Is jestermaxxing and comfort zone the real problem

[Luquier]

I can always rely on others to clean up your mess

I’m also pretty ok with being a laughing stock

Basically a sad little joke that can’t do anything for himself, but IDRC as long as I’m comfortable

@Petsmart @IAMNOTANINCEL @thereallegend @kisslessvirgin @2ndAscension

The problem is when you’ve used jestermaxxing as a crutch for too long it’s impossible to present yourself in a serious manner as you offer absolutely nothing of substance. So you’re pretty much fucked

Also eventually my family will get sick of supporting a pathetic lazy self pitying manchild

 

[xaxanibber]

act more stupid than you actually are.. but dont overdo it.. make it seem natural.. overdoing it makes you look annoying and unfunny.. this the meta im tellin u

 

[tension]

Literally everything just depends on your situation

 

[Luquier]

act more stupid than you actually are.. but dont overdo it.. make it seem natural.. overdoing it makes you look annoying and unfunny.. this the meta im tellin u

The problem is I jestermaxx to cover up for my failures

 

[Luquier]

act more stupid than you actually are.. but dont overdo it.. make it seem natural.. overdoing it makes you look annoying and unfunny.. this the meta im tellin u

Jestermaxxing is insipid tbh because getting laughed at tends to feel rewarding (even if it isn’t)

It’s the death knell for ppl who lack attention

 

[xaxanibber]

The problem is I jestermaxx to cover up for my failures

i get what you mean now lol, sounds less like a bit and more like youre using it to deflect as a defense mechanism,,, its making people not take you seriously,, its definitely not helping you anymore,, but hey youre not stuck like that,,, you can always just ease off the whole joke label gradually

 

[xaxanibber]

it’s the death knell for ppl who lack attention

yup, its common for ppl w abused dog syndrome unfortunately

 

[Luquier]

i get what you mean now lol,

Yes it’s not the same as pretending/joking

sounds less like a bit and more like youre using it to deflect as a defense mechanism,,,

Summed it up really well

its making people not take you seriously,, its definitely not helping you anymore,, but hey youre not stuck like that,,, you can always just ease off the whole joke label gradually

It’s best to avoid interaction unless it’s useful

 

[xaxanibber]

Yes it’s not the same as pretending/joking

Summed it up really well

It’s best to avoid interaction unless it’s useful

luv the reflection brah <3

 

[psltristan1]

 

[Luquier]

luv the reflection brah <3

Self reflection is easy but I never actually change

 

[xaxanibber]

Self reflection is easy but I never actually change

i believe in you, you got this

 

[2ndAscension]

You're going to care when the cord is cut for whatever reason, you're still young enough to change afaik, but the window of opportunity is closing
Get on some path to independence, probably some degree or whatever while your parents can still support you

 

[nekv]

Larping is the meta. In order to be great you must first pretend to be great. I used to steal images of money spreads and requested people to spell my name out with money for banners and shit. Now I am 17 and I am making about 6 figs, I owe it all to my ego because when I was 16 I realized that I knew so much about how to make money just by larping knowledge that I could do it on my own.

 

[Tenres]

this isn't very funny

 

[kisslessvirgin]

yes you are conditioned to accept this sort of behaviour it is reinforced repeatedly.

it is a genuine problem

an example for me: When i first got my license i was afraid of driving on the highway and avoided it but when i started college, it was the only way for me to get to skool and i had to suck it up and let go of this irrational fear.

it sounds harsh but sometimes you have

to be dropped into the deep end and forced to swim.