Is it over at 21?

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I’m 21 now and despite trying to social circle max, looksmax, and put myself out there i’m still a KHHV, High school was not my time and after graduating I went to wagecel full time.

I feel like my dreams of either having a LTR virgin gf or slaying are both not going to happen, because if I ascend it’ll take 1-2 years to fully do so. I’m decently maxed out on softmaxxing I just need to improve my eyebrows and eyelashes and gymmaxx because i’m skinny. My height is nerfing me somewhat at 5’8 (though with shoe lifts or thick sole shoes i don’t know how much of a problem this would be)

Is it over for me before it even began to have a somewhat normal life or is there still hope?

TLDR: High school years were mediocre and no successes with women > graduated then became wagecel > not happy with life > is it over?
 
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Sounds pretty over yes
 
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I’m 21 now and despite trying to social circle max, looksmax, and put myself out there i’m still a KHHV, High school was not my time and after graduating I went to wagecel full time.

I feel like my dreams of either having a LTR virgin gf or slaying are both not going to happen, because if I ascend it’ll take 1-2 years to fully do so. I’m decently maxed out on softmaxxing I just need to improve my eyebrows and eyelashes and gymmaxx because i’m skinny. My height is nerfing me somewhat at 5’8 (though with shoe lifts or thick sole shoes i don’t know how much of a problem this would be)

Is it over for me before it even began to have a somewhat normal life or is there still hope?

TLDR: High school years were mediocre and no successes with women > graduated then became wagecel > not happy with life > is it over?
How good do you look? It may not be fully over, 21 is still young, and I know a guy who was 24 when he lost his virginity and now at 30 is getting married to a htb. I would say that if you are still stuck in the same position after 25, it is truly over.
 
How good do you look? It may not be fully over, 21 is still young, and I know a guy who was 24 when he lost his virginity and now at 30 is getting married to a htb. I would say that if you are still stuck in the same position after 25, it is truly over.
I’m decent looking, i’ve had a few girls on my IG say i look fine, if i had to objectively rate myself im like a high MTN / Low HTN

I guess 21 is still young but how can I change? I feel so stuck, the only change i’ve done is start college part time so i hope that’ll help with my shitty social life
 
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I guess 21 is still young but how can I change? I feel so stuck, the only change i’ve done is start college part time so i hope that’ll help with my shitty social life
Idk how, but do it by any means necessary, if you wait life will pass you by before you know it. I am 29 yo and can't believe how fast time flies. I am a failure myself and can't give good advice, but I know that at 21 it's not over; I have seen examples that prove that.
 
I’m 21 now and despite trying to social circle max, looksmax, and put myself out there i’m still a KHHV, High school was not my time and after graduating I went to wagecel full time.

I feel like my dreams of either having a LTR virgin gf or slaying are both not going to happen, because if I ascend it’ll take 1-2 years to fully do so. I’m decently maxed out on softmaxxing I just need to improve my eyebrows and eyelashes and gymmaxx because i’m skinny. My height is nerfing me somewhat at 5’8 (though with shoe lifts or thick sole shoes i don’t know how much of a problem this would be)

Is it over for me before it even began to have a somewhat normal life or is there still hope?

TLDR: High school years were mediocre and no successes with women > graduated then became wagecel > not happy with life > is it over?
yes
 
I’m 21 now and despite trying to social circle max, looksmax, and put myself out there i’m still a KHHV, High school was not my time and after graduating I went to wagecel full time.

I feel like my dreams of either having a LTR virgin gf or slaying are both not going to happen, because if I ascend it’ll take 1-2 years to fully do so. I’m decently maxed out on softmaxxing I just need to improve my eyebrows and eyelashes and gymmaxx because i’m skinny. My height is nerfing me somewhat at 5’8 (though with shoe lifts or thick sole shoes i don’t know how much of a problem this would be)

Is it over for me before it even began to have a somewhat normal life or is there still hope?

TLDR: High school years were mediocre and no successes with women > graduated then became wagecel > not happy with life > is it over?
"over" and "21" in the same sentence lol, you still got your entire life ahead of you brah
 
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"over" and "21" in the same sentence lol, you still got your entire life ahead of you brah
true, my mental health was super bad when I wrote this. But you're not wrong I can still ascend and hopefully enjoy life by 22/23
 
I’m 21 now and despite trying to social circle max, looksmax, and put myself out there i’m still a KHHV, High school was not my time and after graduating I went to wagecel full time.

I feel like my dreams of either having a LTR virgin gf or slaying are both not going to happen, because if I ascend it’ll take 1-2 years to fully do so. I’m decently maxed out on softmaxxing I just need to improve my eyebrows and eyelashes and gymmaxx because i’m skinny. My height is nerfing me somewhat at 5’8 (though with shoe lifts or thick sole shoes i don’t know how much of a problem this would be)

Is it over for me before it even began to have a somewhat normal life or is there still hope?

TLDR: High school years were mediocre and no successes with women > graduated then became wagecel > not happy with life > is it over?
its not over if youre under 25
 
why would be over ?

I had my first kiss at 21 and lost my virginity at 22, and now since i got lean i have a gf and i look good

I was always skinnyfat untill 21 and this is why i didnt had options
 
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why would be over ?

I had my first kiss at 21 and lost my virginity at 22, and now since i got lean i have a gf and i look good

I was always skinnyfat untill 21 and this is why i didnt had options
i don't know. I guess it's because I tried really hard at 20 to ascend and stuff didn't change too much so after turning 21 I was like "wtf" is the point of this.

But looking at things in a less bad mental state I mean I did change stuff up, I'm nearly softmaxxed I just need to put on some muscle cause Im skinny rn then I probably should ascend

My exposure / Social circle though is really bad and I think this is the biggest thing holding me back still
 
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Idk it depends on how much your sanity is still intact
 
start a buesniss
 

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