Is it normal that only 7 foids out of 47 met did not ghost me after the first date?

[russiancelreturns]

I met 47 foids off tinder within few months and i only slayed one. Why like that

 

[russiancelreturns]

b

 

[Dezzy]

skill issue. You don't know how to spike her emotions and depict yourself as higher value through your demeanor by acting detached and nonchalant.

adding to that you probably revealed your interest level and your texting game is horrid

 

[nocajebudala]

not normal, youre probably boring to them

 

[russiancelreturns]

skill issue. You don't know how to spike her emotions and depict yourself as higher value through your demeanor by acting detached and nonchalant.

adding to that you probably revealed your interest level and your texting game is horrid

is it possible they reject me cuz i didnt fuck them on the first day or tales

 

[Neph]

These rates are horrible. Next time just invite them to your place. If they dont they didnt like you anyways.

 

[Whatever]

They were just looking for a free dinner or someone to talk to, it’s not a “skill issue”.

 

[Dezzy]

h

is it possible they reject me cuz i didnt fuck them on the first day or tales

yes it is. If she had any genuine desire and was willing to sleep with you that night and you didn't then they'll perceive you as weak because you didn't take initiative. I have 80+ bodies and every girl i didn't fuck on the first link I never saw again or I got ghosted.

 

[russiancelreturns]

They were just looking for a free dinner or someone to talk to, it’s not a “skill issue”.

i took them for drinks and i mostly did all talking cuz they seemed to be nervous/intimidated

 

[Dezzy]

They were just looking for a free dinner or someone to talk to, it’s not a “skill issue”.

women only use men they perceive as weak or they're not attracted to for free resources.
(attention, money, etc)

hypergamy doesn't take chances.

If they thought he was attractive enough to go out with him and even on the date chances are he lowered his perceived value through his demeanor. you can literally fuck it up midway if you reveal your interest level.

women have hundreds thousands of options online to help them sleep at night they don't go on dates with men they would never consider sleeping with. Regardless If you spiked her emotions the right way and she had an ounce of attraction towards you and you lead it back to your place or hers it def would have went down.

 

[Grievous]

skill issue. You don't know how to spike her emotions and depict yourself as higher value through your demeanor by acting detached and nonchalant.

girls do not like nonchalant guys

 

[russiancelreturns]

h

yes it is. If she had any genuine desire and was willing to sleep with you that night and you didn't then they'll perceive you as weak because you didn't take initiative. I have 80+ bodies and every girl i didn't fuck on the first link I never saw again or I got ghosted.

whats your dates look like and how do you escalate

 

[Dezzy]

i took them for drinks and i mostly did all talking cuz they seemed to be nervous/intimidated

do not fall for that trap ever.

always stay ABOVE the conversation and ask questions about her

SHE should be doing most of the talking not you.

she subconsciously signals your eagerness to get to know her as weak internal emotional fortitude and lack of options.

 

[russiancelreturns]

do not fall for that trap ever.

always stay ABOVE the conversation and ask questions about her

SHE should be doing most of the talking not you.

she subconsciously signals your eagerness to get to know her as weak internal emotional fortitude and lack of options.

but they are intimidated by me (shaking hands etc). I got called I look criminal or serial killer

 

[tunisianropemaxxer]

Either ugly or u dont know how to talk to them

 

[ccwb]

do not fall for that trap ever.

always stay ABOVE the conversation and ask questions about her

SHE should be doing most of the talking not you.

she subconsciously signals your eagerness to get to know her as weak internal emotional fortitude and lack of options.

Does this mean girls who don’t talk to me I js ghost them forever

 

[Whatever]

i took them for drinks and i mostly did all talking cuz they seemed to be nervous/intimidated

That’s jestering, when a girl has done that to me, which has happened, I was the one to ghost her. Or you can just walk out and leave. You should be able to feel if she wants sex or not, by her body language and tone, if you don’t feel anything from her then just assume she doesn’t want it.

 

[russiancelreturns]

That’s jestering, when a girl has done that to me, which has happened, I was the one to ghost her. Or you can just walk out and leave. You should be able to feel if she wants sex or not, by her body language and tone, if you don’t feel anything from her then just assume she doesn’t want it.

you are detached from reality

 

[Dezzy]

girls do not like nonchalant guys

yes they do becuase they like men who are better than them and acting nonchalant subconsciously signals that you are of higher value.

girls do not like nonchalant guys

that's what they claim not what they respond to.

 

[Grievous]

yes they do becuase they like men who are better than them and acting nonchalant subconsciously signals that you are of higher value.

that's what they claim not what they respond to.

girls were moving on me when I was nonchalant
I wasn't nonchalant by choice

They were moving onto me but I dont have a fuckign clue how to flirt so being nonchalant fucked me over

Im probably js coping with the nonchalant shit
cus i dont have a clue how to flirt or move on the conversation

 

[Dezzy]

you are detached from reality

he has braindead takes a girl being nervous and anxious is usually a good sign.

I've had girls i've taken on dates that said 2 words and I still railed them after

also another date the girl went to the bathroom for 20 mins and I still smashed that same night. She later told me she was texting her friend about me I ended up being in a months long situationship with her

It's all about depicting yourself as higher value through your demeanor. DO NOT reveal your interest level, act detached, calm, sarcastic, and even show slight disinterest but don't overdue it. And lead it back to your place or hers she won't verbalize anything it's up to you to take the hint.

 

[russiancelreturns]

he has braindead takes a girl being nervous and anxious is usually a good sign.

I've had girls i've taken on dates that said 2 words and I still railed them after

also another date the girl went to the bathroom for 20 mins and I still smashed that same night. She later told me she was texting her friend about me I ended up being in a months long situationship with her

It's all about depicting yourself as higher value through your demeanor. DO NOT reveal your interest level, act detached, calm, sarcastic, and even show slight disinterest but don't overdue it. And lead it back to your place or hers she won't verbalize anything it's up to you to take the hint.

my last date was on friday. I drove 50km and picked the foid up to my car, i wanted to take her to the big city but she wanted to stay in her shithole where we were in begin with and i did it, she lost interest very quickly, i larped to her i was modeling etc and she agreed with me that i should model and i won the genetic lottery, but after these words she called for her female frends and they picked her up and she deleted match with me on tinder eventually JFL.

I wasted gas and the date lasted around 30m cuz she just left. And she was 47th foid I've met within using tinder for about 8 months. They always flake on me once I take them for drinks or coffee even if we both french-kissed.

 

[Dezzy]

my last date was on friday. I drove 50km and picked the foid up to my car, i wanted to take her to the big city but she wanted to stay in her shithole where we were in begin with and i did it, she lost interest very quickly, i larped to her i was modeling etc and she agreed with me that i should model and i won the genetic lottery, but after these words she called for her female frends and they picked her up and she deleted match with me on tinder eventually JFL.

I wasted gas and the date lasted around 30m cuz she just left. And she was 47th foid I've met within using tinder for about 8 months. They always flake on me once I take them for drinks or coffee even if we both french-kissed.

yeah bro hoeflation is a real thing these women have tons of options.

I've had girls give me head on the first date and they ended up ghosting ME.

Your first mistake was driving that far. I always say "a high quality woman is just a high interest woman"

The higher her attraction is for you the more compliant she will be. She would have drive that far to see you if she wanted to matter of fact it might've been a shit test / compliance test to test your frame.

compliance in a women raises her own attraction

compliance in a man decreases attraction.

Another example of a shit-test is her saying "i'm not free friday but i am sat"
if you say yes to sat you failed now she knows you weren't free that entire weekend.

You need to escalate and be detached simultaneously.

act calm and nonchalant but still LEAD

 

[russiancelreturns]

yeah bro hoeflation is a real thing these women have tons of options.

I've had girls give me head on the first date and they ended up ghosting ME.

Your first mistake was driving that far. I always say "a high quality woman is just a high interest woman"

The higher her attraction is for you the more compliant she will be. She would have drive that far to see you if she wanted to matter of fact it might've been a shit test / compliance test to test your frame.

compliance in a women raises her own attraction

compliance in a man decreases attraction.

Another example of a shit-test is her saying "i'm not free friday but i am sat"
if you say yes to sat you failed now she knows you weren't free that entire weekend.

You need to escalate and be detached simultaneously.

act calm and nonchalant but still LEAD

but why did she leave in the middle of the date? is it bc of i was so cucked and changed my plans for her? i wanted to take her to Warsaw while we were rotting in small village cuz she said she didnt want to go so far away JFLLLL

also I invited LTB over my place on saturday and she didnt want to do shit in my place we were just lying in clothes in my parents' bed. Was it a shit test also and she had rape fetish or what? these bitches are so complicated

 

[Dezzy]

but why did she leave in the middle of the date? is it bc of i was so cucked and changed my plans for her? i wanted to take her to Warsaw while we were rotting in small village cuz she said she didnt want to go so far away JFLLLL

also I invited LTB over my place on saturday and she didnt want to do shit in my place we were just lying in clothes in my parents' bed. Was it a shit test also and she had rape fetish or what? these bitches are so complicated

I had a similar situation not too long ago JFL.

This girl lives upstate and we set up a date for friday for 8, On friday at around 6 she says she won't be able to make it because of something that happened at her work and if i was free sat.

I said yes. Not only that but i agreed to pick her up at grand central instead of meeting her at the sushi place.

What happened was I picked her up sat and her respect level was low to the point that her entire demeanor was off FROM DEFAULT.

Remember respect = attraction when it comes to women.

We make it halfway to the sushi place and she literally was texting someone on her phone the majority of the commute and when we're almost there she says "wait i got a call and it was some fake made up scenario from her sister and she claimed "her cat had a problem" JFL and ended up leaving.

genuinely one of the most brutal shit that ever happened to me and nothing comes close

They tend to shit test only when they have to choose between you and/or multiple other guys to see or that they're already seeing.

If she perceives you to be lower value than a guy she's already talking to she won't want to sleep with you and best case scenario you'll get used for attention and/or resources.
And trust me women are never single there's always a guy they're talking to or someone in their past that they keep in touch with or multiple guys.

Through text and in person act detached, nonchalant and non eager.

Think about how you would act with a girl you barely like or don't even like. Now act like that with every girl.