Is it really this hard to get girls (bar game)

[suicidemonkey]

I'm 20, not in law school. Went with my sister in her early 20s to her law cohort bar event (bars in the city). She talked to friends. I spent a lot of time trying to make conversation/standing around awkwardly, felt out of place with groups of foids everywhere. A few conversations happened with some engagement. Most rejected me softly (walking off, disinterest). It didn’t help I autistically introduced myself by explaining I came along with my sister and knew nobody there (first thing I said usually). Little to nothing actually progressed at all. I used to approach when I was leaner (20% BF currently) and sometimes had a lot more success. I gained some weight recently but blackpilled friends say I still look good.

Was it the standing around + mentioning I wasn’t a student or did I descend.