Is it rare to be a 25-year-old man and still be a virgin?

[Deleted member 6577]

Would u call the person like this weird? What age do guys usually lose virginity?

 

[Deleted member 3328]

I certainly wouldn't call them weird.

But I assure you he would be seen as weird by all the normies.

Average age is like 17.

 

[Baldingman1998]

Realistically yes. Irl like 60-70% had sex by then. Depends where you live also

 

[Deleted member 11604]

it become less and less nowadays.

 

[CommanderCope]

yes lol. like 90% have sex by 20

Beyond college age it's weird

 

[Wallenberg]

Depends where you live, but if you live in the West, yes.

 

[Deleted member 11414]

i will be that guy in 5 years

 

[delusionalretard]

Not on this forum

 

[Deleted member 2968]

I wouldn't call person weird,i would call society weird for allowing virgin male population grow up

 

[Deleted member 6695]

Just lie about having lost it at like 18, nothing will happen

 

[Deleted member 11414]

I wouldn't call person weird,i would call society weird for allowing virgin male population grow up

high iq perspective

 

[Deleted member 4612]

Realistically yes. Irl like 60-70% had sex by then. Depends where you live also

probably more than 70%

i was age 24 and lost it to a hooker

 

[Tony]

probably more than 70%

i was age 24 and lost it to a hooker

@thinwhiteduke he lost his virginity 15 years ago and it was to a prostitute ! xD

 

[Enfant terrible]

It's not weird because we all know that's not really in someone's control if there like this .

 

[Blue]

I wouldn't call person weird,i would call society weird for allowing virgin male population grow up

I would call society weird for putting such an emphasis on losing your virginity as early as possible and fuelling womens' whoredom.

 

[friendly local]

if i was a few years younger i would say its very weird, but now most of my friends are 24-26 and the fact one of them is a virgin and the other one was a virgin till recently when he just got tired of it and got a hooker and this is on south america where supposedly everyone is fucking at 12

i dunno anymore, its not like i have shitton of friends and they are outliers or something, i know most of them claimed to lose it before they actually lost it (because i also lied it about it)
its not normal but i dont think its as uncommon as i used to think

 

[RAITEIII]

Would u call the person like this weird? What age do guys usually lose virginity?

I have no idea at what age people lose their virginity but it can happen right after 8 yo for males. I mean as soon as you can have a proper erection.

At 25 youre clearly not following the flow.

 

[RAITEIII]

if i was a few years younger i would say its very weird, but now most of my friends are 24-26 and the fact one of them is a virgin and the other one was a virgin till recently when he just got tired of it and got a hooker and this is on south america where supposedly everyone is fucking at 12

i dunno anymore, its not like i have shitton of friends and they are outliers or something, i know most of them claimed to lose it before they actually lost it (because i also lied it about it)
its not normal but i dont think its as uncommon as i used to think

Looks? Height?

 

[.👽.]

Its rare yes you are probably ugly or you havent tried. F.e started tinder etc

 

[Deleted member 4612]

I have no idea at what age people lose their virginity but it can happen right after 8 yo for males. I mean as soon as you can have a proper erection.

At 25 youre clearly not following the flow.

8 is an extreme outlier ffs

most dudes are prolly mid-late teens

 

[RAITEIII]

8 is an extreme outlier ffs

most dudes are prolly mid-late teens

I didnt mean that theres people out there doing that im aware its giga outlier. Im just saying it can happen.

I cannot talk about average virginity i have no idea about people. But if i were to use this forum as data, then 15-17 sounds legit if ur looks are decent

 

[Deleted member 2968]

I would call society weird for putting such an emphasis on losing your virginity as early as possible and fuelling womens' whoredom.

Exacty what i was thinking about

 

[Deleted member 6577]

Its rare yes you are probably ugly or you havent tried. F.e started tinder etc

im not that ugly. 3,5/10 maybe 4 haloed by height

 

[Deleted member 6577]

I didnt mean that theres people out there doing that im aware its giga outlier. Im just saying it can happen.

I cannot talk about average virginity i have no idea about people. But if i were to use this forum as data, then 15-17 sounds legit if ur looks are decent

I believe that women are the one to blame for the inceldom. They have unrealistic standards

 

[RAITEIII]

I believe that women are the one to blame for the inceldom. They have unrealistic standards

I disagree.

Men are more capable than women in almost any way. The development of great societies is thanks to great men. Unfortunately this has been hickjacked by wanting to focus on female empowerment, giving them all the possible adventages and solutions for any of their issues whereas men get fucked and need to try incredibly hard (looksmax) - which is mentally insane in the eyes of society- in order have better cards to play the game.

So well, you don't choose what you're attracted to. I cannot choose be attracted to a landwhale. In fact I cannot choose to be attracted to anything below stacylite. Is that my fault? Should i sleep with people I dont like? Should I have relationship, marry, with them? I don't want to. So I apply the same for foids. I cannot blame them. They've been given this position by us men.

If society focused at least as much on male lifestyle improvement then there would be way less issues...

@personalityinkwell let me know ur thoughts

 

[Gonthar]

Just lie about having lost it at like 18, nothing will happen

You have no idea how quickly can females spot this kind of bullshit, they can detect immediately a virgin a mile away, I remember when I still was one, and kept my frame and acted all alpha in a group of people, babbling loud about women, relationships, sex, spitting red pills left and right, and this girl stared at me, she seemed visibly annoyed, and suddenly asked me: "When was the last time you had sex? In fact, have you ever had sex?". I kept my frame, made a joke, quickly changed the subject, and avoided any awkward moment, but I knew deep inside that she saw all through my act...

 

[Tony]

You have no idea how quickly can females spot this kind of bullshit, they can detect immediately a virgin a mile away, I remember when I still was one, and kept my frame and acted all alpha in a group of people, babbling loud about women, relationships, sex, spitting red pills left and right, and this girl stared at me, she seemed visibly annoyed, and suddenly asked me: "When was the last time you had sex? In fact, have you ever had sex?". I kept my frame, made a joke, quickly changed the subject, and avoided any awkward moment, but I knew deep inside that she saw all through my act...

you should hef sed : meby

 

[Deleted member 4612]

I disagree.

Men are more capable than women in almost any way. The development of great societies is thanks to great men. Unfortunately this has been hickjacked by wanting to focus on female empowerment, giving them all the possible adventages and solutions for any of their issues whereas men get fucked and need to try incredibly hard (looksmax) - which is mentally insane in the eyes of society- in order have better cards to play the game.

So well, you don't choose what you're attracted to. I cannot choose be attracted to a landwhale. In fact I cannot choose to be attracted to anything below stacylite. Is that my fault? Should i sleep with people I dont like? Should I have relationship, marry, with them? I don't want to. So I apply the same for foids. I cannot blame them. They've been given this position by us men.

If society focused at least as much on male lifestyle improvement then there would be way less issues...

@personalityinkwell let me know ur thoughts

jews are to blame

 

[Deleted member 8853]

I wouldn't call person weird,i would call society weird for allowing virgin male population grow up

 

[Deleted member 8853]

Guys would it be ok to go ER if you're still a virgin past 25

 

[Deleted member 6577]

You have no idea how quickly can females spot this kind of bullshit, they can detect immediately a virgin a mile away, I remember when I still was one, and kept my frame and acted all alpha in a group of people, babbling loud about women, relationships, sex, spitting red pills left and right, and this girl stared at me, she seemed visibly annoyed, and suddenly asked me: "When was the last time you had sex? In fact, have you ever had sex?". I kept my frame, made a joke, quickly changed the subject, and avoided any awkward moment, but I knew deep inside that she saw all through my act...

so when she’ll ask I should just tell her the truth that I m virgin ?

 

[Deleted member 11127]

I think I saw stats where 92% of guys had sex before 25. Keep in my that some of them fucked hookers, some of them had sex once while being drunk as fuck etc.
tl:dr, yes it is weird as fuck if you had no sex by the time you are 25, average age of first sex for guys is like 16-17, 19 isn't that bad, but if you are 20+ and you are virgin, there is huge chance it won't change ever. If you have friends, you go out and you are not autistic, that's just normal to have sex and find girlfriend. Most of guys do nothing to get it. Just be out there and go with the flow.

 

[Gonthar]

so when she’ll ask I should just tell her the truth that I m virgin ?

It will be a huge turn off except if you are a Chad.
Bang some hookers so you won't be a virgin anymore.
So, when someone asks you can be honest and say you aren't a virgin anymore. Don't give much details however, keep things ambiguous, say that a gentleman doesn't discuss such things or something.

 

[friendly local]

Looks? Height?

mine or my friends? pretty average all of us (average height for colombia (5'7-5'8), manlets anywhere else) except the one that got a hooker he is like 5'5, the virgin one was just kind of a weirdo in high school and became a pretty normal dude in college, problem is the damage was done and he is still scared to talk in public for example

 

[Edmund_Kemper]

yes lol. like 90% have sex by 20
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Beyond college age it's weird

Strange how the percentages fluctuate and don’t decrease in a linear manner. It makes me think 22+ year old virgins are dishonest even in a survey

 

[HumidVent]

Strange how the percentages fluctuate and don’t decrease in a linear manner. It makes me think 22+ year old virgins are dishonest even in a survey

Men in general are dishonest about everything. Even on a "blackpill" site like these everyone still lies about their height, and dick size.

 

[Enfant terrible]

You have no idea how quickly can females spot this kind of bullshit, they can detect immediately a virgin a mile away, I remember when I still was one, and kept my frame and acted all alpha in a group of people, babbling loud about women, relationships, sex, spitting red pills left and right, and this girl stared at me, she seemed visibly annoyed, and suddenly asked me: "When was the last time you had sex? In fact, have you ever had sex?". I kept my frame, made a joke, quickly changed the subject, and avoided any awkward moment, but I knew deep inside that she saw all through my act...

yeah because you acted like a retard just be normal
not that difficult

 

[Deleted member 6577]

It will be a huge turn off except if you are a Chad.
Bang some hookers so you won't be a virgin anymore.
So, when someone asks you can be honest and say you aren't a virgin anymore. Don't give much details however, keep things ambiguous, say that a gentleman doesn't discuss such things or something.

shiiet over for me. Im low tier normie but im not going to fuck a hooker. Its disgusting jfl. I wouldn’t stop thinking about the number of dicks were inside her. Also I won’t pay for sex lol

 

[Gonthar]

yeah because you acted like a retard just be normal
not that difficult

I just did what the red pill/PUA coaches recommended to do. Also what does "be normal" even mean? For me it would be to talk about video games, Star Trek, aliens and other nerdy subject but that would make pretty much all the normies and girls to quickly move away from me.

 

[Enfant terrible]

I just did what the red pill/PUA coaches recommended to do. Also what does "be normal" even mean? For me it would be to talk about video games, Star Trek, aliens and other nerdy subject but that would make pretty much all the normies and girls to quickly move away from me.

Red pill is cringe

its best to find a group were you can talk about your interests


Be normal = just behave like you would normally. No acting.

 

[Gonthar]

Red pill is cringe
its best to find a group were you can talk about your interests
Be normal = just behave like you would normally. No acting.

Yeah, I was in groups with similar interests...but all the people in those groups were virgin nerds, no girls there.///

Acting like you do normally is the worst piece of advice that can be given to a nerd/aspie/quirky/introverted person, I had to act and pretend to be a completely different person to be finally accepted in a group of normies, get a girlfriend and eventually lose my virginity.

 

[tyronelite]

Depends on the why

 

[studiocel]

yes lol. like 90% have sex by 20
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Beyond college age it's weird

 

[grimy]

It's so easy to lose your virginity at a younger age with social circle because girls are just starting their experiences too. Lost mine at 17 to a girl with 1 other body. At 25, you're gonna have to actually make something happen.

 

[Deleted member 5698]

It's so easy to lose your virginity at a younger age with social circle because girls are just starting their experiences too. Lost mine at 17 to a girl with 1 other body. At 25, you're gonna have to actually make something happen.

Rapemaxxing?

 

[grimy]

Rapemaxxing?

Just don't get caught ma boy

 

[Gengar’s Ghost]

i am a 25 year old virgin

 

[Deleted member 9666]

Uncommon, not weird. Although I don’t think it’s as uncommon as we think it is. Some people will definitely think it’s weird, only because the thought of having to teach someone is a turn off.

 

[IdiAmin]

yes lol. like 90% have sex by 20
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Beyond college age it's weird

That peak at 43 the fuck