Is it possible to escape this mindset

[Thodian]

I have such a bad perception of my face but when i go out im aware that i look better than most of the other people there but it just seems like im missing something that they have i have no clue what it is in retrospect i think im usually one of the ugliest people in the room but feature for feature i win its just like they seem to have something that makes people more gravitated towards them

 

[Tesarossa]

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[manlet21392]

I have such a bad perception of my face but when i go out im aware that i look better than most of the other people there but it just seems like im missing something that they have i have no clue what it is in retrospect i think im usually one of the ugliest people in the room but feature for feature i win its just like they seem to have something that makes people more gravitated towards them

Hi

 

[Axton]

I have such a bad perception of my face but when i go out im aware that i look better than most of the other people there but it just seems like im missing something that they have i have no clue what it is in retrospect i think im usually one of the ugliest people in the room but feature for feature i win its just like they seem to have something that makes people more gravitated towards them

It's something called charisma

 

[Thodian]

It's something called charisma

Ive been told im charismatic but only after someone gets to know me. I cant just do it to randoms its like i have a threshold

 

[Axton]

Ive been told im charismatic but only after someone gets to know me. I cant just do it to randoms its like i have a threshold

Seems like you have to get comfortable around the person before you can get loose, I get it. Is it only like this when your sober or all the time?

 

[Thodian]

Seems like you have to get comfortable around the person before you can get loose, I get it. Is it only like this when your sober or all the time?

All the time, off stimulants i can be talkative but only with my friends
But i wanna get to the point where im "loose" in general like how some people can just talk to anyone new

 

[Axton]

All the time, off stimulants i can be talkative but only with my friends
But i wanna get to the point where im "loose" in general like how some people can just talk to anyone new

I'm in the same boat; I can't help you rn. But I'll see what I can do (hopefully soon).