is it okay to cope to keep going

[ydrrrkabi]

is it okay if i find angles where i see myself good? just to have enough confidence to get through the day while i keep working on improving myself, i aint trying to say i look good etc… i know how i really look, but if everyday i kept thinking that i don’t know if i would be able to do my work like gym etc… its just the way i have to keep going, in the day i do my shit, and at night i “face the reality” cause i obviously know i dont have good skin etc… i dont know if yall get what i mean, but is it wrong? or its okay

 

[evil zombie doge]

listen, despite what niggas like to say about me with all this ''dnr'' shit, i give out TRUE genune advice, from the heart, and i'll give it to you also.

confidence, isn't something that people can give to you, it's not something a bro can just...muster into you, it's lowkey about saying to yourself ''i can do this'' even if you know you can't......because lwk bro, confidence is NOT about succeeding or about winning, no bro it's about beliving that you can do it.

a lot of people have honestly fucked up the word ''confidence'' into making it seem like a thing you have that makes you win, but no, it's really beleiving in yourself.

that bro who said ''i can pull shawty'' while he's 5'5? that's confidence.

that guy who said ''imma make it through the week'' after finding out he's getting kicked out of his place next month? that's confidence.

and if anyone tries to tell you anything else, tries to mess confidence up more than it's already been warped and twisted, tell them
''i have conficence in my confidence''

 

[moonx]

listen, despite what niggas like to say about me with all this ''dnr'' shit, i give out TRUE genune advice, from the heart, and i'll give it to you also.

confidence, isn't something that people can give to you, it's not something a bro can just...muster into you, it's lowkey about saying to yourself ''i can do this'' even if you know you can't......because lwk bro, confidence is NOT about succeeding or about winning, no bro it's about beliving that you can do it.

a lot of people have honestly fucked up the word ''confidence'' into making it seem like a thing you have that makes you win, but no, it's really beleiving in yourself.

that bro who said ''i can pull shawty'' while he's 5'5? that's confidence.

that guy who said ''imma make it through the week'' after finding out he's getting kicked out of his place next month? that's confidence.

and if anyone tries to tell you anything else, tries to mess confidence up more than it's already been warped and twisted, tell them
''i have conficence in my confidence''

Nigga no one is reading allat

 

[evil zombie doge]

oh, and listen, when people say

''face the reality''

they're really saying

''think the way i want you too''

because.......what makes seeing yourself as good, any different from someone else who sees you as bad?

if you get your thoughts about yourself from other people.......you are not thinking for yourself bro.

look at yourself and compare yourself to things you like, maybe a mole or a hairstyle that reminds you of who you like, and only focus on that.

i lowkey dealt with this same issue, and it took a lot of realizing how much i just need to think my own way to feel better to know.

 

[evil zombie doge]

Nigga no one is reading allat

listen, the person who made this post needs help and im giving them help, this isn't for you, it's for them.

 

[ydrrrkabi]

listen, despite what niggas like to say about me with all this ''dnr'' shit, i give out TRUE genune advice, from the heart, and i'll give it to you also.

confidence, isn't something that people can give to you, it's not something a bro can just...muster into you, it's lowkey about saying to yourself ''i can do this'' even if you know you can't......because lwk bro, confidence is NOT about succeeding or about winning, no bro it's about beliving that you can do it.

a lot of people have honestly fucked up the word ''confidence'' into making it seem like a thing you have that makes you win, but no, it's really beleiving in yourself.

that bro who said ''i can pull shawty'' while he's 5'5? that's confidence.

that guy who said ''imma make it through the week'' after finding out he's getting kicked out of his place next month? that's confidence.

and if anyone tries to tell you anything else, tries to mess confidence up more than it's already been warped and twisted, tell them
''i have conficence in my confidence''

listen, the person who made this post needs help and im giving them help, this isn't for you, it's for them.

thank you so much bro, i have confidence in my hard work, i have confidence that if i never give up ill reach the point i am looking upon to, but apart of confidence, its okay to do this to keep going? i dont know if u get what i mean, like not for confidence, but just make myself think i look normal for a moment so i can keep doing things like gym skincare etc… because witouth it i just say “there is nothing u can do its over” u understand what i mean? other thant that thank you so much you helped me a lot already

 

[evil zombie doge]

thank you so much bro, i have confidence in my hard work, i have confidence that if i never give up ill reach the point i am looking upon to, but apart of confidence, its okay to do this to keep going? i dont know if u get what i mean, like not for confidence, but just make myself think i look normal for a moment so i can keep doing things like gym skincare etc… because witouth it i just say “there is nothing u can do its over” u understand what i mean? other thant that thank you so much you helped me a lot already

''its okay to do this to keep going?''

yes bro, it is okay to do what makes you happy, it is okay to do what makes your life more enjoyable.

a lot of people like to try and say ''you have to think a certain way or you're delusional'' but do you wanna know what they're really saying?

they're saying

''think like me because i don't like the way you think''

humans weren't given imaginations just to not use them, if you think your hair looks like your favorite person hair, or if you wear a shirt that says ''im strong'' and when you wear it, it gives you a + 10 confidences, then that's real.....

why?

because life is about what's experianced, not what other people try to tell us.

 

[evil zombie doge]

thank you so much bro, i have confidence in my hard work, i have confidence that if i never give up ill reach the point i am looking upon to, but apart of confidence, its okay to do this to keep going? i dont know if u get what i mean, like not for confidence, but just make myself think i look normal for a moment so i can keep doing things like gym skincare etc… because witouth it i just say “there is nothing u can do its over” u understand what i mean? other thant that thank you so much you helped me a lot already

", but just make myself think i look normal for a moment "

trust me bro when i say this.....you're a normal bro to me, and even if you weren't normal to me, that still wouldn't matter because trust me bro..........how you feel about yourself......is really up for you to decide, not someone who's having a bad day, not someone who's projecting their own thoughts on you...........but for you....to decide.

i hope what i've said to you has helped you greatly, you really are beautiful no matter what anyone says.

 

[ydrrrkabi]

''its okay to do this to keep going?''

yes bro, it is okay to do what makes you happy, it is okay to do what makes your life more enjoyable.

a lot of people like to try and say ''you have to think a certain way or you're delusional'' but do you wanna know what they're really saying?

they're saying

''think like me because i don't like the way you think''

humans weren't given imaginations just to not use them, if you think your hair looks like your favorite person hair, or if you wear a shirt that says ''im strong'' and when you wear it, it gives you a + 10 confidences, then that's real.....

why?

because life is about what's experianced, not what other people try to tell us.

thank you so much bro one day i will not need to to this anymore, i have confidence that if i continue like this someday i will always see myself normal and handsome enough

 

[ydrrrkabi]

", but just make myself think i look normal for a moment "

trust me bro when i say this.....you're a normal bro to me, and even if you weren't normal to me, that still wouldn't matter because trust me bro..........how you feel about yourself......is really up for you to decide, not someone who's having a bad day, not someone who's projecting their own thoughts on you...........but for you....to decide.

i hope what i've said to you has helped you greatly, you really are beautiful no matter what anyone says.

ye bro you helped me a looot you are the nicest persone i’ve ever met