Is it better to be kinda douchey if you look good enough or just be nonchalant/ say minimal words?

[Kirby7000]

Honest question. Guys I see that slay are good looking of course but dont talk much/ dont act douchey. They just exist/ stand there. I used to be douchey back in the day and it worked because I was decent looking. Now that my health is coming back I have the natural draw to being a douchebag, but idk if its the right move.