is it better to fit in or to do what you like

[mitchellxss]

if i change anything about my appearance that doesn’t fit whaat my peers do i get made fun of, and im not even like subhuman so is if genuinely better for me to just be a sheep or what

 

[NZb6Air]

fit in is better, be yourself is cope

 

[mitchellxss]

fit in is better, be yourself is cope

not even talking personality wise if i even so much as get a different haircut from what everyone else has i will get made fun of

 

[NZb6Air]

not even talking personality wise if i even so much as get a different haircut from what everyone else has i will get made fun of

wasn't talking about personality, also your case looks like someone who's just ugly

 

[Deleted member 28459]

Always fit in.

Being different is a mistake. Unless you're objectively better by being different.

 

[mitchellxss]

wasn't talking about personality, also your case looks like someone who's just ugly

im obviously nothing crazy but i would say im above average for my peers

 

[actualunderstander]

It depends on what you mean. If you mean change your hobbies and stop doing the things you enjoy to "fit in" then that's lame and will make you unhappy in the end. If you mean dressing to fit in? Well I'd say, it's best to dress in a way that stands out, and fits in at the same time, if that makes sense. For example, wear matching clothes and things that aren't completely strange to wear.

You don't need to fit some stereotype and dress in a way that you think makes you look normal. For example if you like to dress a bit emo, then do that. But you wanna dress in a way that looks nice and at least has some class. So if you dress a bit emo, wear nice thick emo sweaters and nice black jeans for example. But it's best to dress in a way that really makes you happy , as long as it's not too ridiculous. Like wearing pokemon clothes as a man in his 20s. That's a bit weird

 

[NZb6Air]

It depends on what you mean. If you mean change your hobbies and stop doing the things you enjoy to "fit in" then that's lame and will make you unhappy in the end. If you mean dressing to fit in? Well I'd say, it's best to dress in a way that stands out, and fits in at the same time, if that makes sense. For example, wear matching clothes and things that aren't completely strange to wear.

You don't need to fit some stereotype and dress in a way that you think makes you look normal. For example if you like to dress a bit emo, then do that. But you wanna dress in a way that looks nice and at least has some class. So if you dress a bit emo, wear nice thick emo sweaters and nice black jeans for example. But it's best to dress in a way that really makes you happy , as long as it's not too ridiculous. Like wearing pokemon clothes as a man in his 20s. That's a bit weird

so just be handsome basically

 

[actualunderstander]

so just be handsome basically

Basically just dress in a way that represents you, but don't be too outlandish. Also don't change your hobbies you enjoy just because others do a different hobby

 

[Deleted member 54208]

fit in is better, be yourself is cope

 

[PsychoDsk]

fit in with people you can be yourself with

 

[chawaje]

exploit everyone and everything

 

[mitchellxss]

exploit everyone and everything

based

 

[klamus]

Yeah I'm afraid its better to Be a normie.