Is it possible to ever get rid of LTR feelings?

[audimax]

When I am a coomer, I dont feel emotional. But I need to stop watching porn because of ED and anxiety issues. And when I do that, I suddenly become romantic, flirty, emotional again. Even though I am blackpilled and know she will leave me the second a better looking guy comes along, I still do and feel all the LTR shit. Is it possible to overcome this biological feelings without going back to porn? I even caught myself the last time playing with her hair and not wanting to fuck her.

Anyways, Im hopping on TRT soon, maybe that will change things.

 

[needsolution]

inject T

 

[Deleted member 5891]

I feel you mate. It is hard.
You have to find activities to keep you occupied in the best case do something with friends etc.

Another option would be going into a LTR and see it for yourself that the blackpill is true
This will give you experience to never make such a mistake again

 

[Deleted member 4209]

i am numb to it all now.

 

[audimax]

i am numb to it all now.

Yeah stop watching porn and jerking off and you will feel the sensibility again

 

[Deleted member 4209]

Yeah stop watching porn and jerking off and you will feel the sensibility again

i fap with no porn twice a week lol. i just have no sex drive or motivation to do anything.

 

[Merlix]

Have multiple girls that you're engaging with and keep options open. Why not? She is doing the same and will leave you the moment something better pops up.

I understand this is much harder for males due to the winner-takes-all nature of the dating market, but it's the only valid approach.

 

[audimax]

I feel you mate. It is hard.
You have to find activities to keep you occupied in the best case do something with friends etc.

Another option would be going into a LTR and see it for yourself that the blackpill is true
This will give you experience to never make such a mistake again

Why? I mean only about 50% of girls cheat, there is a chance she will not be cheating. And I can make sure she doesnt see any chads, has every social media on private etc etc

 

[audimax]

Have multiple girls that you're engaging with and keep options open. Why not? She is doing the same and will leave you the moment something better pops up.

You dont know yet. AFAIK, she doesnt have contact with other guys rn, except with her ex, but he is a soy submissive manlet refugee who I dont see as competition

 

[audimax]

i fap with no porn twice a week lol. i just have no sex drive or motivation to do anything.

Then youre probably depressed or low T tbh

 

[Deleted member 4209]

Then youre probably depressed or low T tbh

i want to die

 

[Merlix]

You dont know yet. AFAIK, she doesnt have contact with other guys rn, except with her ex, but he is a soy submissive manlet refugee who I dont see as competition

Women always have other options in the back of their minds which is what gives them the emotional leverage in the relationship.

 

[Deleted member 5891]

Why? I mean only about 50% of girls cheat, there is a chance she will not be cheating. And I can make sure she doesnt see any chads, has every social media on private etc etc

she will leave me the second a better looking guy comes along

I don't know what do you mean mate
You are contradicting yourself tbh

 

[audimax]

Women always have other options in the back of their minds which is what gives them the emotional leverage in the relationship.

But I have other options too since Im gymcelling hard rn, other girls (a little bit uglier than her tho) are interested

 

[Merlix]

But I have other options too since Im gymcelling hard rn, other girls (a little bit uglier than her tho) are interested

Then embrace your beta nature and keep your options open too. All you can do.

 

[audimax]

I don't know what do you mean mate
You are contradicting yourself tbh

Yes I know
But up to a certain level, I mog other guys even though they are better looking than me, because I look more intimidating
I experienced this before, if a guy is better looking than me, but I mog him (I come off as higher T as I am, meaning he is more submissive) there is no chance he is trying to steal anything.
On the other hand, if some 6'4 guy comes along who has experience fighting and wouldnt give two shits about knocking me out would come along, Id be pretty fucked

I dont understand this myself, I am pretty low T sometimes, but somehow people in RL still perceive me as high T and assertive. Maybe my job adds to it.

 

[Deleted member 7753]

You should avoid getting further emotionally attached. Don't do it bro. I used to do the exact same things. I used to enjoy the time I spent with my ex a lot and we didn't get to fuck a lot due to multiple reasons but we still saw each other multiple times a week. When you inevitably breakup with her, you will feel like shit, especially if she's your first LTR.

Keep other options available to you, talk to other women even hang out with them as friends and don't see your gf as often. Keep yourself occupied see your friends more often. I wish I did those because I had the option to and now I'm trying to rebound like a defeated dog 6 months post breakup.

 

[audimax]

You should avoid getting further emotionally attached. Don't do it bro. I used to do the exact same things. I used to enjoy the time I spent with my ex a lot and we didn't get to fuck a lot due to multiple reasons but we still saw each other multiple times a week. When you inevitably breakup with her, you will feel like shit, especially if she's your first LTR.

Keep other options available to you, talk to other women even hang out with them as friends and don't see your gf as often. Keep yourself occupied see your friends more often. I wish I did those because I had the option to and now I'm trying to rebound like a defeated dog 6 months post breakup.

What happened exactly that you broke up with her? I mean if I keep looksmaxxing, I will mog the competition, and where I come from chads wouldnt try to steal her from me because they know it would be stressful to deal with me and they can get girls more attractive than her so they wont try.

 

[Deleted member 7753]

What happened exactly that you broke up with her? I mean if I keep looksmaxxing, I will mog the competition, and where I come from chads wouldnt try to steal her from me because they know it would be stressful to deal with me and they can get girls more attractive than her so they wont try.

She turned out to be a whore which is funny cause it was very obvious and I was oblivious to the fact. I'm 6 psl in a country full of recessed subhumans and she would still point out how "good looking" some random guys are despite being clearly inferior to me looks wise. What I'm trying to say is that unless you live somewhere that whoring isn't socially acceptable, she'll always be looking for someone better than you.

 

[audimax]

She turned out to be a whore which is funny cause it was very obvious and I was oblivious to the fact. I'm 6 psl in a country full of recessed subhumans and she would still point out how "good looking" some random guys are despite being clearly inferior to me looks wise. What I'm trying to say is that unless you live somewhere that whoring isn't socially acceptable, she'll always be looking for someone better than you.

But she was together with the subhuman for 4 years, that gives me hope since I mog him to hell.
And I will make sure to watch out for signs like you had. Not tolerating anything of the whore bullshit and the moment I will see its over, I will brake up

 

[audimax]

She turned out to be a whore which is funny cause it was very obvious and I was oblivious to the fact. I'm 6 psl in a country full of recessed subhumans and she would still point out how "good looking" some random guys are despite being clearly inferior to me looks wise. What I'm trying to say is that unless you live somewhere that whoring isn't socially acceptable, she'll always be looking for someone better than you.

I dont know, I just have to get this phase done at some point in my life
Or I will run around in my 30s still romanticizing LTRs

 

[Deleted member 7753]

But she was together with the subhuman for 4 years, that gives me hope since I mog him to hell.
And I will make sure to watch out for signs like you had. Not tolerating anything of the whore bullshit and the moment I will see its over, I will brake up

Alright bro, wish you best of luck. I would personally not get into an LTR again if I was given the chance but we're not alike.

 

[Deleted member 6380]

If you were muslim you wouldn't have to worry about this, i've dodged many possible short term relationships and ons waiting for a LTR

However if you want to suppress your desires, fast, th muslim way, from fajr till maghrib

 

[BrickTop]

Fuck more foids...

 

[Deleted member 5891]

Fuck more foids...

Yes, I forgot this also helps.

If you have sex with many girls every one of them becomes more and more similar to each other.
You lose the feeling there is one special girl.

A bit like when girls fuck around and lose the ability to pair bond

 

[audimax]

Yes, I forgot this also helps.

If you have sex with many girls every one of them becomes more and more similar to each other.
You lose the feeling there is one special girl.

A bit like when girls fuck around and lose the ability to pair bond

Done that in my late teens, but I felt really desensitized like with porn. Couldnt get aroused by "normal" ways like normal couples do who are in love, I had to let her suck my dick or shit like that.

 

[TITUS]

Yes, T is the solution, you are low T.

 

[BrickTop]

Yes, I forgot this also helps.

If you have sex with many girls every one of them becomes more and more similar to each other.
You lose the feeling there is one special girl.

A bit like when girls fuck around and lose the ability to pair bond

Yup so, so true. You will have a place in your heart for the oneitis/young love. But over time you become un attached to any one single girl. Young love hits hard. Love as an adult is different (if it ever blossoms )

 

[audimax]

Yup so, so true. You will have a place in your heart for the oneitis/young love. But over time you become un attached to any one single girl. Young love hits hard. Love as an adult is different (if it ever blossoms )

Bruh Im 24 and still have the same young love feelings, because sex always felt like porn to me

 

[audimax]

Bruh Im 24 and still have the same young love feelings, because sex always felt like porn to me

I think its because I started very early, like 11 years

 

[Deleted member 5891]

We are slaves to our desires

 

[LooksJourney]

Anyways, Im hopping on TRT soon, maybe that will change things.

Yes, join the dark side.