Is it true that looks dont matter for a long-term relationship as much as it matters for a short-term relationship? and if so, by how much?

[jaw_is_law]

for example a short term relationship: Tinder, online dating, hookups, bars are all HTN/Chadlite minimum

but I have seen a lot of looks matched LTRs and a lot of times even where the wife is better looking than the husband or sometimes the husband is even obese.

and why is this the case?

 

[ifyouwannabemylover]

I don't think so. women will leave dudes they are in a long-term relationship with and tell him and themselves that he "wasn't treating me right" even though it's really because he got fat and ugly.

 

[StuffedFrog]

you are a living dildo most of the time

 

[Deleted member 16861]

All you need for a LTR is to be NT and have a social circle. Oh and dont be a truecel obviously, but a truecel wont have a social circle so...

 

[rand anon]

truecel wont have a social circle so...

 

[forevergymcelling]

You're living in fantasy land

Looks are just as important, if not more important in a long term relationship

After a while she will get bored of you, unless you're carved after Maher himself

As time goes by she will lose attraction for you and sex will be less frequent. The better looking you are the more time you have before you end up in deadbedroom

 

[rand anon]

You're living in fantasy land

Looks are just as important, if not more important in a long term relationship

After a while she will get bored of you, unless you're carved after Maher himself

As time goes by she will lose attraction for you and sex will be less frequent. The better looking you are the more time you have before you end up in deadbedroom

You don’t think pairbonding would occur after a prolonged period of time?

 

[forevergymcelling]

You don’t think pairbonding would occur after a prolonged period of time?

Yeah but it doesn't effect sex

Your sex life will get worse as time goes on, this is a fact

 

[Deleted member 14160]

You're living in fantasy land

Looks are just as important, if not more important in a long term relationship

After a while she will get bored of you, unless you're carved after Maher himself

As time goes by she will lose attraction for you and sex will be less frequent. The better looking you are the more time you have before you end up in deadbedroom

Hasyour gf changed in that regard

 

[forevergymcelling]

Hasyour gf changed in that regard

Yeah she used to wear outfits and shit like nurse, schoolgirl ect

Hasn't done that in 2 years

At the beginning we were having sex 3 times a day, now I have sex once every two days or something

 

[stressftw]

Once you are in a long term relationship past 25, things like Wealth, independence, having your own car, your own apartment, and not being a weak faggot screams and have a major role than looks itself.
U need to man up to have a long term relationship, specially with a decent person that looks good also.

Looks leaves you free to choose who u want to start a relationship, mantaining it is a different whole story.

Even if you are a gigachad, if you live in your moms apartment, act like a depressive needy child, dont have your own independence, dont make your own money, NOT A SINGLE DECENT WOMAN IN THE WORLD will stay by your side. U will only be able to have one night stands, short term relationships, or relationships with daddy issues chicks that are too mentally fucked up to analyze objectively that you arent a decent provider.

In your early 20 those things dont scream that much and looks still king because relationships usually dont last much at that age anyway.

Nonetheless, if you were a good looking and start to descend hard in a relationship, very often you will be dumped also, but the biggest issues usually come from the aspects previous mentioned

And if you arent bad looking, past 30 being rich is king if you want long-term relationships, specially if you date a woman past 30, they start to lose their SMV very hard and want a stable comfort zone

It is what it is

 

[Chinacurry]

Women don't have high standards when looking for ltr

 

[Chadethnic101]

Y

Yeah she used to wear outfits and shit like nurse, schoolgirl ect

Hasn't done that in 2 years

At the beginning we were having sex 3 times a day, now I have sex once every two days or something

You think it's partly coz of monotony of a LTR , eventually things are the same like there's only so many places u can visit, do together etc till days just become similar?

 

[forevergymcelling]

Y

You think it's partly coz of monotony of a LTR , eventually things are the same like there's only so many places u can visit, do together etc till days just become similar?

Yeah probably

Also wagecucking. Her job is demanding and she doesn't feel like doing much when she finishes, this wasn't an issue when we were at uni

Plus it doesn't help that we both live together and are in the house 24/7 because we both work from home

 

[forevergymcelling]

Also @Chadethnic101 check whatsapp

 

[Chadethnic101]

Yeah probably

Also wagecucking. Her job is demanding and she doesn't feel like doing much when she finishes, this wasn't an issue when we were at uni

Plus it doesn't help that we both live together and are in the house 24/7 because we both work from home

Fucking wagecucking

Legit question- would you rather be a HTN rich guy who works for himself or a Chad wagecuck?

Yeah being in same place together 24/7 doesn't help at all id stay in complete different room working and avoid seeing.my gf all day so we don't get sick of each other jfl

 

[forevergymcelling]

Fucking wagecucking

Legit question- would you rather be a HTN rich guy who works for himself or a Chad wagecuck?

Yeah being in same place together 24/7 doesn't help at all id stay in complete different room working and avoid seeing.my gf all day so we don't get sick of each other jfl

HTN rich guy any day of the week and it's not even close

That's what we do jfl, we stay in separate rooms