is it weird if youve never had a friend for your entire life?

[vermillioncorefan]

is that a common experience ? cuz i dont have any friends and all i do is rot inside and i dont dm anyone on looksmax either

im not just unpopular; literally nobody knows me. I'm not just a dude with medium-low status; im a dude with no status. im an unknown quite literally.

 

[Deleted member 83666]

Yea it’s unfortunately weird bro, u need a social circle to thrive in life

 

[thugmaxxer2]

I will never understand how somebody can genuinely have 0 actual friends as a teen or young adult, how would you survive at school?

 

[Deleted member 86479]

Impossible unless homeschooled, how can you not make friends at 6 for example? Must be really autistic

 

[aryan mogger]

You have to be ultra autistic for that

 

[vermillioncorefan]

Yea it’s unfortunately weird bro, u need a social circle to thrive in life

well i dont have a social circle. so if i need one i guess im shit outta luckl

 

[vermillioncorefan]

You have to be ultra autistic for that

well thats my life dude. not a single person irl knows me other than my mom and the dude who lives in our guest house.

 

[aryan mogger]

well thats my life dude. not a single person irl knows me other than my mom and the dude who lives in our guest house.

How is that possible

 

[vermillioncorefan]

I will never understand how somebody can genuinely have 0 actual friends as a teen or young adult, how would you survive at school?

i didnt talk to anyone at school and nobody talked to me igso i lived thru it i mean theres not much to survive

 

[vratisevojvodo]

well thats my life dude. not a single person irl knows me other than my mom and the dude who lives in our guest house.

So you are problem

 

[GabachoCopium]

Off the grid

 

[vermillioncorefan]

How is that possible

because i dont talk to anyone and i dont go anywhere except to school and work and at work i only have the basic tier conversations with people i dont hang out and laugh with people like the other people do.

So you are problem

how does that make me the problem

 

[Deleted member 53646]

I've had friends but that was in my childhood

 

[vermillioncorefan]

Off the grid

ifd ur not like this block me

 

[Deleted member 80170]

i didnt talk to anyone at school and nobody talked to me igso i lived thru it i mean theres not much to survive

do u at least have good grades?

 

[thugmaxxer2]

i didnt talk to anyone at school and nobody talked to me igso i lived thru it i mean theres not much to survive

Lunch and break times must’ve been so brutal how would you cope that everyone else had social circles?

 

[vermillioncorefan]

Lunch and break times must’ve been so brutal how would you cope that everyone else had social circles?

i just sat alone and ate my lunch and looked at my phone igi mean thats the same exact thing i did when i got home so its not like it was a chore

 

[Aladin]

bro that’s weird ngl.

 

[vermillioncorefan]

do u at least have good grades?

no i have terrible grades wym

 

[vermillioncorefan]

did u go to public school? Were you homeschooled?

i went to public school in elementary then i went to charter school

 

[Deleted member 83666]

@vermillioncorefan try faking ur interests that’s what I did to fit in my friend group and make a lot of friends

 

[Aladin]

I can’t relate. I have a single friend now and he’s 2 hours away but sheesh I used to have some friends.

 

[vermillioncorefan]

@vermillioncorefan try faking ur interests that’s what I did to fit in my friend group and make a lot of friends

but i dont know anyone to meet and i dont know how to fake my interests i wouldnt know where to start

 

[Udexa]

I will never understand how somebody can genuinely have 0 actual friends as a teen or young adult, how would you survive at school?

You just go through the motions and surf your phone at school its pretty easy to get into when you have a device that has endless info/entertainment.

 

[vermillioncorefan]

I can’t relate. I have a single friend now and he’s 2 hours away but sheesh I used to have some friends.

i just didnt get along with other people i mean i guess i dont realy know whats wrong with me to have it be this way but this is the way it ended up. guess its cuz i wasnt born female. if i was born female it wouldnt be like this

 

[vratisevojvodo]

because i dont talk to anyone and i dont go anywhere except to school and work and at work i only have the basic tier conversations with people i dont hang out and laugh with people like the other people do.

how does that make me the problem

how do you expect to have friends if you don't communicate with anyone, so don't be surprised at all

 

[vermillioncorefan]

how do you expect to have friends if you don't communicate with anyone, so don't be surprised at all

well i do communicate with other people i just said i talk to people. but then they always end the conversation.

 

[vratisevojvodo]

well i do communicate with other people i just said i talk to people. but then they always end the conversation.

Maybe you should find new places to socialise cuz in school it's barely over as I can see

 

[vermillioncorefan]

Maybe you should find new places to socialise cuz in school it's barely over as I can see

but everytime i gain a new hobby i just end up being the outcast who doesnt have any friends or talk to anyone.

 

[not__cel]

I've had friends and I might be truecel how have you never had a friend I used to talk to this one kid with anger issues and we'd talk about anime during class in elementary do you not have hobbies?

 

[vermillioncorefan]

I've had friends and I might be truecel how have you never had a friend I used to talk to this one kid with anger issues and we'd talk about anime during class in elementary do you not have hobbies?

i go on looksmax i play guitar i look at like political type videos i watch movies sometimes but besides that i dont do anything else like im not in any way into or know anything about sports, cars, music (srs i dont listen to music havent listened to a song in months), tv shows, movies, current events, celebrities, and so on.

even ppl irl have commented how i dont really know anything or do anything, i just talk about how i dont have a girlfriend thats basically it.

 

[vermillioncorefan]

@not__cel i mean technically i know a dude who is homeless and hangs out on the corner where i get my beer sometimes and he said youre cool dude like id be bros with u. but he also mentioned how im a loser who clearly hates his life and is extremely antisocial.

 

[Deleted member 30959]

Yeah never had ond in my life either but i dont really care

Also if most people refer to friends as a guy you hangout with, would i want to talk and share my interests with a male? Id much rather have a female friend,even if i dont get to fuck

 

[not__cel]

i go on looksmax i play guitar i look at like political type videos i watch movies sometimes but besides that i dont do anything else like im not in any way into or know anything about sports, cars, music (srs i dont listen to music havent listened to a song in months), tv shows, movies, current events, celebrities, and so on.

even ppl irl have commented how i dont really know anything or do anything, i just talk about how i dont have a girlfriend thats basically it.

options:
go to the library near you and see if they have activities that you enjoy in your age range because they usually have clubs
join a club maybe a debate one near you to meet people into politics
if you have really close friends online try to organize a meetup if you can
join a class with people learning advance guitar or whatever hobbies you enjoy that your into if your really good you could even lead them
If your in a place like a class or another setting try talking to someone that is close to you if you look presentable they might blow you off though

 

[not__cel]

@not__cel i mean technically i know a dude who is homeless and hangs out on the corner where i get my beer sometimes and he said youre cool dude like id be bros with u. but he also mentioned how im a loser who clearly hates his life and is extremely antisocial.

brutal

 

[vermillioncorefan]

Yeah never had ond in my life either but i dont really care

Also if most people refer to friends as a guy you hangout with, would i want to talk and share my interests with a male? Id much rather have a female friend,even if i dont get to fuck

i mean it wouldnt be that bad to have a bud who makes u laugh to hangout with to help cope with the extreme unbearable loneliness and downtroddenness of lifeeven if u guys know that ur just using eachother to cope and you both dont like your life.

 

[vermillioncorefan]

options:
go to the library near you and see if they have activities that you enjoy in your age range because they usually have clubs
join a club maybe a debate one near you to meet people into politics
if you have really close friends online try to organize a meetup if you can
join a class with people learning advance guitar or whatever hobbies you enjoy that your into if your really good you could even lead them
If your in a place like a class or another setting try talking to someone that is close to you if you look presentable they might blow you off though

i mean i tried things like that but it always results in me just saying the bare minimum needed to communicate and not having any actual human conversations. like i didnt ask them anything about their life they didnt ask me and nobody laughed and i didnt say any jokes cuz im not funny genuinely and i never try to be funny cause i know im not funny.

 

[Deleted member 30959]

i mean it wouldnt be that bad to have a bud who makes u laugh to hangout with to help cope with the extreme unbearable loneliness and downtroddenness of lifeeven if u guys know that ur just using eachother to cope and you both dont like your life.

Yeah thats what i noticed too male friends are coping for not having a gf and when someone in a friend group gets a girl they abandon them

 

[vermillioncorefan]

Yeah thats what i noticed too male friends are coping for not having a gf and when someone in a friend group gets a girl they abandon them

even if i had a girlfriend id still be coping. i know im just a fucking bug no matter if a woman likes me or not (since i know a woman never could love me thats not possible in my case)

 

[not__cel]

i mean i tried things like that but it always results in me just saying the bare minimum needed to communicate and not having any actual human conversations. like i didnt ask them anything about their life they didnt ask me and nobody laughed and i didnt say any jokes cuz im not funny genuinely and i never try to be funny cause i know im not funny.

brutal that's happened to me but you have to go where your wanted since I'm very average looking (what others say) people will either blow me off 60% of the time or not do that a good 45% of the time you might be funny to someone who get's it
my closest friend of the time was getting bullied like me so we started improving our looks and other aspects (he's bluepilled)
there might be people who think you're pretty chill