Is it normal that I ghosted all my friends

[SexWhale]

Mixed group with guys and girls but I am the ugliest guy and get subtly disrespected + girls always flirt with the other guys.

Couldn’t stand it any more so now I am just not talking to them.

 

[nuisance]

you just take shit from them like a good boy, there are chopped niggas that get disrepected and chopped niggas that dont. They do it cause you let them.

 

[Orc]

i did this when moved and waited for them to contact me (we still had shared social media) but they never did.

that platform doesn't exist anymore and i never got in contact with them again

one of them tried to talk to me while i was walking my dog a few years ago, she had lost a lot of weight but i just pretended i didn't know her and kept walking

 

[Petsmart]

Good move nigga

 

[SexWhale]

you just take shit from them like a good boy, there are chopped niggas that get disrepected and chopped niggas that dont. They do it cause you let them.

I already know from the group dynamics,
they make fun and play it off as jokes, but when I do a joke back they say it’s too far or just give me the weird look. And no I’m not autistic.

 

[nuisance]

I already know from the group dynamics,
they make fun and play it off as jokes, but when I do a joke back they say it’s too far or just give me the weird look. And no I’m not autistic.

Yeah the damage has been done they dont respect you, leave them and find another group dont make the same mistakes (jestering, cowering,tolerating disrespect).

 

[davidlaidisme67]

i did this when moved and waited for them to contact me (we still had shared social media) but they never did.

that platform doesn't exist anymore and i never got in contact with them again

one of them tried to talk to me while i was walking my dog a few years ago, she had lost a lot of weight but i just pretended i didn't know her and kept walking

miring the way you didnt talk to her and went on with your life

 

[Orc]

miring the way you didnt talk to her and went on with your life

after i initially ignored her she was like 'nooo it's me i'm guessing you don't recognize me i have lost of weight' and i was like 'oh hello' and then called my dog who wobbled past her and forgot about it until today

awkward, we almost dated at some point when we were like 15

i don't look recognizable nowadays so no one bothers me

 

[davidlaidisme67]

after i initially ignored her she was like 'nooo it's me i'm guessing you don't recognize me i have lost of weight' and i was like 'oh hello' and then called my dog who wobbled past her and forgot about it until today

awkward, we almost dated at some point when we were like 15

damn doesnt it feel saddening to know that everything you guys had, all the experiences eventually amounted to nothing yk? Thats what i feel about most things when they end

 

[Orc]

damn doesnt it feel saddening to know that everything you guys had, all the experiences eventually amounted to nothing yk? Thats what i feel about most things when they end

no it feels good because i regret my entire teens and wish i was a virgin because all it's done is traumatize me and now i have difficulties dating as a result of it

my relationships have never lasted longer than a few weeks, as a result i rush everything because i feel like time is limited subconsciously, and so as a result of that i seem too clingy and overbearing which is annoying

i've got too much love to give but i force it all at once which is a terrible idea and i have to consciously prevent myself from doing it

 

[davidlaidisme67]

no it feels good because i regret my entire teens and wish i was a virgin because all it's done is traumatize me and now i have difficulties dating as a result of it

my relationships have never lasted longer than a few weeks, as a result i rush everything because i feel like time is limited subconsciously, and so as a result of that i seem too clingy and overbearing which is annoying

i've got too much love to give but i force it all at once which is a terrible idea and i have to consciously prevent myself from doing it

hmm thats a very good perspective tbh and I also regret my teens as well cause I decided to be neglectful with my studies and just looksmaxx. Im saddened that it affected your ability to have ltrs but i appreciate that you understand your issues and are actively deciding against doing them. Miring your personal growth

 

[Latinolooksmaxxer]

did the same to focus on Ascending

ill comeb ack with a vengeance

 

[LegendaryKennen]

knew a guy in school that fits ur description, like everything you said. let me tell you what happened to him
he left the friend circle and couldnt find new friends, he eventually comes back, nothing changed, but at least hes not alone.

nothing will change unless u have some crazy ascension lmao

 

[suicidemonkey]

Mixed group with guys and girls but I am the ugliest guy and get subtly disrespected + girls always flirt with the other guys.

Couldn’t stand it any more so now I am just not talking to them.

You need to stand up for yourself, but don't come across as insecure.

If you're a non NT nigga like myself that is hard to do though I can't lie. Just rely on insults that are really just disguised as jokes, if that makes any sense.

 

[neverlookback]

Friends just weigh you down

 

[superpsycho]

Mixed group with guys and girls but I am the ugliest guy and get subtly disrespected + girls always flirt with the other guys.

Couldn’t stand it any more so now I am just not talking to them.

those arent your friends then.

 

[Orc]

hmm thats a very good perspective tbh and I also regret my teens as well cause I decided to be neglectful with my studies and just looksmaxx. Im saddened that it affected your ability to have ltrs but i appreciate that you understand your issues and are actively deciding against doing them. Miring your personal growth

growth? i still bother my partner with this shit a lot sadly, but i'm trying to do better.

 

[davidlaidisme67]

growth? i still bother my partner with this shit a lot sadly, but i'm trying to do better.

yes its growth brother if you're actively trying to do better and recognizing your shortcomings

 

[SexWhale]

knew a guy in school that fits ur description, like everything you said. let me tell you what happened to him
he left the friend circle and couldnt find new friends, he eventually comes back, nothing changed, but at least hes not alone.

nothing will change unless u have some crazy ascension lmao

I mean I’m kind of short so I have a low ceiling. But I’m planning on getting jaw surgery after that my face will be pretty good