Is looksmaxing inherently feminine

[Dauntedfob]

Like ok I get that it is the solution if you're ugly to be accepted by others and succeed in life but I feel like the narcissistic obsession with looks beyond just like self care (fitness/health + gym +skincare) gets very insecure in the ways that girls are insecure. I'm not super attractive and I'm fine with that but I'm also not super ugly and I don't think that looks are the limiting factor for me to succeed in life/ SVM dating world. Should I just focus on being more confident and improving my social life rather then obsessing insecurely over my looks. I see so many chopped guys pull girls. Most of them are tall but still tho I don't think girls care as much as guys care about PSL.

Just my thoughts.

Curious to what you think?

 

[lurker14]

is getting pussy feminine? no okay so trying to have an edge over the competition is the farthest thing from homosexuality

 

[stev]

Like ok I get that it is the solution if you're ugly to be accepted by others and succeed in life but I feel like the narcissistic obsession with looks beyond just like self care (fitness/health + gym +skincare) gets very insecure in the ways that girls are insecure. I'm not super attractive and I'm fine with that but I'm also not super ugly and I don't think that looks are the limiting factor for me to succeed in life/ SVM dating world. Should I just focus on being more confident and improving my social life rather then obsessing insecurely over my looks. I see so many chopped guys pull girls. Most of them are tall but still tho I don't think girls care as much as guys care about PSL.

Just my thoughts.

Curious to what you think?

Everyone will realistically see it as gay tbh

 

[iamnotgrayipromise]

 

[слон]

I'm not super attractive and I'm fine with that but I'm also not super ugly and I don't think that looks are the limiting factor for me to succeed in life/ SVM dating world

then why are you here

 

[irishltn]

I mean it’s probably inherently autistic, but to an extent yeah. Well rounded average looking very social guy can always do quiet well

 

[stev]

is getting pussy feminine? no okay so trying to look good isn't gay

Looksmaxxing is cope for most people so it's gay for majority of people

 

[Dauntedfob]

is getting pussy feminine? no okay so trying to have an edge over the competition is the farthest thing from homosexuality

I think it's fine tryna have some edge but when it gets toxic and narcissistic, which diminishes from your ability to socialise and your personality value it gets a bit too far.

 

[Dauntedfob]

is getting pussy feminine? no okay so trying to have an edge over the competition is the farthest thing from homosexuality

Like I go gym and have skincare and care about how I look (fashion/haircuts)

 

[lurker14]

I think it's fine tryna have some edge but when it gets toxic and narcissistic, which diminishes from your ability to socialise and your personality value it gets a bit too far.

Women go for narcissists so often because they’re usually good looking not because they lack empathy, that’s just a side effect of having such an edge over the competition. Remorse and getting attached becomes dead weight when you’re going from one pussy to the next. Looks>"Personality" think of it from the foids perspective and how all dating apps are tailored to women, she has so many options your sensitivity or humor is only going to lead her on it's that wow factor with your appearance which is always the deciding factor

Like I go gym and have skincare and care about how I look (fashion/haircuts)

you gotta stylemax to finish the look, it's about keeping it simple and dressing for the type of girl you want

 

[Dauntedfob]

Women go for narcissists so often because they’re usually good looking not because they lack empathy, that’s just a side effect of having such an edge over the competition. Remorse and getting attached becomes dead weight when you’re going from one pussy to the next. Looks>"Personality" think of it from the foids perspective and how all dating apps are tailored to women, she has so many options your sensitivity or humor is only going to lead her on it's that wow factor with your appearance which is always the deciding factor

you gotta stylemax to finish the look, it's about keeping it simple and dressing for the type of girl you want

I get your point tbf but to be honest I don't really wanna slay I just wanna fall in love

 

[lurker14]

I get your point tbf but to be honest I don't really wanna slay I just wanna fall in love

fall in love with a modern woman? good luck man. I feel like every man wants to be a slayer, It's the highest form of exceptionalism for yourself being the best version and using it. To each their own

 

[Dauntedfob]

fall in love with a modern woman? good luck man. I feel like every man wants to be a slayer, It's the highest form of exceptionalism for yourself being the best version and using it. To each their own

thanks bro

I quit porn and gooning and now I feel like hardly any lust at all and have started to talk to girls in like a nice way not a weird way. I think there's more to it than slaying.

 

[lurker14]

I feel like hardly any lust at all

get your bloodwork done bra

 

[Dauntedfob]

get your bloodwork done bra

I think I still have normal T levels but my brain is cleansed. I still have a sex drive but not in the same way.

 

[zastava]

then why are you here

he’s coping ig

 

[Dauntedfob]

he’s coping ig

i like asking questions and talking to people. I think basic self improvement is fine and .org has some good tips.