Is it worth becoming a kickboxer??

[agilla]

I've been thinking lately about how it would be great for my confidence and overall SMV to become a kickboxer.

The idea behind this is how would I be scared to approach women if I've gone through hell in fights and sparring

I also think it would help me with stopping my porn addiction because you cant be the same man that jerks off to some dude fucking a girl he wants to fuck and then stepping in a ring to risk his life.

Im not trying to be a professional fighter, I would like to do 1-2 fights a year just for fun

 

[coke]

You should. You'll soon realise that you'll lose that mindset of 'being scared to approach woman because you had some fights.'

You'll be more disciplined and prepared for anything, and you'll be less likely to feel the need to chase girls. I think everyone should train in some form of martial art/boxing.

Try NoFap, it's cliche, but it'll be better for you. I mean, Terry Crews had that addiction, really anyone can develop it, but you can change your addiction to more enjoyable and exciting things.

You don't need to be a professional either. I'd suggest Muay Thai if you really want discipline, or Kickboxing/Boxing. It'll change your life my friend, I wish the best for you.

 

[Sondern]

I've been thinking lately about how it would be great for my confidence and overall SMV to become a kickboxer.

The idea behind this is how would I be scared to approach women if I've gone through hell in fights and sparring

I also think it would help me with stopping my porn addiction because you cant be the same man that jerks off to some dude fucking a girl he wants to fuck and then stepping in a ring to risk his life.

Im not trying to be a professional fighter, I would like to do 1-2 fights a year just for fun

"I've been thinking lately about how it would be great for my confidence and overall SMV to become a kickboxer."
barley my guy, youd need to find a specific type of girl who wants a man who REALLY knows how to fight. I dont see why she would pick a mediocre kick boxer over a 6,4 gymrat.

"The idea behind this is how would I be scared to approach women if I've gone through hell in fights and sparring"
not the same thing my guy. plenty of strong dudes who have been threw alot still have a hard time. might aswell just keep approaching thats the only way your going to get over the fear.

"I also think it would help me with stopping my porn addiction because you cant be the same man that jerks off to some dude fucking a girl he wants to fuck and then stepping in a ring to risk his life."

lmao not gonna work. you have to progressively push yourself to watch less. dont cut it all out at once, progressively watch less very slowly.

"Im not trying to be a professional fighter, I would like to do 1-2 fights a year just for fun"
doing it for fun is the main reason you should be doing it. all this other magical stuff you think is going to happen, is not gonna happen

 

[Deleted member 13710]

The idea behind this is how would I be scared to approach women if I've gone through hell in fights and sparring

"Confidence" (trust in your own social skills and standing) is different from "courage" (ability to face physical and moral dangers). So one thing won't necessarily increase the other. Kickboxing is fine if that's what you're into. If you've never been good at anything before, it will help build confidence.