is it even worth going for a female who doesnt like you?

[LipstickAlley]

Title.

I mean like if they are fucking disgusted by you, then definitely don't go for them, but even in the case they are apathetic, is it even worth going out with them?

In the end, they aren't interested. They have no passion to be with you, and as soon as you stop simping, you're stuck in a relationship with someone who doesn't even care for you.

I've seen foids into guys. They will bombard them with texts and other stuff and constantly think about them. They have this enthusiasm and vigor that they don't share with people they are oblivious to.

If they don't do that for you, or if they don't think about you first, what's even the point? You are effectively holding them against their will.

 

[LipstickAlley]

not a pixel OP, how dare you write anything more than 5 words?

 

[Deleted member 15129]

not a pixel OP, how dare you write anything more than 5 words?

 

[LipstickAlley]

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well yes, but your post took me like 5 minutes to scroll down thru, my post is like 5 lines of text

 

[Deleted member 15129]

There is not really a point. But the mere exposure effect is real. If you spend more and more time together, she will eventually gain some sort of likeness to you even if you are ugly. But yeah still not comparable to the love at first sight of chads

 

[Deleted member 7044]

are you asking or is it rhetorical? u answered it in the post

 

[LipstickAlley]

are you asking or is it rhetorical? u answered it in the post

i dont fucking know anymore man, i just needed to get this off my chest

There is not really a point. But the mere exposure effect is real. If you spend more and more time together, she will eventually gain some sort of likeness to you even if you are ugly. But yeah still not comparable to the love at first sight of chads

i guess you're right. I knew this stacy who my chad ex friend asked out and at first she wasn't interested but eventually they dated and when he broke things off with her she kept begging for him back

 

[Bubarik]

Don't think so tbh, isn't interacting with women all about an emotional feedback? And if she is indifferent why bother.

 

[Deleted member 11610]

Basically not worth it. Kind of unrelated but I remember seeing a post on FDS that was from a woman saying that when she had consensual sex with unattractive men it felt like rape jfl. If a woman doesn't appreciate your looks and doesn't feel that little bit extra vibrant around you then there's no point in LTRing that shit. Too bad that even after looksmaxxing and self improving, if you manage to get a girl to like you it will still feel sub-par due to being blackpilled and knowing that Chad wouldn't have had to do the same to get the girl to like him. This is why I probably wouldn't LTR ever if I got my surgeries, rather just slay and maybe get a mail order bride from Russia when I turn 35/40.

 

[Deleted member 3612]

 

[Deleted member 6403]

Make her ur friend n use her as preselection