Is it normal that I'm doing nothing for my 19th birthday?

[Deleted member 5189]

Didn't do anything for my 16th, 17th or 18th

I know for 18th normal people have parties but how normal is it that I'm doing literally nothing for my 19th?

 

[yams]

I don’t think it’s super normal but it isn’t explicitly weird. I never do anything for my birthday either

 

[Deleted member 11414]

lol if u don't throw 50 ppl+ parties when its ur birthday

 

[Deleted member 5189]

lol if u don't throw 50 ppl+ parties when its ur birthday

I've never even been at a party

 

[Deleted member 11414]

I've never even been at a party

incel trait tbh

 

[Deleted member 5189]

incel trait tbh

I am one

 

[Tusseleif]

I just am with family, but haven’t celebrated with friends since like 13 or so. No friends pill is brutal man. My 20th was the worst ever, didn’t want to be with family cuz it was too brutal

 

[thickdickdaddy27]

chad trait: not acknowledging or bringing up ur birthday cuz u hate the attention

 

[Deleted member 5189]

I just am with family, but haven’t celebrated with friends since like 13 or so. No friends pill is brutal man. My 20th was the worst ever, didn’t want to be with family cuz it was too brutal

Do your parents say anything about it? When ppl like my uncle call to say happy bday I tell em "yeh I'm going out with my friends later today" cuz I always get asked what I'm doin n dat it's so awkward

 

[Deleted member 12669]

Is it ur birthday today? If so happy birthday Chris

 

[n0rthface]

Habby bday

 

[Deleted member 14323]

Na the only birthday I celebrated was 18, I turned 19 not long ago and I didn’t give a fuck about having no friends to celebrate with tbh.

 

[Deleted member 14323]

Happy bday br0

 

[Tusseleif]

Do your parents say anything about it? When ppl like my uncle call to say happy bday I tell em "yeh I'm going out with my friends later today" cuz I always get asked what I'm doin n dat it's so awkward

My parents know I got no friends so don’t bother saying anything, but family sometimes ask if I have been with friends so I shrug it off and just say yes. But my cousins and siblings always talk about their friends and their names, but I obvs never do. My siblings and cousin definitely know I’m low status tho

 

[Deleted member 6403]

Mate, go hit the barbershop, get a tan n slay

 

[Hozay]

All I want for my birthday is going all out on my favorite foods, basically an ultimate cheat day and just chillin at home and im happy.

 

[Deleted member 5189]

All I want for my birthday is going all out on my favorite foods, basically an ultimate cheat day and just chillin at home and im happy.

Floppa is a stupid idiot

 

[Deleted member 15069]

Same, on my 16th birthday I had a party and all my friends organized everything for me. Age 17 I'm all alone because of COVID, and age 18 I was going through my senior year of highschool and everyone else was so no one really bothered anyway (plus COVID was rough).

Safe to say I'm going to have my 19th birthday in a few months and pretty much nothing has changed from last year. Still barely have any friends because I failed senior year of highschool and all my friends are off to college while I'm rotting in highschool still.

Here's hoping I can at least graduate next year and move out of my small town for uni and hopefully get to meet a girl or something

 

[Deleted member 6695]

I have done nothing since my 11th. Instead of waiting a year for gifts my parents get me my stuff when i need it.
All I do is thank God for my health and food on my birthdays

 

[Deleted member 5189]

Same, on my 16th birthday I had a party and all my friends organized everything for me. Age 17 I'm all alone because of COVID, and age 18 I was going through my senior year of highschool and everyone else was so no one really bothered anyway (plus COVID was rough).

Safe to say I'm going to have my 19th birthday in a few months and pretty much nothing has changed from last year. Still barely have any friends because I failed senior year of highschool and all my friends are off to college while I'm rotting in highschool still.

Here's hoping I can at least graduate next year and move out of my small town for uni and hopefully get to meet a girl or something

Shill

 

[Deleted member 15069]

Shill

Wym

 

[Deleted member 14203]

What I'm doing for my 19th birthday:

 

[Gonthar]

In my country when you turn 18 a huge party is usually expected...

 

[datboijj]

chad trait: not acknowledging or bringing up ur birthday cuz u hate the attention

at my workplace a senior worker
said "oh yeh it ____'s birthday today omg how old are you again?" "guys its his birthday!"
and i swear i wanted to knock that bitch out

 

[EverythingMattersCel]

It's normal not to celebrate your birthday tbh. I have never had a birthday party before. It's not a big deal. There have been years when not a single person (not even immediate family) remembered my birthday.

 

[datboijj]

It's normal not to celebrate your birthday tbh. I have never had a birthday party before. It's not a big deal. There have been years when not a single person (not even immediate family) remembered my birthday.

 

[Catawampus]

When I turned 20 it was just my family and even they don't care that much, I didn't even want to acknowledge that it was my birthday

 

[Gonthar]

at my workplace a senior worker
said "oh yeh it ____'s birthday today omg how old are you again?" "guys its his birthday!"
and i swear i wanted to knock that bitch out

Why, she just tried to be friendly, you won't believe with how much stuff you can get away when it's your birthday, I remember getting drunk and calling in the middle of the night a girl from my class, she got really angry, but when I explained it's my birthday, I was celebrating and remembered her, she immediately changed her attitude...

 

[datboijj]

Why, she just tried to be friendly, you won't believe with how much stuff you can get away when it's your birthday, I remember getting drunk and calling in the middle of the night a girl from my class, she got really angry, but when I explained it's my birthday, I was celebrating and remembered her, she immediately changed her attitude...

because i wasn't going to get anything special ( and i didn't)
also I look way younger than i actually am
so it felt like she was doxing me
you wouldn't understand

 

[Essonerian]

Do your parents say anything about it? When ppl like my uncle call to say happy bday I tell em "yeh I'm going out with my friends later today" cuz I always get asked what I'm doin n dat it's so awkward

just be with family, it's both good for you and socially acceptable

 

[Tony]

bro we celebrate with nigga names @Shebe

 

[Gonthar]

so it felt like she was doxing me
you wouldn't understand

LOL, in Europe there's this GDPR law to prevent this, innocent remarks like these can be considered a breach of privacy.

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[Deleted member 13137]

I’m turning 21 and I’m just gone cook myself dinner and drink tewuila

 

[TITUS]

You should be doing parties with your friends, if you don't have any friends get a looksmaxers meetup.

 

[Deleted member 5189]

You should be doing parties with your friends, if you don't have any friends get a looksmaxers meetup.

Would if I could