Is it my parents fault I am high inhib?

[Deleted member 21824]

I have a dad but I’ve basically been raised only by my mother and spent all my childhood with female relatives. I had one childhood friend but he lived near me cause my mom didn’t let me do anything that is slightly dangerous (like going 100 m from house)

I never had a boy to fight with, just my female cousins who would do makeup on me and dress me in princess dresses. I feel like a woman in a subhuman man’s body. I am not manly at all, I’m emotional and submissive and shy.

Other boys at school would always make fun of me for crying from everything and while they were fighting and stuff I was drawing flowers.

These are good traits for women but for a man it’s a over. Can I revert my feminine life even though I never had a male figure in my life?

 

[Bashan]

Neuroticism is mostly genetic unless you live in an extreme environment.

 

[Deleted member 21182]

Yes and no

 

[Deleted member 21766]

Yes. You need to have sex with them to cure your high inhibition

 

[thereallegend]

doing sports woulda helped u a lot

 

[Deleted member 21824]

doing sports woulda helped u a lot

I wanted to do soccer and swimming as a kid and my mom didnt let me. I just was in doors all day or just outside my house.

 

[thereallegend]

I wanted to do soccer and swimming as a kid and my mom didnt let me. I just was in doors all day or just outside my house.

yup she fucked u up

 

[Deleted member 24278]

Nop it's your fault only

 

[Deleted member 21824]

Nop it's your fault only

Why?

 

[Bojack]

Your parents and genetics definitely influence you a lot, but you can push past your high inhibness and continue onward.

 

[Deleted member 24278]

Nop it's your fault only

Why?

I mean it's also kind of their fault but you gotta fix it and you can. At least become LTNT and medium inhib

 

[Deleted member 21628]

Nop it's your fault only

 

[Deleted member 23286]

I never had a boy to fight with, just my female cousins who would do makeup on me and dress me in princess dresses.

Looks like your fashion sense was rather impacted by that XD

 

[RAITEIII]

I have a dad but I’ve basically been raised only by my mother and spent all my childhood with female relatives. I had one childhood friend but he lived near me cause my mom didn’t let me do anything that is slightly dangerous (like going 100 m from house)

I never had a boy to fight with, just my female cousins who would do makeup on me and dress me in princess dresses. I feel like a woman in a subhuman man’s body. I am not manly at all, I’m emotional and submissive and shy.

Other boys at school would always make fun of me for crying from everything and while they were fighting and stuff I was drawing flowers.

These are good traits for women but for a man it’s a over. Can I revert my feminine life even though I never had a male figure in my life?

Arguably yes