is it true that “nice guys” can’t/won’t get hot girls?

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i’m a guy who’s never had a girlfriend or been in a relationship, never had female friends, only had sex once with a hooker so yea u get the picture I’m a loser.

I’ve recently over the last several months started trying to talk to girls for the first time and while I’ve gotten a few numbers all it’s really led to was one date that she invited her friend on...

One of my friends who’s older and has a LOT more experience than me says I’m too “nice” and that nice guys finish last when ur comes to getting girls.

So my question is is this really true and do I really have to change my whole personality in order to have nice looking girls with options want me?

(any input is appreciated but particularly from women would be nice)
 
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i’d say im pretty nice and have no problem getting with girls
 
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Women are attracted to narcissism 🥀
 
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Because of your immaculate dress sense
Because of how i look and dress yes. But if i was an asshole i doubt many girls would want me.
 
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whats up with the reddit copy pastes?
 
whats up with the reddit copy pastes?
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No, it’s just looks. If by nice, they mean too scared to approach then maybe that has a factor but generally being nice works.
 
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Nice = sub chadlite
 
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looks matter most ofc, but generally selfish low inhib guys do better dating than shy overly considerate ones
 
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Nice reddit post there
 
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looks matter most ofc, but generally selfish low inhib guys do better dating than shy overly considerate ones
High inhib shy guys tend to be more soy and get no pussy since foids know they’re easy to manipulate
 
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i’m a guy who’s never had a girlfriend or been in a relationship, never had female friends, only had sex once with a hooker so yea u get the picture I’m a loser.

I’ve recently over the last several months started trying to talk to girls for the first time and while I’ve gotten a few numbers all it’s really led to was one date that she invited her friend on...

One of my friends who’s older and has a LOT more experience than me says I’m too “nice” and that nice guys finish last when ur comes to getting girls.

So my question is is this really true and do I really have to change my whole personality in order to have nice looking girls with options want me?

(any input is appreciated but particularly from women would be nice)
U cant try to win over sex over solely being nice in a way that people feel guilty.

Be a cool dude because u feel it inside.
 
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Nice guys are useless
 
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Nope, chad can be a nice guy and will still get laid.

Sub5 will act tough and such and will be mocked.

It's all about the looks.
 
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It's not the fact that you're too nice, it's probably because you're not attractive (no offence). If David gandy were to be nice for a girl she wouldn't get the ick. Women aren't into narcissism, manipulation and shit, they're into chads
 
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i’m a guy who’s never had a girlfriend or been in a relationship, never had female friends, only had sex once with a hooker so yea u get the picture I’m a loser.

I’ve recently over the last several months started trying to talk to girls for the first time and while I’ve gotten a few numbers all it’s really led to was one date that she invited her friend on...

One of my friends who’s older and has a LOT more experience than me says I’m too “nice” and that nice guys finish last when ur comes to getting girls.

So my question is is this really true and do I really have to change my whole personality in order to have nice looking girls with options want me?

(any input is appreciated but particularly from women would be nice)
don‘t change yourself for women lol be the best version of yourself. but in the end happiness mogs. so do what you want lmao
 
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Nice chad gets all the hot girls nice incel gets his right hand
 
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Girls have a natural built-in attraction to Dark Triad badboy rapemaxxers. Yes, that includes subchads. My wise teacher @Vermilioncore can confirm this to you if you want.
 
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Because of how i look and dress yes. But if i was an asshole i doubt many girls would want me.
Girls like assholes. Stop being a bluepilled "muh be nice bro" coper. You sound like a stereotypical Beta Billy.
 
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