Is it a good sign if women randomly gravitate towards me?

[cute]

I was standing at a bus stop, just me and 2-3 other people a but further away. One girl comes to the bus stop, slows down and randomly stands uncomfortably close to me. Mind you, 90% of the bus stops surface area is empty to stand on. I move one step to the right so our arms arent literally touching and continue staring into the void and listening to music. Few minutes later 2 girls come to the stop, slow down when passing near me, and one tells her friend “lets stand here”, and she just scoops into the very small space between me and the other girl. Our arms were literally overlapping. Her friend was in front of her and looking at me with a massive smile, i quickly looked away and moved a bit again, because its awkward and i cant escalate further

is this good?

 

[cute]

@+10

 

[cute]

is this an ioi?

 

[Panzram]

I was standing at a bus stop, just me and 2-3 other people a but further away. One girl comes to the bus stop, slows down and randomly stands uncomfortably close to me. Mind you, 90% of the bus stops surface area is empty to stand on. I move one step to the right so our arms arent literally touching and continue staring into the void and listening to music. Few minutes later 2 girls come to the stop, slow down when passing near me, and one tells her friend “lets stand here”, and she just scoops into the very small space between me and the other girl. Our arms were literally overlapping. Her friend was in front of her and looking at me with a massive smile, i quickly looked away and moved a bit again, because its awkward and i cant escalate further

is this good?

Are you gl?

 

[Sceptical]

Hi welcome to Mumbaitales.org

 

[cute]

Are you gl?

Depends on who you ask but usually people say above average, i’m 6’3

 

[Panzram]

Depends on who you ask but usually people say above average, i’m 6’3

Isn't it obvious then? You are attractive and you attract women. Simple as.

 

[cute]

Isn't it obvious then? You are attractive and you attract women. Simple as.

Yeah but i don’t wanna mistake something that is possibly normal behavior as a sign. Like maybe its just a random thing people do, im hyper sensitive to people being in my personal space but others maybe dont care

 

[Panzram]

Yeah but i don’t wanna mistake something that is possibly normal behavior as a sign. Like maybe its just a random thing people do, im hyper sensitive to people being in my personal space but others maybe dont care

You are probably ND then, I mean its obv. Just know that that has never happened to me in my entire life.

 

[cute]

You are probably ND then, I mean its obv.

I have very crippling anxiety and fear of judgement, also i wouldnt say i miss many social cues, but i overthink them and spin them into the most negative interpretation possible

 

[Panzram]

I have very crippling anxiety and fear of judgement, also i wouldnt say i miss many social cues, but i overthink them and spin them into the most negative interpretation possible

I have something similar. But JFL at being a gl 6'3 guy and staying a slave to there ridiculous fears.

 

[cute]

I have something similar.

I hope you don’t have to the extent i have it, even drugs and alcohol don’t help me with the fear usually to the point that i could actually be functional. Just a small improvement

But JFL at being a gl 6'3 guy and staying a slave to there ridiculous fears.

I don’t feel gl, but i think the fear mostly stems from my youth. I was ugly as a kid and had no one to point me into the direction to start looking presentable so bullying was common, until i learned to take care of myself more, but the mental part never changed

 

[Panzram]

I hope you don’t have to the extent i have it, even drugs and alcohol don’t help me with the fear usually to the point that i could actually be functional. Just a small improvement

With women the anxiety is crippling. Otherwise, I am a little shy, but can relax with drugs and alcohol to be pretty low inhib.

I don’t feel gl, but i think the fear mostly stems from my youth. I was ugly as a kid and had no one to point me into the direction to start looking presentable so bullying was common, until i learned to take care of myself more, but the mental part never changed

Did you post pics here so I can see what you look like?

 

[borntokill]

Yes unless youre rich

 

[cute]

With women the anxiety is crippling.

Same thats when its at its worst for me.

Did you post pics here so I can see what you look like?

Nope havent posted

 

[davidlaidisme67]

dnr larping faggot

 

[cute]

dnr larping faggot

not larp

 

[Narroworbits]

Same thing happens to me when walking across a sidewalk to something, they gravitate to me and I don’t know if it’s my autism or not

 

[Alias!]

I was standing at a bus stop, just me and 2-3 other people a but further away. One girl comes to the bus stop, slows down and randomly stands uncomfortably close to me. Mind you, 90% of the bus stops surface area is empty to stand on. I move one step to the right so our arms arent literally touching and continue staring into the void and listening to music. Few minutes later 2 girls come to the stop, slow down when passing near me, and one tells her friend “lets stand here”, and she just scoops into the very small space between me and the other girl. Our arms were literally overlapping. Her friend was in front of her and looking at me with a massive smile, i quickly looked away and moved a bit again, because its awkward and i cant escalate further

is this good?

 

[cute]

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[Dwrk]

I was standing at a bus stop, just me and 2-3 other people a but further away. One girl comes to the bus stop, slows down and randomly stands uncomfortably close to me. Mind you, 90% of the bus stops surface area is empty to stand on. I move one step to the right so our arms arent literally touching and continue staring into the void and listening to music. Few minutes later 2 girls come to the stop, slow down when passing near me, and one tells her friend “lets stand here”, and she just scoops into the very small space between me and the other girl. Our arms were literally overlapping. Her friend was in front of her and looking at me with a massive smile, i quickly looked away and moved a bit again, because its awkward and i cant escalate further

is this good?

Yeah, you're probably so tall or very good looking guy. You're lucky my man.

 

[Zukiteru]

I have very crippling anxiety and fear of judgement, also i wouldnt say i miss many social cues, but i overthink them and spin them into the most negative interpretation possible

Any significant negative event or events happen in your life?

I'm the exact same and I attribute a large part of it to negative events that happened simultaneously/in quick succession

 

[Zukiteru]

I don’t feel gl, but i think the fear mostly stems from my youth. I was ugly as a kid and had no one to point me into the direction to start looking presentable so bullying was common, until i learned to take care of myself more, but the mental part never changed

I'm retard

Nvm

 

[Copeful]

if they don’t approach you and escalate it doesn’t mean anything

 

[cute]

if they don’t approach you and escalate it doesn’t mean anything

really?

 

[cute]

I'm the exact same and I attribute a large part of it to negative events that happened simultaneously/in quick succession

specifically what?

 

[Godera]

Doesnt mean anything

 

[Sonneillon]

it's only IOI if they proceed to pull your pants down after that

 

[shia.jihadist]

yes nigger

"foids want me to rape them is this good" ahh question

 

[cute]

yes nigger

"foids want me to rape them is this good" ahh question

Doesnt mean anything

if they don’t approach you and escalate it doesn’t mean anything

now im confused guys

 

[LegendaryKennen]

this is how women make the "first move" btw

 

[Zukiteru]

specifically what?

I was bullied early on in highschool for my appearance and the way I dressed (my mother dressed me) and was hella depressed then I told my mother and she basically shut me down and didn't even believe it was possible for me to feel like that

Never recovered from it even though I got better looking since then

 

[LegendaryKennen]

I was bullied early on in highschool for my appearance and the way I dressed (my mother dressed me) and was hella depressed then I told my mother and she basically shut me down and didn't even believe it was possible for me to feel like that

Never recovered from it even though I got better looking since then

yeah my mom bought ugly cheap clothes for me growing up, and i wore my brother's old clothes too, always got made fun of for that haha..

 

[Copeful]

really?

yes
some people don’t have a concept of personal space
and smiling doesn’t mean anything that’s just being friendly lol
if they’re interested they’ll start a conversation and try getting your contacts

 

[cute]

yes
some people don’t have a concept of personal space
and smiling doesn’t mean anything that’s just being friendly lol
if they’re interested they’ll start a conversation and try getting your contacts

Why?

 

[cute]

I was bullied early on in highschool for my appearance and the way I dressed (my mother dressed me) and was hella depressed then I told my mother and she basically shut me down and didn't even believe it was possible for me to feel like that

Never recovered from it even though I got better looking since then

Brutal, same. I used to have like 2 outfits and all my clothes looked like they are made for children not for teenagers design-wise. I was broke and still am but you can dress alright even without money, the clothes i had were comically bad

 

[EmEn]

I was standing at a bus stop, just me and 2-3 other people a but further away. One girl comes to the bus stop, slows down and randomly stands uncomfortably close to me. Mind you, 90% of the bus stops surface area is empty to stand on. I move one step to the right so our arms arent literally touching and continue staring into the void and listening to music. Few minutes later 2 girls come to the stop, slow down when passing near me, and one tells her friend “lets stand here”, and she just scoops into the very small space between me and the other girl. Our arms were literally overlapping. Her friend was in front of her and looking at me with a massive smile, i quickly looked away and moved a bit again, because its awkward and i cant escalate further

is this good?

You've got a good imagination

 

[cute]

You've got a good imagination

Wdym

 

[Zukiteru]

yes
some people don’t have a concept of personal space
and smiling doesn’t mean anything that’s just being friendly lol
if they’re interested they’ll start a conversation and try getting your contacts

This is not always true

Every girl that I've ever been sure to have liked me I never talked to directly (jfl at my high inhib self)

In one such case a girl literally rested her arms on my shoulder while I was in a staring contest with a friend near the end of class

The only other interactions I'd previously had with her was smiling eye contact and we NEVER spoke to each other a single time(I did however snitch on her many years prior for lying about being done with her work)

 

[Copeful]

This is not always true

Every girl that I've ever been sure to have liked me I never talked to directly (jfl at my high inhib self)

In one such case a girl literally rested her arms on my shoulder while I was in a staring contest with a friend near the end of class

The only other interactions I'd previously had with her was smiling eye contact and we NEVER spoke to each other a single time(I did however snitch on her many years prior for lying about being done with her work)

yeah that doesn’t mean much lil bro
girls do that shit all the time for attention and whatnot
if she isn’t actively pursuing you in a way that leaves 0 ambiguity she isn’t into you

 

[EmEn]

Wdym

I dont believe that this happened. Take this to SlumTales.org

 

[cute]

I dont believe that this happened. Take this to SlumTales.org

It’s a true story

 

[EmEn]

Where do you live? I need to know your culture, different cultures have varying social norms.