Is it really that bad to not be happy

[gojim]

I always think that this shit ruined my life and I can’t just be happy with the way I look
But is it really a bad thing is it bad to wanna look better and better my physique
My friend threw a party and all my close friends where there it’s crazy to think that I even call anyone my friend nobody actually wants to get to no me or no my goals I can’t even have fun no more just going out idk why but I just don’t care to I feel like I have nothing in common with anyone I no irl I don’t want to say anything cuz I just feel akward I left early and road around the only time I’m really happy is when I’m by myself or lifting

Any tips to just enjoy life or is it actually good to just focus on myself and be alone

 

[4ward]

why would it be a bad thing, you would never continue if you were satisfied with where ur at

 

[superpoppop]

it is good to just focus on myself and be alone

continue until you never have to feel awkward again

 

[Maxillury]

I always think that this shit ruined my life and I can’t just be happy with the way I look
But is it really a bad thing is it bad to wanna look better and better my physique
My friend threw a party and all my close friends where there it’s crazy to think that I even call anyone my friend nobody actually wants to get to no me or no my goals I can’t even have fun no more just going out idk why but I just don’t care to I feel like I have nothing in common with anyone I no irl I don’t want to say anything cuz I just feel akward I left early and road around the only time I’m really happy is when I’m by myself or lifting

Any tips to just enjoy life or is it actually good to just focus on myself and be alone

don't listen to a lot of people on this forum. a lot of people on here are also miserable so you are basically asking miserable lonely people if you should enjoy your life or be alone. I know many guys who are not that attractive at all who get a lot of girls and have big friend groups. you will see this in high school/college (I'm assuming you're young based on this post).

imo just enjoy your youth, nothing is wrong with being blackpilled and improving your looks, however don't let it break your spirits by comparing yourself to guys who hit the genetic lottery. most people in the world are not good looking/ don't have a good physique at all. working on your looks like lifting weights means that you are better then most. best wishes.

 

[Maxillury]

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