Is it possible to be a “ladies man” with legit long hair?

[Dbeyduvudhs]

I’ve had so many girls tell me long hair is a turn off for them. Like anything past shaggy level. Or below the chin in length.

If a chad had shoulder or longer hair would he be stuck to niche type or goth and rock n roll girls? Or could he get cheerleader types.

 

[TsarTsar444]

Long hair is death sentence, only have it if yoy want to asexual monkmax like me tbh

 

[Dbeyduvudhs]

Long hair is death sentence, only have it if yoy want to asexual monkmax like me tbh

I tend to agree but there have been hot guys who have it. The chad from Friday night lights. Young Pitt young Depp.

But overall I agree. Long male hair is the one thing I rarely ever see with a hot girl.

It’s like the opposite of cool tattoos.

 

[Deleted member 22714]

I have very long hair and its a halo depending on how you take care and maintain it. have girls on dating apps open me saying how they are obsessed with it

 

[Dbeyduvudhs]

I have very long hair and its a halo depending on how you take care and maintain it. have girls on dating apps open me saying how they are obsessed with it

I’m curious what types of girls were these?

Like we’re any the instagram model types that are all concerned with their social reputation? Or were they more bold girls who choose their own path

 

[ifyouwannabemylover]

doesn't mean you can pull it off though

 

[currylightskin]

Incel in 2022 yakhi

 

[Dbeyduvudhs]

doesn't mean you can pull it off though

The questjon isn’t if these guys can get laid. It’s if they can land neurotypical cheerleader / ig model types.

From what they’ve told me long hair is a big no

 

[Deleted member 21766]

No. None of the women I talked to liked my long hair

 

[Deleted member 22714]

I’m curious what types of girls were these?

Like we’re any the instagram model types that are all concerned with their social reputation? Or were they more bold girls who choose their own path

mostly young (18-20) stereotype white girls

 

[ifyouwannabemylover]

The questjon isn’t if these guys can get laid. It’s if they can land neurotypical cheerleader / ig model types.

From what they’ve told me long hair is a big no

yea they can

no girl just "doesn't like guys with long hair", it's just that the average dude can't pull it off

 

[Dbeyduvudhs]

mostly young (18-20) stereotype white girls

Wow that’s shocking. How long was it.

 

[Dbeyduvudhs]

yea they can

no girl just "doesn't like guys with long hair", it's just that the average dude can't pull it off

Girls are fickle like this you know. They aren’t judging off intrinsic beauty like we are. They’re judging off fickle stupid things often times.

 

[Deleted member 22714]

Wow that’s shocking. How long was it.

It's around shoulder length, very similar to jason momoa

 

[BoneDensity]

If you're chad it doesn't matter.

 

[Dbeyduvudhs]

It's around shoulder length, very similar to jason momoa

Are you gl???

 

[Deleted member 22714]

Are you gl???

tf does that mean

 

[loksr]

Cut your fucking hair
Jesus christ
What has to happen in a man’s life to make him futilely attempt to ascend to PSL chad level instead of just getting a fucking haircut

 

[Dbeyduvudhs]

tf does that mean

R u good looking

 

[Dbeyduvudhs]

Cut your fucking hair
Jesus christ
What has to happen in a man’s life to make him futilely attempt to ascend to PSL chad level instead of just getting a fucking haircut

Are you saying that in general or specific to me and my looks

 

[loksr]

Are you saying that in general or specific to me and my looks

Both

Being a chad isn’t even enough to pull off long hair, you need to be a SPECIFIC kind of chad, even most chads look like dogshit with long hair.

 

[Deleted member 22714]

R u good looking

I rate myself HTN or atleast bordering it

 

[Dbeyduvudhs]

Both

Being a chad isn’t even enough to pull off long hair, you need to be a SPECIFIC kind of chad, even most chads look like dogshit with long hair.

But there is the theory that cutting hair to look NT is beta

Like having legit long hair almost assured any girls that you don’t have a job where you answer to someone.

 

[loksr]

But there is the theory that cutting hair to look NT is beta

Don’t ever say that shit in front of anybody ever again jesus fucking christ that was the most autistic shit I’ve ever read in my entire life if anybody you know irl found out you said some shit like that it would be well and truly over

Like having legit long hair almost assured any girls that you don’t have a job where you answer to someone.

Men tell you that girls are disgusted by long hair
Women tell you that girls are disgusted by long hair
cats and dogs probably have told you the same thing

It’s done, it will not work, it’s objectively bad, go get a haircut

 

[BucketCrab]

I have pretty long hair and I've been with many girls who really loved it, had many female friends ask me not to cut it when I mentioned I wanted a change. I've also seen girls complain when a common male acquaintance cut his long hair (although truth be told the guy was pretty attractive, they wouldn't have given a shit if he was ugly). I also know plenty of long haired guys who slay regularly. Things may be different from other countries where I live though.

Most of the people in this thread are full of shit tbh.
They associate long hair with the stereotypical nerd/shut-in/loser only.
Well maintained long hair can really attractive; although yes, it probably does make your appeal a bit more niche. That's not necessarily a bad thing though, you will have more intense attraction from a narrower selection of girls.

In my opinion it kinda works like a looks amplifier; ugly with long hair is even uglier, handsome with long hair is (often) even more handsome. But it is also true that you need certain features to look good with long hair; very wide faces look bad with long hair, for example.

 

[Deleted member 8608]

I have pretty long hair and I've been with many girls who really loved it, had many female friends ask me not to cut it when I mentioned I wanted a change. I've also seen girls complain when a common male acquaintance cut his long hair (although truth be told the guy was pretty attractive, they wouldn't have given a shit if he was ugly). I also know plenty of long haired guys who slay regularly. Things may be different from other countries where I live though.

Most of the people in this thread are full of shit tbh.
They associate long hair with the stereotypical nerd/shut-in/loser only.
Well maintained long hair can really attractive; although yes, it probably does make your appeal a bit more niche. That's not necessarily a bad thing though, you will have more intense attraction from a narrower selection of girls.

In my opinion it kinda works like a looks amplifier; ugly with long hair is even uglier, handsome with long hair is (often) even more handsome. But it is also true that you need certain features to look good with long hair; very wide faces look bad with long hair, for example.

I have a wide face, shouldnt long hair look more harmonious

 

[loksr]

I have pretty long hair and I've been with many girls who really loved it, had many female friends ask me not to cut it when I mentioned I wanted a change. I've also seen girls complain when a common male acquaintance cut his long hair (although truth be told the guy was pretty attractive, they wouldn't have given a shit if he was ugly). I also know plenty of long haired guys who slay regularly. Things may be different from other countries where I live though.

Most of the people in this thread are full of shit tbh.
They associate long hair with the stereotypical nerd/shut-in/loser only.
Well maintained long hair can really attractive; although yes, it probably does make your appeal a bit more niche. That's not necessarily a bad thing though, you will have more intense attraction from a narrower selection of girls.

In my opinion it kinda works like a looks amplifier; ugly with long hair is even uglier, handsome with long hair is (often) even more handsome. But it is also true that you need certain features to look good with long hair; very wide faces look bad with long hair, for example.

BucketCrab
If you can’t climb out, drag others down.

 

[Deprived]

it's a niche, you should be goin for widespread appeal which means medium length hair

 

[Dbeyduvudhs]

it's a niche, you should be goin for widespread appeal which means medium length hair

I find this to be accurate from what I see.

 

[Dbeyduvudhs]

However there is the argument that average men should go full niche so that they at least have appeal to someone.

And are more polarizing. I guess.

 

[BucketCrab]

I have a wide face, shouldnt long hair look more harmonious

If it's exceptionally wide it can create the illusion of an even wider face. It depends though. Sadly it's not always easy to pinpoint the features that make a face suit long hair or not.

BucketCrab
If you can’t climb out, drag others down.

I've noticed many users who can't come up with anything to say tend to refer to my avatar/description as if they've come up with such a genius take. Quite pitiful, really.

it's a niche, you should be goin for widespread appeal which means medium length hair

This is true though. Medium length is probably the style that will attract the most women, as it will not be as off-putting to women who like short hair while still being kind of long for women who like long hair.

Still, the differences are minimal if you are already attractive to begin with, if a girl isn't into your hairstyle she may find you a little less attractive but you'll still be attractive in her eyes.

However there is the argument that average men should go full niche so that they at least have appeal to someone.

And are more polarizing. I guess.

There may be some truth to this, I have met girls who tend to only date long-hair guys, but it's not like they dislike other hairstyles.
This type of obsession is usually tied into subcultures; for example, girls who like buzzed heads the most tend to be the gym-obsessed type, while gisl who like long hair the most tend to be into music/artsy stuff. This is to be taken into account, too.

Still I think once you are already attractive you should absolutely have a niche. You need to stand out from other chads. Women want novelty and excitement, they want someone unique that offers them an experience. When they talk to their girlfriends about a guy they're into, or they have a crush on them, they always tend to idealize them in a way or another - and standing out in a good way makes them perceive you as one step above.

 

[loksr]

If it's exceptionally wide it can create the illusion of an even wider face. It depends though. Sadly it's not always easy to pinpoint the features that make a face suit long hair or not.


I've noticed many users who can't come up with anything to say tend to refer to my avatar/description as if they've come up with such a genius take. Quite pitiful, really.


This is true though. Medium length is probably the style that will attract the most women, as it will not be as off-putting to women who like short hair while still being kind of long for women who like long hair.

Still, the differences are minimal if you are already attractive to begin with, if a girl isn't into your hairstyle she may find you a little less attractive but you'll still be attractive in her eyes.


There may be some truth to this, I have met girls who tend to only date long-hair guys, but it's not like they dislike other hairstyles.
This type of obsession is usually tied into subcultures; for example, girls who like buzzed heads the most tend to be the gym-obsessed type, while gisl who like long hair the most tend to be into music/artsy stuff. This is to be taken into account, too.

Still I think once you are already attractive you should absolutely have a niche. You need to stand out from other chads. Women want novelty and excitement, they want someone unique that offers them an experience. When they talk to their girlfriends about a guy they're into, or they have a crush on them, they always tend to idealize them in a way or another - and standing out in a good way makes them perceive you as one step above.

BucketCrab
If you can’t climb out, drag others down.

 

[BucketCrab]

BucketCrab
If you can’t climb out, drag others down.

Mirin your ratio.
Wonder how that happened, your IQ is so high.