Is it more effective to be flirtatious and creepy, or non-flirtatious and not creepy?

[thecel]

As a person with poor social skills, I pretty much have 2 options in talking to girls:

1. Talk about non-sexual topics and don't flirt; I'm not creepy
2. Flirt and talk about sexual stuff; I'm very creepy

Which one is usually the better play?

It's certainly over if I primarily do #2. How about if I mostly do #1 and do #2 occasionally? Will it still backfire? Should I stay on #1 until I can flirt without being creepy?

 

[Adriana Lima]

I think it's better to stop making so many threads bro

 

[Blackgymmax]

You dont have to say youre creepy here. Just say youre sub 7

 

[thecel]

I think it's better to stop making so many threads bro

What are they gonna do? Ban me for learning skills? JFL I FUCKING NEED TO GET THIS GIRL

 

[Adriana Lima]

What are they gonna do? Ban me for learning skills? JFL I FUCKING NEED TO GET THIS GIRL

Talk about non-sexual topics and don't flirt; I'm not creepy. This option and work from there

 

[SkinjobCatastrophe]

If she likes you already then your flirting/sexual allusions won't be seen as creepy. Its usually pretty obvious by how she responds if she thinks a message is creepy

 

[Deleted member 5927]

Dude if you are confident I’m not kidding that’s all it takes provided that she actually likes you.

good looking dude who is easy to talk to > good looking dude who she can’t even hold a convo with

i learned to talk to girls literally just #1 most important talk to them so you realize they ain’t shit then #2 when you realize they ain’t shit you start talking to them just like your guy friends and it works.

 

[Boldandbeautiful]

Talk about non-sexual topics and don't flirt; I'm not creepy. This option and work from there

Creepy always works for me though.

 

[Adriana Lima]

Creepy always works for me though.

stats?

 

[Boldandbeautiful]

stats?

PSL 0 because no hair but charming and funny.

 

[Deleted member 12303]

this is a water concept but flirts only works with good looks or extreme charm (99th percentile)

 

[Adriana Lima]

PSL 0 because no hair but charming and funny.

I understand your methodology

 

[AlwaysHaveQuestions]

op your charm is your insecurity and authenticity

everyone will tell you to be alpha with her and what not, but with your looks this persona wont be your strong point.