Is it over for someone who didnt socialise during teenage years?

[bombastik]

I was sitting at home from 14 to 18 and now I feel that im not able to build any connection with anybody and its truly over for me

 

[160cmcurry]

it is

it’s rlly hard to make friends in adulthood

no one’s rlly open unless you find others like you

 

[fallen442]

yeah fucked very hard to make friends after school

 

[Marcelek]

socializng is extremely important so yeah i agree

 

[16OO]

I was sitting at home from 14 to 18 and now I feel that im not able to build any connection with anybody and its truly over for me

You could get lucky and make friends with ur coworkers

 

[bombastik]

it is

it’s rlly hard to make friends in adulthood

no one’s rlly open unless you find others like you

But why is it
Because u cant gain those social skills that are mostly got during that age?

 

[sasha108]

Maybe
16-18 were kinda peak
But there's still a chance

 

[sasha108]

But why is it
Because u cant gain those social skills that are mostly got during that age?

Because It is all different now
You can't discuss with niga what teacher is he gooning or something
Everything is casual
Idk about relationship tho

 

[160cmcurry]

But why is it
Because u cant gain those social skills that are mostly got during that age?

it’s not social skills

people are just more closed off and not open to making ‘new friends’ in adulthood

there isn’t that many opportunities after highschool/college

everyone usually sticks with their own circle or through mutuals by then

 

[fkingrey]

I was sitting at home from 14 to 18 and now I feel that im not able to build any connection with anybody and its truly over for me

No and whoever tells you it is theyre retarded, becoming a friendly person, that people enjoy being around is simple asf, its the exact same concept as lm but EASIER, there are tens of thousands of books about how people and groups work, read the best, and practice it in a park, mall, shop, wherever, looking terrible is a much bigger nerf than being shy/socially retarded, this is soemthing you can LEARN nga its easy

 

[Vannx]

I was sitting at home from 14 to 18 and now I feel that im not able to build any connection with anybody and its truly over for me

social media can help maybe