Is it worth ghosting shawty a little even in a relationship

[lokit]

Something in me just wants to air her messages completely like I did in the "talking stage", god it felt good to ignore her. Don't know if that's the play now, does it still work in a relationship?

 

[izoiak]

ye as long as u can make up for it
+ gotta come up w a valid excuse beforehand

 

[LETMETHEFUCKIN]

depends on the type of foid she is, if u think u can ignore her for an extended period of time without upsetting her to the point of confrontation then do it.

 

[izoiak]

also u shouldn’t come asking relationship advice in an incel forum unless u wanna end up single

 

[Magnesium_]

yeah girls are weird as shit

if you answer within minutes every single time she will eventually get bored of you

 

[lokit]

also u shouldn’t come asking relationship advice in an incel forum unless u wanna end up single

I'm not quite sure what I want. Years of resentment has low-key left me empty when it comes to the romantic side. Every time we link Im on pregabalin just so I can bother to talk to her. I don't think we have properly been together without me on some type of drug the personality she knows is completely fabricated, only even pulled her cause I intentionally pulled away alot

 

[izoiak]

I'm not quite sure what I want. Years of resentment has low-key left me empty when it comes to the romantic side. Every time we link Im on pregabalin just so I can bother to talk to her. I don't think we have properly been together without me on some type of drug the personality she knows is completely fabricated, only even pulled her cause I intentionally pulled away alot

damn ur empty on the inside jus like me
take this as a blessing bruh
if ur not attracted to her just do whatever u want she might leave u or might not
u’ll probably miss her if she does tho

 

[lokit]

damn ur empty on the inside jus like me
take this as a blessing bruh
if ur not attracted to her just do whatever u want she might leave u or might not
u’ll probably miss her if she does tho

She's so fuckinggg baddd broo that's the thing
I don't know why I can't catch feelings, I was starting to but then yesterday something just switched and now I cba to open her snap from 3 hours ago

And Im really fucking enjoying our hangouts and making out and touching and shii aha but still

We were looking at each other, and I could only think about how ugly I must look

 

[izoiak]

She's so fuckinggg baddd broo that's the thing
I don't know why I can't catch feelings, I was starting to but then yesterday something just switched and now I cba to open her snap from 3 hours ago

hahah i get u ngl
just tell urself to reply to her and that its not that deep
even if u dont mean it just say stuff she’d like to hear
it takes 3 secs to respond

 

[lokit]

hahah i get u ngl
just tell urself to reply to her and that its not that deep
even if u dont mean it just say stuff she’d like to hear
it takes 3 secs to respond

U right bro
I gotta get over ts sometime
What years of negative feedback loop does to a person

 

[izoiak]

U right bro
I gotta get over ts sometime
What years of negative feedback loop does to a person

i used to never wanna speak to ppl and when i did id have no one cuz of that
even had my read receipts of on everything
then i just started responding with whatever and it improved my social skills

 

[lokit]

i used to never wanna speak to ppl and when i did id have no one cuz of that
even had my read receipts of on everything
then i just started responding with whatever and it improved my social skills

No yeah I can do js friends fine, but ts gf shi has me treating the thing like a game that I could lose at any point, hyper analysing shi and testing to see if they hate me

Its so stupid, literally one day we could be making out for literal hours and the next im stressing over her responding in 4 minutes instead of 1. ( After I responded in 30 minutes even)

 

[kingofearth]

yeah girls are weird as shit

if you answer within minutes every single time she will eventually get bored of you

This is correct^

Mark his answer as solution

Value and scarcity are linked. Attention must be scarce.

Gold is valuable because it's not everywhere.

Your attention should be the same. Good behaviour for attention, bad behaviour and withdraw that shit immediately, don't even bother arguing about it. Just withdraw.

 

[izoiak]

She's so fuckinggg baddd broo that's the thing
I don't know why I can't catch feelings, I was starting to but then yesterday something just switched and now I cba to open her snap from 3 hours ago

And Im really fucking enjoying our hangouts and making out and touching and shii aha but still

We were looking at each other, and I could only think about how ugly I must look

I just saw the second part
happy for u boyo just dont enjoy it too much
good things always come to an end and u’ll find urself rotting on forums again after a while