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gunz3r09
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This is something ive just been wondering since I started getting into looksmaxxing. I realise a lot of what its about is looking better because women have no attraction towards you, so why do it if your in a healthy relationship?
My reasoning for doing it is simple because I want to look better, I dont know theres just something about ascending and being the most attractive person in your friend group that really appeals to me and probably others in similar situations. But is the effort and time REALLY worth it?
It seems like the time, effort, and even money that goes into looksmaxxing is very un equal to the benefits it provides. And while yes studies have shown attractive people on average have a slightly higher chance of job/college acceptance and also success does years of effort and sometimes thousands of dollars in surgery worth it for the minimum benefits really going to make you happy, especially in a relationship.
Im mainly talking about hard maxxing in this post not just soft maxxing where its just life style, diet, and general health care because those are all worth it regardless. But at the end of the day when your 70 and going to die was the hours of research forum searching discussion work and training ACTUALLY worth it?
Time and money you put into looksmaxxing can be put into building a happy life, you could be researching buisness ideas and how to execute them if you really wanted, or career paths. The hours you spend on forums could be spent with loved ones and your potential or romantic partner. The money you spend on surgeries could be put into the s&p500 or used for recreational activities with your friends or stuff animals you care about like lizards (im a lizard conesour).
But at the end of the day I really just want people opinions and thoughts on this.
My reasoning for doing it is simple because I want to look better, I dont know theres just something about ascending and being the most attractive person in your friend group that really appeals to me and probably others in similar situations. But is the effort and time REALLY worth it?
It seems like the time, effort, and even money that goes into looksmaxxing is very un equal to the benefits it provides. And while yes studies have shown attractive people on average have a slightly higher chance of job/college acceptance and also success does years of effort and sometimes thousands of dollars in surgery worth it for the minimum benefits really going to make you happy, especially in a relationship.
Im mainly talking about hard maxxing in this post not just soft maxxing where its just life style, diet, and general health care because those are all worth it regardless. But at the end of the day when your 70 and going to die was the hours of research forum searching discussion work and training ACTUALLY worth it?
Time and money you put into looksmaxxing can be put into building a happy life, you could be researching buisness ideas and how to execute them if you really wanted, or career paths. The hours you spend on forums could be spent with loved ones and your potential or romantic partner. The money you spend on surgeries could be put into the s&p500 or used for recreational activities with your friends or stuff animals you care about like lizards (im a lizard conesour).
But at the end of the day I really just want people opinions and thoughts on this.
