preach that’s it’s a blessing to be invisible and live your life comfortably but the question I ask is. Is that life even worth living. They say suregrymaxx get a job or drive trucks and get a girl and live your life. What are your opinions on this
Which life is better no fame or fame to simply. Put it

Bump

 

[Aetheron]

Let’s just say you’re a mid looking men with the potential of a htn and ltn if you descend


View attachment 4911970

Let’s just say u look like this. What do u think the optimal strategy for navigating through life would be option a is very low profile guy with full financial independence we lives freely he’s a nobody. We can compare him to Tyler durden from fight club
Pros:
1. Reduced social pressure

• Fewer expectations to perform socially or maintain image
• Less comparison with others

2. Safe from the mog

• Less frequent direct comparison with higher-status or more attractive peers
• Less exposure to environments where you feel visually or socially outclassed
• Reduced self-consciousness triggered by constant status comparison

3. Lower conflict and drama

• Fewer interpersonal issues, gossip cycles, or reputation damage

5. Gift of anonymity

• Lower exposure to scams, harassment, targeted attention

Cons:

1 humans and all other species have a goal of being the most respected in the tribe(even in animals) that is after survival and reproduction. This will be always in our head to get fame or get social validation or status in some way. This thing will always affect your self esteem

2 no status halo to slay chicks or get celebrity treatment(self explanatory)

3 .Delayed “upgrading signal” effect

• Looksmax improvements only matter when others notice the change
• Low profile = improvements don’t convert into social rank shift

4 No sexual attention conditioning

• Stares, validation signals, subtle attraction cues train confidence
• Without it, your brain doesn’t normalize being perceived as attractive

5 there will always be a feeling in your head that you didn’t do anything great in life whereas there is no objective meaning to life but our monkey mind needs social validation

————————————————————

What do you think the optimal strategy to live life is some highiq ntcels preach that’s it’s a blessing to be invisible and live your life comfortably but the question I ask is. Is that life even worth living. They say suregrymaxx get a job or drive trucks and get a girl and live your life. What are your opinions on this
Which life is better no fame or fame to simply. Put it

Bump

 

[DigitalCoal400]

But don’t you think even chads at some point face a level of social judgement. It’s just impossible to have fame and no social judgement at the same time. And the fame thing is just deep in our monkey mind how do we even cope from it

I could be more specific, I fear social judgment because I've faced so much of it related to my looks, and has driven my inhibition to the roof. I'd assume the social judgement I'd face from being famous would be on a deep personal level like what I dealt with in my Adolescent years.

At this point any sort of attention you receive if you've been a sub3 or whatever would fire up your inhibition no matter what. You might feel like you don't deserve the fame you receive or things you've accomplished (imposter syndrome), or even deal with hard criticism for things that you should not receive criticism for (Negative halo especially if you're a sub3 in this case)

Ultimately you would need to balance out your brains reward system, if you've received too much negative attention you need validation to gain more confidence, that way you balance your inhibition so you are better fit for such a high influx of attention, and not give off signals of lack of confidence to people.

 

[Aetheron]

I could be more specific, I fear social judgment because I've faced so much of it related to my looks, and has driven my inhibition to the roof. I'd assume the social judgement I'd face from being famous would be on a deep personal level like what I dealt with in my Adolescent years.

At this point any sort of attention you receive if you've been a sub3 or whatever would fire up your inhibition no matter what. You might feel like you don't deserve the fame you receive or things you've accomplished (imposter syndrome), or even deal with hard criticism for things that you should not receive criticism for (Negative halo especially if you're a sub3 in this case)

Ultimately you would need to balance out your brains reward system, if you've received too much negative attention you need validation to gain more confidence, that way you balance your inhibition so you are better fit for such a high influx of attention, and not give off signals of lack of confidence to people.

But like status halo exists and if you’re not deformed it can even override the looks halo. Stacie’s and htb always chase the high status mtn guy or we must make a choice
I)In a hypothetical scenario let’s say you got fame
Now
Your smv will rise very much but on the cost of social judgement
Or
II) you can just stay low profile but your smv will not increase but you get the prize of no social judgement

Assuming you are not below mtn the most rational choice no matter how nt you are the first option will always be the best for getting girls. Of course you can have the other choice but I’m talking purely from the pov of getting girls