Is it over if you have to try, or are you just undesirable?

[MoriBountarou2]

Biologically speaking women are the ones that initiate. Some could be bold and straight up ask you for you number, some may give you more subtle signs. Hypergamy (if we exclude artificial factors like recources etc) makes sense at least in a naturalistic worldview which doesnt work logically but yet i havent yet understood how it can coexist with the existance of metaphysics. But even if we remove hypergamy from the equation women would still be the ones that choose, that initiate. So if you havent gotten any sign from any women your whole life then is it worth trying? What i mean by trying is you initiating anything. If they don't even look at you for more then half a second, if no girl even says goodmorning when you go to class etc. Should you even try approaching? Maybe asking a friend to ask his girlfriend to put you on with one of her friends? Is there any point to anything of this nature, the man initiating? I feel like it is really cringe and desperate. And also it isnt smth organic like meeting them at uni, work etc

 

[Petsmart]

A woman that approaches you is a red flag. Too much testosterone.

 

[MoriBountarou2]

A woman that approaches you is a red flag. Too much testosterone.

 

[New Poster]

Bro writes a whole paragraph of basement-tier sperg biology, but doesn’t explain wtf his thread title even means. What is “try” supposed to even mean here?

 

[anondude]

Idk nigga ur probably ugly

 

[Divineincel]

Biologically speaking women are the ones that initiate. Some could be bold and straight up ask you for you number, some may give you more subtle signs. Hypergamy (if we exclude artificial factors like recources etc) makes sense at least in a naturalistic worldview which doesnt work logically but yet i havent yet understood how it can coexist with the existance of metaphysics. But even if we remove hypergamy from the equation women would still be the ones that choose, that initiate. So if you havent gotten any sign from any women your whole life then is it worth trying? What i mean by trying is you initiating anything. If they don't even look at you for more then half a second, if no girl even says goodmorning when you go to class etc. Should you even try approaching? Maybe asking a friend to ask his girlfriend to put you on with one of her friends? Is there any point to anything of this nature, the man initiating? I feel like it is really cringe and desperate. And also it isnt smth organic like meeting them at uni, work etc

 

[MoriBountarou2]

Bro writes a whole paragraph of basement-tier sperg biology, but doesn’t explain wtf his thread title even means. What is “try” supposed to even mean here?

You initiating

 

[MoriBountarou2]

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[New Poster]

You initiating

Do you mean approaching?

 

[MoriBountarou2]

Do you mean approaching?

Yes

 

[New Poster]

Yes

Yeah, hot young thin white girls aren’t cold approaching

 

[MoriBountarou2]

Yeah, hot young thin white girls aren’t cold approaching

Thats why in the thread i called it initiating. It could be other signs not just a straight up approach

 

[Whatever]

You need a social circle to go to parties and events with and meet girls that way. Class is not the best place for it. When I was in college I had a lot of girls sit by me and talk to me during class but I only ended up in a situationship with one of them, the rest were just girls who wanted me as maybe a backup option to their main guy who they usually met at a party. And when I started going to parties was when things changed for me.

I can promise that how you meet a girl matters a lot, people on here don’t say this because they don’t have the experience or the discernment to know that.