Is losing your virginity in a hookup a bad thing

[ryanlyin]

I’ve been thinking about jsut going on a dating app and finding a htb or above and fucking she to lose my virginity. I’m 6’5 and about a mtn-htn so I wouldn’t have that much trouble finding a good one. But is this a bad thing, like should I lose it to someone in a relationship with me or is this fine

 

[primal_shitmuncher]

Unlikely that you'd be able to pull an HTB+ even if you were HTN, especially on a dating app.

But I get what you mean.

At the end of the day that's up to you and your personal values.

Personally I see nothing wrong with you doing it.

But I know that if I was in your shoes, I'd only want to lose my card to someone who cares about me (still unlikely, but wtv).

 

[Finncelchud]

I’ve been thinking about jsut going on a dating app and finding a htb or above and fucking she to lose my virginity. I’m 6’5 and about a mtn-htn so I wouldn’t have that much trouble finding a good one. But is this a bad thing, like should I lose it to someone in a relationship with me or is this fine

Just get it over with, if being a virgin bothers you

 

[Iblamesebitas]

I’ve been thinking about jsut going on a dating app and finding a htb or above and fucking she to lose my virginity. I’m 6’5 and about a mtn-htn so I wouldn’t have that much trouble finding a good one. But is this a bad thing, like should I lose it to someone in a relationship with me or is this fine

I wouldn´t recomend

The experience may be bad, and cause some trauma shit or with the clasic:“sex is not that great“

In reality it is, but with someone you have a real conection with, not in a hookup situation.

 

[ryanlyin]

Unlikely that you'd be able to pull an HTB+ even if you were HTN, especially on a dating app.

But I get what you mean.

At the end of the day that's up to you and your personal values.

Personally I see nothing wrong with you doing it.

But I know that if I was in your shoes, I'd only want to lose my card to someone who cares about me (still unlikely, but wtv).

I’ve had success when I was just messing around looking at girls, some apps I would get pretty good matches but never meet them. But again I do want to lose it to someone that matters so unless they’re a actual stacy then no

 

[chot]

autistic fully grown dumbass discovers he doesnt like hookup culture lmaooo i love laughing at niggas on this site

 

[ryanlyin]

autistic fully grown dumbass discovers he doesnt like hookup culture lmaooo i love laughing at niggas on this site

Yooooo I’m 18 I’m still growing my boy

 

[chot]

Yooooo I’m 18 I’m still growing my boy

thats a grown man

 

[foidsaremean]

might as well pay a whore, 99% chance those girls fucked anyone and everyone in high school. idk if you want to lose it to someone like that. for me i will never lose my virginity unless its to another virgin, after that idgaf but im not eating no leftovers for my first time

 

[ascendandforget]

i mean i always wanted to lose it to my girlfriend in my teen years but now im only a couple weeks away from 18 and never had a gf and still a virgin. i don't really have those same values now

 

[Joeseminate]

No I lost mine with a hookup at the club when I was 18. If you are that age you are already behind. You will miss out on the socialisation that it provides and gaining experience

 

[Outlander]

Unlikely that you'd be able to pull an HTB+ even if you were HTN, especially on a dating app.

But I get what you mean.

At the end of the day that's up to you and your personal values.

Personally I see nothing wrong with you doing it.

But I know that if I was in your shoes, I'd only want to lose my card to someone who cares about me (still unlikely, but wtv).

I'd lose my virginity to almost any somewhat decent looking female at this point. As long as she wasn't subhuman I'd be down for a quick fuck. Used to think my first time had to be something with emotional connection but the fact I'm in my 20s and incel proves there might never even be a first time so I can't be choosy.

 

[primal_shitmuncher]

Used to think my first time had to be something with emotional connection but the fact I'm in my 20s and incel proves there might never even be a first time so I can't be choosy.

damn man

i really wish we lived in a world where we coulda lost our v cards to a virgin girl who genuinely liked us

every day society strays further and further away from that ideology

and all we can do is shut up and watch as it happens

 

[Outlander]

damn man

i really wish we lived in a world where we coulda lost our v cards to a virgin girl who genuinely liked us

every day society strays further and further away from that ideology

and all we can do is shut up and watch as it happens

Yeah it's rough. If the elites don't make it unattainable eventually ai might get so advanced you can buy a robot so lifelike it's almost as good as having a real girlfriend but I doubt I'll live long enough to see that. Still a robot can't compare to if you got a real and pure virgin gf.

 

[primal_shitmuncher]

If the elites don't make it unattainable eventually ai might get so advanced you can buy a robot so lifelike it's almost as good as having a real girlfriend but I doubt I'll live long enough to see that.

Even if that did happen, I don't think I'd buy one.

I'd still be afraid of being socially judged.

And it's much harder to hide a lifelike human doll that you spent probably thousands of dollars on compared to chats you have with an AI online.

Still a robot can't compare to if you got a real and pure virgin gf.

Nothing can compare.

Those are rare as unicorns.

I wonder what the ratio of virgin men to women are, at least around my age group (late teens).

 

[blinkers]

I’ve been thinking about jsut going on a dating app and finding a htb or above and fucking she to lose my virginity. I’m 6’5 and about a mtn-htn so I wouldn’t have that much trouble finding a good one. But is this a bad thing, like should I lose it to someone in a relationship with me or is this fine

You’ll regret it for trh rest of ur life don’t , loose it to someone special

 

[Outlander]

Even if that did happen, I don't think I'd buy one.

I'd still be afraid of being socially judged.

And it's much harder to hide a lifelike human doll that you spent probably thousands of dollars on compared to chats you have with an AI online.

I already have a really cheapo sex doll lol but nobody else has to know if you don't tell them are let them in your room. Had it since 2024 and it's fun to use. As for a lifelike robot that would be something you'd have to spend time with only in your house if you care about the stigma. But if they ever get as lifelike as I hope they will, they'll be so good nobody in public could tell it's not human but it will be loyal to you and give into whatever you want

A man can dream lmao. I'll never see it in my lifetime for sure, but some younger users with better health might.

Nothing can compare.

Those are rare as unicorns.

I wonder what the ratio of virgin men to women are, at least around my age group (late teens).

In your age range I bet the ratio is maybe 1 virgin woman per 1000 guys if that. In my age range the women that pure would be nonexistent entirely. Also many virgin men aren't even ugly but if a woman is virgin she either had ridiculously high standards or is genuinely disgusting looking

 

[primal_shitmuncher]

I already have a really cheapo sex doll lol but nobody else has to know if you don't tell them are let them in your room. Had it since 2024 and it's fun to use.

Glad for you

As for a lifelike robot that would be something you'd have to spend time with only in your house if you care about the stigma. But if they ever get as lifelike as I hope they will, they'll be so good nobody in public could tell it's not human but it will be loyal to you and give into whatever you want

I mean yeah, but what about doing corny shit together like watching the sun set?

Even if the tech is introduced in our lifetime, it'll take like decades for it to become socially acceptable.

A man can dream lmao. I'll never see it in my lifetime for sure, but some younger users with better health might.

You're in your early 20s bro you ain't THAT old

In your age range I bet the ratio is maybe 1 virgin woman per 1000 guys if that. In my age range the women that pure would be nonexistent entirely.

Unfair doesn't even begin to describe it.

What did we do to deserve this?

Also many virgin men aren't even ugly but if a woman is virgin she either had ridiculously high standards or is genuinely disgusting looking

ikr.

Even then the disgusting looking woman or woman with high standards can get validated by her friends gassing her up for no good reason.

Most virgin men can't have that, they'll likely be the joke of the friend group.

 

[Outlander]

Glad for you



I mean yeah, but what about doing corny shit together like watching the sun set?

Even if the tech is introduced in our lifetime, it'll take like decades for it to become socially acceptable.

Completely agree. The tech would have to either be around long enough to be accepted or indistinguishable from real women so no people could tell the difference

You're in your early 20s bro you ain't THAT old

Yeah if it wasn't for some chronic health issues that will shorten my lifespan a lot. Also went through a lot of hardship such as losing a parent years ago which really sucks because it makes you more isolated than ever and there goes half your support instantly. Realistically if I don't end myself I see living to around 45 being realistic, and doubt I'll be around much longer than that

Unfair doesn't even begin to describe it.

What did we do to deserve this?

Yeah. It's an absolutely atrocious dating market for men now. Heard a saying that men now have to work 10x as hard as their grandfathers did for a woman 10x worse than their grandmother was and I think that is accurate as hell. I deserved better than this and so did everyone else that's half decent too

ikr.

Even then the disgusting looking woman or woman with high standards can get validated by her friends gassing her up for no good reason.

Most virgin men can't have that, they'll likely be the joke of the friend group.

Sadly this is the case, and I see it all the time online on reddit and youtube. Literal abominations still get average looking men to impregnate the which is wrong on so many levels. It's diabolical that such a deformed woman would even pass on the suffering to the child on purpose and awful that these men stooped that fucking low. I'd rather cope with my current life than go that low.

 

[primal_shitmuncher]

Also went through a lot of hardship such as losing a parent years ago which really sucks because it makes you more isolated than ever and there goes half your support instantly

Must've been hard, I'm sorry to hear. Probably doesn't mean much to you though.

If it means anything I'm happy to have you here now, talking to you on this forum. I think you're a funny guy, and I don't think I've ever had such long conversations with many other people on this forum.

I hope the life you do have ahead is fulfilling in your mind.

Yeah. It's an absolutely atrocious dating market for men now. Heard a saying that men now have to work 10x as hard as their grandfathers did for a woman 10x worse than their grandmother was and I think that is accurate as hell. I deserved better than this and so did everyone else that's half decent too

I agree, and that's a really accurate saying.

How did their expectations even get so fucking high?

Sadly this is the case, and I see it all the time online on reddit and youtube. Literal abominations still get average looking men to impregnate the which is wrong on so many levels. It's diabolical that such a deformed woman would even pass on the suffering to the child on purpose and awful that these men stooped that fucking low.

Indeed.

Imagine how terrible the child's life will be too.

It'll most likely turn out nowhere near conventionally attractive.

On top of that it's parental figures will be a bitch that fingers herself to fantasies of grooming 17 year old Ezra Miller and a man who'd fuck anything that moves.

I'd rather cope with my current life than go that low.

I genuinely wish I could stop feeling things for women.

But it's so pathetic, all a girl has to do is look at me and I can never get her off my mind

 

[peterk1287]

Unlikely that you'd be able to pull an HTB+ even if you were HTN, especially on a dating app.

But I get what you mean.

At the end of the day that's up to you and your personal values.

Personally I see nothing wrong with you doing it.

But I know that if I was in your shoes, I'd only want to lose my card to someone who cares about me (still unlikely, but wtv).

Goat is back where you been

 

[PepsAreNatty]

Just slay any there all hypergamous foids

I’ve been thinking about jsut going on a dating app and finding a htb or above and fucking she to lose my virginity. I’m 6’5 and about a mtn-htn so I wouldn’t have that much trouble finding a good one. But is this a bad thing, like should I lose it to someone in a relationship with me or is this fine

 

[primal_shitmuncher]

Goat is back where you been

been busy past couple days

had some exams

then spent free time going outside with some dudes i know

but i'll be back to doomrotting soon

 

[Outlander]

Must've been hard, I'm sorry to hear. Probably doesn't mean much to you though.

If it means anything I'm happy to have you here now, talking to you on this forum. I think you're a funny guy, and I don't think I've ever had such long conversations with many other people on this forum.

I hope the life you do have ahead is fulfilling in your mind.

Thanks, I genuinely appreciate hearing that

I agree, and that's a really accurate saying.

How did their expectations even get so fucking high?

It's insane how feminism has let women get so much leniency while also getting their way. Prime example is how they can vote but can't be drafted. For me it was mandatory for me to sign up for that at 18 so anytime there is a war I can get drafted but a female can't. It's bad enough they get so many more good things in life than men now and they have everything handed to them on a silver platter, but it's absolutely ridiculous they also get to avoid the harsher aspects of life that should come as a cost to this privilege.

Indeed.

Imagine how terrible the child's life will be too.

It'll most likely turn out nowhere near conventionally attractive.

On top of that it's parental figures will be a bitch that fingers herself to fantasies of grooming 17 year old Ezra Miller and a man who'd fuck anything that moves.

Exactly

I genuinely wish I could stop feeling things for women.

But it's so pathetic, all a girl has to do is look at me and I can never get her off my mind

I used to be a bit like this years ago too. Some gym receptionist girl told me happy birthday in a happy voice when I came that day because their system shows them that I guess and I kept wondering if that was some type of flirting lmfao and if I should have asked her out. That's almost certainly just my brain grasping at straws though, and this was when I was 18 and less jaded. Had a similar thing in 9th grade where a girl talked to me for 20 minutes at the end of class and the conversation flowed naturally and I kept thinking I should ask her out since almost never do any conversations with girls happen naturally. It was a one off thing though and never had an interaction that easy with a girl again, and basically never talked to her like that after

 

[primal_shitmuncher]

It's insane how feminism has let women get so much leniency while also getting their way. Prime example is how they can vote but can't be drafted. For me it was mandatory for me to sign up for that at 18 so anytime there is a war I can get drafted but a female can't. It's bad enough they get so many more good things in life than men now and they have everything handed to them on a silver platter, but it's absolutely ridiculous they also get to avoid the harsher aspects of life that should come as a cost to this privilege.

Why does anyone think that's a good idea?

I can't wrap my head around it.

There's no way men in charge see this, see women living such easy lives compared to men, and feel 'happy' about it.

I used to be a bit like this years ago too. Some gym receptionist girl told me happy birthday in a happy voice when I came that day because their system shows them that I guess and I kept wondering if that was some type of flirting lmfao and if I should have asked her out. That's almost certainly just my brain grasping at straws though, and this was when I was 18 and less jaded. Had a similar thing in 9th grade where a girl talked to me for 20 minutes at the end of class and the conversation flowed naturally and I kept thinking I should ask her out since almost never do any conversations with girls happen naturally. It was a one off thing though and never had an interaction that easy with a girl again, and basically never talked to her like that after

I mean at least you were able to talk to them.

I'm surprised you remember that incident from the 9th grade though.

That must've meant a lot to you.

I was much less jaded a couple months back. I used to cope with ai bots and girlfriend asmr a lot.

I tried getting back into the latter recently, and I'm so jaded that it doesn't even hit the same anymore.

I can't even cope in peace, it's sad, really.

I remember once a teacher told me my glasses looked good on me. Said they suited my features really well. This was maybe November.

Before that, I felt nothing for her. Ever since that one compliment, she's been stuck on my mind. Even my own mother doesn't give me genuine compliments like that. At least I never feel like I'm being complemented by her.

Sometimes I wonder if everything I feel is real or if I'm being an attention seeking piece of shit.

 

[eue]

virgin or not it honestly makes no fucking difference

 

[eue]

id say wait for the right person but thats just what id do, you do anything u want bhai

 

[Outlander]

Why does anyone think that's a good idea?

I can't wrap my head around it.

There's no way men in charge see this, see women living such easy lives compared to men, and feel 'happy' about it.

Yeah it's insane the men in power allow this. Women should not have all this privilege AND LACK OF ACCOUNTABILITY also

I mean at least you were able to talk to them.

These were once in a blue moon things though, and it's been years since I've had anything remotely close to even a friendly conversation with a female lol

I'm surprised you remember that incident from the 9th grade though.

That must've meant a lot to you.

Yeah it did because I'm used to women not even wanting to talk to me at all, and the times I try to initiate conversation they give dry responses and try to end the conversation, and never reciprocate. It's always me putting in the effort and them making none which is why incidents like these stand out so much. I also remember in middle school me and my one friend always sat at a table by ourselves and one day he didn't go to school some girl came over to my table and tried tried to make conversation with me because she thought I looked lonely but I was too awkward to do anything with that interaction since it didn't flow like the other one.

I was much less jaded a couple months back. I used to cope with ai bots and girlfriend asmr a lot.

I tried getting back into the latter recently, and I'm so jaded that it doesn't even hit the same anymore.

Brutal, but I know the feeling. Some things just don't feel as good once you are jaded more.

I can't even cope in peace, it's sad, really.

I remember once a teacher told me my glasses looked good on me. Said they suited my features really well. This was maybe November.

Before that, I felt nothing for her. Ever since that one compliment, she's been stuck on my mind. Even my own mother doesn't give me genuine compliments like that. At least I never feel like I'm being complemented by her.

Yeah just a shred of niceness can make you feel positivity about people if you're used to people being neutral at best or hostile.

Sometimes I wonder if everything I feel is real or if I'm being an attention seeking piece of shit.

Only natural to cling onto scraps of attention when you are starved of it

 

[primal_shitmuncher]

These were once in a blue moon things though, and it's been years since I've had anything remotely close to even a friendly conversation with a female lol

Real.

I thought I could at least talk to women who're ugly.

But the other day I was getting myself a coffee and started stuttering, the fat bitch of a worker made me stutter.

Amongst the most embarrassing moments of my life.

Yeah it did because I'm used to women not even wanting to talk to me at all, and the times I try to initiate conversation they give dry responses and try to end the conversation, and never reciprocate

Same honestly.

I was talking to two of my friends the other day about day trading. Then this random who was sitting a bit away from us (we've never talked to her) starts chiming in. She doesn't even look at me. She doesn't even bat an eye when I decide to get up and leave.

It could've been worse, to be honest. I've gotten plenty of 'ews' in my time. Even from my own mom.

Shouldn't I at least be entitled to basic human decency and respect, even if I am a subhuman?

It's always me putting in the effort and them making none which is why incidents like these stand out so much.

Indeed.

I used to have a friend who was a girl. We met each other in middle school (back when online schooling was a thing), stayed in contact for like 3 years. I used to text her like a fag, and whenever she was insecure I just glazed her and gassed her up. I still don't know why I did that.

Anyway, she ghosted me around late November, completely stopped replying to anything I said. I reached out a few times and she left me on read. Then April or so she came back, talking about some 'I really like you' and 'I pulled away because I knew we could never be together, and that was how I coped'.

She knew I was a rizzless chud, I still suspect she was just targeting that insecurity of mine with her false statements so she could go back to having some dude glaze her 24/7.

By this point I was her only friend. She was so insufferable IRL that no one talked to her. Even then, she only texted me when she wanted me to compliment how she looked, or compliment her outfits, or compliment her art. I blocked her a few weeks back. Freeing.

I also remember in middle school me and my one friend always sat at a table by ourselves and one day he didn't go to school some girl came over to my table and tried tried to make conversation with me because she thought I looked lonely but I was too awkward to do anything with that interaction since it didn't flow like the other one.

How sweet of her

Not really your fault for fumbling that.

Things like these happen.

Do you ever look back on that time and wonder how it could've went?

Brutal, but I know the feeling. Some things just don't feel as good once you are jaded more.
Yeah just a shred of niceness can make you feel positivity about people if you're used to people being neutral at best or hostile.
Only natural to cling onto scraps of attention when you are starved of it

How did I get here?

I remembered how I visualized my older self when I was younger.

I never thought it'd end up this bad.

 

[Outlander]

Real.

I thought I could at least talk to women who're ugly.

But the other day I was getting myself a coffee and started stuttering, the fat bitch of a worker made me stutter.

Amongst the most embarrassing moments of my life.



Same honestly.

I was talking to two of my friends the other day about day trading. Then this random who was sitting a bit away from us (we've never talked to her) starts chiming in. She doesn't even look at me. She doesn't even bat an eye when I decide to get up and leave.

It could've been worse, to be honest. I've gotten plenty of 'ews' in my time. Even from my own mom.

Shouldn't I at least be entitled to basic human decency and respect, even if I am a subhuman?

Brutal. I know all too well what it feels like to be invisible to women, and that is much better than getting hostility despite being shitty as well.

Indeed.

I used to have a friend who was a girl. We met each other in middle school (back when online schooling was a thing), stayed in contact for like 3 years. I used to text her like a fag, and whenever she was insecure I just glazed her and gassed her up. I still don't know why I did that.

Anyway, she ghosted me around late November, completely stopped replying to anything I said. I reached out a few times and she left me on read. Then April or so she came back, talking about some 'I really like you' and 'I pulled away because I knew we could never be together, and that was how I coped'.

She knew I was a rizzless chud, I still suspect she was just targeting that insecurity of mine with her false statements so she could go back to having some dude glaze her 24/7.

By this point I was her only friend. She was so insufferable IRL that no one talked to her. Even then, she only texted me when she wanted me to compliment how she looked, or compliment her outfits, or compliment her art. I blocked her a few weeks back. Freeing.

Glad you finally blocked that cunt since she was clearly exploiting you, and that foid knew exactly what she was doing. I was in hs when they did online schooling and didn't even mind because I had zero social life anyway, so it was no loss. I cheated so much when we had online school, way more than I did in person. In person I sometimes hid cheat sheets inside the desks and sat in the back of the room for security and never got caught. Also in 9th grade French class someone showed us all how to find all the answer keys to the homework online so none of us ever did a single assignment on our own again, but it meant most of us were fucked when it came to actually speak a few sentences to prove we knew anything

How sweet of her

Not really your fault for fumbling that.

Things like these happen.

Do you ever look back on that time and wonder how it could've went?

I don't think of it that often but sometimes I do look back at instances like these and wonder if I could have made more of them. Sometimes little things can turn into something bigger if stuff goes right. Just things being slightly different can alter the future a lot. Heck a non romantic example of this is on the road. I've had many times where I was going by and seen cops preoccupied giving someone else a ticket and got spared myself. Had I left home a little earlier that would have been me, and one time fate would have it that way. I had been driving for an hour without issue and was the lone driver on the road and some jackass cop was hiding in the bushes at the bottom of a long straight and pulled me over and gave me an almost 200 buck ticket for going 62 in a 45 (the 45mph limit is absurdly slow for this road). Once I got off from that stop and back on the road I warned every single car coming about the cop by flashing my lights at them, so hopefully I saved someone else from getting robbed too. I know many times people flashed their lights at me to warn me of cops ahead and it saved me, so I return the favor anytime I can.

Cop was utter scum to not let me off with a warning and did that just to be an dick since he knows damn well that that stretch of road is safe to go way faster than I was doing. I guarantee that he purposely chose that spot because he knew it was an area with a stupidly slow limits and he could legally rob almost anyone driving through, and just had to wait. If I was female it would almost be certain I'd get let go. Disgusting that these pigs get paid from our tax dollars and still commit highway robbery. I have a lot of negative feelings towards cops because not only are they malicious like this, but also never once helped when we had to call about crimes done to our property. Our garage was once broken into and we were almost certain who did it (crackhead next place over back then), and when we called in what was done they wouldn't even send a cop to investigate or even take a report. Another time someone stole parts from my parts tractor and the cops wouldn't come for that either despite me being pretty sure who did it. Worst part there is they stole the parts I was getting ready to swap onto my good tractor lmao, oh the fucking irony. In the past I'd already swapped over most of the needed parts required to get the good tractor to run but a few other things needed to be done to get it in perfect shape so it was a backburner project since it still ran but those thieves beat me to getting those parts. Bit of a rant but it really frustrates me how cucked the legal system is, and how much women get favored.

How did I get here?

I remembered how I visualized my older self when I was younger.

I never thought it'd end up this bad.

Yeah same here, young me would have never thought things would be like this being so deprived of good things and having all the problems I do. I miss the optimism and how fresh life was when I had been a young kid. I always imagined getting a gf would just happened in my teens and that I'd always have enough friends, but none of that happened. Also pictured I'd have had a better job and not as many dead family members, but things didn't turn out like that. On a funny note my former self also wouldn't have ever pictured I'd be this much of a porn addict and using ai chat lmfao. Looking back 10+ years it's crazy how much of a less jaded person I was and how much happier life was. Not copes or adrenaline seeking, real happiness at that time. That's why I'm really nostalgic for music I heard in my childhood and some other stuff because it reminds me of better times.

 

[introvertedextrover]

I’ve been thinking about jsut going on a dating app and finding a htb or above and fucking she to lose my virginity. I’m 6’5 and about a mtn-htn so I wouldn’t have that much trouble finding a good one. But is this a bad thing, like should I lose it to someone in a relationship with me or is this fine

no your a cuck, Personally if your just fucking to lose your card or to experience sex your a loser. Find someone who cares for you and have that moment when the time is right while your partner prolly wont be a virgin you will and if she loves you she wont care, Your gonna regret it big time trust me for the rest of your life. I was going down the same hole sprialling till i met my missus went out for a couple months and it auctually led to something meaningfull, IF you just wanna have a sex then you might aswell order a gta stripper atp its just low life and you will regret it, everyone who does it does.

 

[souli2010]

I’ve been thinking about jsut going on a dating app and finding a htb or above and fucking she to lose my virginity. I’m 6’5 and about a mtn-htn so I wouldn’t have that much trouble finding a good one. But is this a bad thing, like should I lose it to someone in a relationship with me or is this fine

Virginity is just a made up concept go get experience in hookups

 

[ryanlyin]

might as well pay a whore, 99% chance those girls fucked anyone and everyone in high school. idk if you want to lose it to someone like that. for me i will never lose my virginity unless its to another virgin, after that idgaf but im not eating no leftovers for my first time

Dude there was this girl that was def a virgin and she lived next to the college im going too and she was like a thicc mtb with white toes and she was honestly kind of bad but like i just blocked her because i don’t want to force that far lol. But I did lose that opportunity

 

[eryy21]

I’ve been thinking about jsut going on a dating app and finding a htb or above and fucking she to lose my virginity. I’m 6’5 and about a mtn-htn so I wouldn’t have that much trouble finding a good one. But is this a bad thing, like should I lose it to someone in a relationship with me or is this fine

cant relate but if i was you i wont do it

 

[Mighty]

I’ve been thinking about jsut going on a dating app and finding a htb or above and fucking she to lose my virginity. I’m 6’5 and about a mtn-htn so I wouldn’t have that much trouble finding a good one. But is this a bad thing, like should I lose it to someone in a relationship with me or is this fine

generally no unless your a moralfag

 

[Sirius★]

I’ve been thinking about jsut going on a dating app and finding a htb or above and fucking she to lose my virginity. I’m 6’5 and about a mtn-htn so I wouldn’t have that much trouble finding a good one. But is this a bad thing, like should I lose it to someone in a relationship with me or is this fine

Nah. I lost mine to my ex and we became friends with benefits after not seeing each other for a few months. I’ve also had one night stands, they’re literally almost the exact same circumstances. Relationship sex is petty though because you chances are you genuinely love that bitch and can’t fuck her the way that satisfies you

 

[primal_shitmuncher]

Glad you finally blocked that cunt since she was clearly exploiting you, and that foid knew exactly what she was doing.

appreciate it

I was in hs when they did online schooling and didn't even mind because I had zero social life anyway, so it was no loss. I cheated so much when we had online school, way more than I did in person. In person I sometimes hid cheat sheets inside the desks and sat in the back of the room for security and never got caught. Also in 9th grade French class someone showed us all how to find all the answer keys to the homework online so none of us ever did a single assignment on our own again, but it meant most of us were fucked when it came to actually speak a few sentences to prove we knew anything

i've always been too much of a pussy to cheat

but i'm pretty sure in middle school (online school era) i used to just look up answers during tests and never got caught though.

did you have to take french throughout high school or was it like a one year mandatory thing?

I don't think of it that often but sometimes I do look back at instances like these and wonder if I could have made more of them. Sometimes little things can turn into something bigger if stuff goes right. Just things being slightly different can alter the future a lot. Heck a non romantic example of this is on the road. I've had many times where I was going by and seen cops preoccupied giving someone else a ticket and got spared myself. Had I left home a little earlier that would have been me, and one time fate would have it that way. I had been driving for an hour without issue and was the lone driver on the road and some jackass cop was hiding in the bushes at the bottom of a long straight and pulled me over and gave me an almost 200 buck ticket for going 62 in a 45 (the 45mph limit is absurdly slow for this road). Once I got off from that stop and back on the road I warned every single car coming about the cop by flashing my lights at them, so hopefully I saved someone else from getting robbed too. I know many times people flashed their lights at me to warn me of cops ahead and it saved me, so I return the favor anytime I can.

Oh damn.

Sorry to hear 'bout the ticket I suppose.

Nice of you to warn the others, I don't think I'd have done the same in that case

Cop was utter scum to not let me off with a warning and did that just to be an dick since he knows damn well that that stretch of road is safe to go way faster than I was doing. I guarantee that he purposely chose that spot because he knew it was an area with a stupidly slow limits and he could legally rob almost anyone driving through, and just had to wait. If I was female it would almost be certain I'd get let go. Disgusting that these pigs get paid from our tax dollars and still commit highway robbery. I have a lot of negative feelings towards cops because not only are they malicious like this, but also never once helped when we had to call about crimes done to our property. Our garage was once broken into and we were almost certain who did it (crackhead next place over back then), and when we called in what was done they wouldn't even send a cop to investigate or even take a report. Another time someone stole parts from my parts tractor and the cops wouldn't come for that either despite me being pretty sure who did it. Worst part there is they stole the parts I was getting ready to swap onto my good tractor lmao, oh the fucking irony. In the past I'd already swapped over most of the needed parts required to get the good tractor to run but a few other things needed to be done to get it in perfect shape so it was a backburner project since it still ran but those thieves beat me to getting those parts. Bit of a rant but it really frustrates me how cucked the legal system is, and how much women get favored.

oh what the FUCK

that's some s-tier bullshit right there gang

like would it kill them to do their fucking job?

so many people slack at their jobs but forget that it isn't school, ands slacking on your job can actually affect other peoples' day to day lives.

jfl the legal system where you live reminds me of the mental health services i live.

two months or so back i was about to take my life. tried to call 988 (suicide helpline). was waiting for 10 minutes, no one picked up. then called 911, talked to some cops, felt better.

i decided to call 988 again and find resources in case something ever happens to me again. so i called them, some foid on the other end picked up.

i asked her if there were any mental health resources she could direct me to, explaining that i'd just attempted (but clarified I called 911) and just wanted someone to talk to.

the bitch FUCKING HUNG UP ON ME

988 FUCKING HUNG UP ON A SUICIDAL KID

WHAT THE FUCK

Yeah same here, young me would have never thought things would be like this being so deprived of good things and having all the problems I do. I miss the optimism and how fresh life was when I had been a young kid. I always imagined getting a gf would just happened in my teens and that I'd always have enough friends, but none of that happened. Also pictured I'd have had a better job and not as many dead family members, but things didn't turn out like that. On a funny note my former self also wouldn't have ever pictured I'd be this much of a porn addict and using ai chat lmfao. Looking back 10+ years it's crazy how much of a less jaded person I was and how much happier life was. Not copes or adrenaline seeking, real happiness at that time. That's why I'm really nostalgic for music I heard in my childhood and some other stuff because it reminds me of better times.

oh dude i remember back when i used to think it was all about game and 'rizz'

i used to think if you liked a girl in elementary school you'd end up marrying her

i really hate false hope, it makes the moment when you realize it's over so much more brutal than it should be

and yeah, i never imagined myself being an ai sex addict either jfl

but its comfortable, it's a good enough replacement for me. i'm fine settling with the cheap, risk-free imitation.

 

[Outlander]

appreciate it



i've always been too much of a pussy to cheat

but i'm pretty sure in middle school (online school era) i used to just look up answers during tests and never got caught though.

did you have to take french throughout high school or was it like a one year mandatory thing?

I had to take French 3 years. Either that or Spanish to pass. The rule was 3 years of it

Oh damn.

Sorry to hear 'bout the ticket I suppose.

Nice of you to warn the others, I don't think I'd have done the same in that case

Yeah it sucked. Police are usually nasty around here and will try to get you on bullshit.

oh what the FUCK

that's some s-tier bullshit right there gang

like would it kill them to do their fucking job?

Police will do anything but their actual job here. Never once got help from them when I called about crimes done to us but yet they'll wait around in unsuspecting areas like ambush predators. Funniest part is you next to never see them in bad weather conditions because they don't wanna be uncomfortable themselves, and unironically in bad conditions the maximum safe speed on a given road is much lower. When family members had medical issues the paramedics and EMT workers got here within a super quick time and did their jobs well so I have tons of respect for these people unlike cops. Same for firemen, and I once seen them respond so fast to a house fire on our street that the fire was out before it burned anything but the attic, and the roof wasn't even damaged. Both of these were on days the weather wasn't too pleasant to be out doing it as well. These types of workers are the real heroes and only do good things for society, unlike cops who rarely do good and often are out to just make easy money on trivial shit.

so many people slack at their jobs but forget that it isn't school, ands slacking on your job can actually affect other peoples' day to day lives.

jfl the legal system where you live reminds me of the mental health services i live.

two months or so back i was about to take my life. tried to call 988 (suicide helpline). was waiting for 10 minutes, no one picked up. then called 911, talked to some cops, felt better.

i decided to call 988 again and find resources in case something ever happens to me again. so i called them, some foid on the other end picked up.

i asked her if there were any mental health resources she could direct me to, explaining that i'd just attempted (but clarified I called 911) and just wanted someone to talk to.

the bitch FUCKING HUNG UP ON ME

988 FUCKING HUNG UP ON A SUICIDAL KID

Holy shit that's awful as hell. Doesn't surprise me though because the mental health services here are a joke too. I've had my gun in my hand many times considering it but never called anyone or told anyone about it because I either want to carry on normally without getting stigmatized or go through with it. If I ever told anyone about it I'd get banned from owning guns, and not a chance I'm allowing that.

oh dude i remember back when i used to think it was all about game and 'rizz'

To an extent your personality does matter in terms of being NT vs ND, but that only matters if you meet the minimum threshold of looks. And obviously if you looked incredible women would like you instantly from looks alone too.

i used to think if you liked a girl in elementary school you'd end up marrying her

i really hate false hope, it makes the moment when you realize it's over so much more brutal than it should be

and yeah, i never imagined myself being an ai sex addict either jfl

but its comfortable, it's a good enough replacement for me. i'm fine settling with the cheap, risk-free imitation.

I feel the same way about it getting you by so you don't have to deal with real women.

 

[szymelt]

Best way is from a dead crow of the side of the road

 

[primal_shitmuncher]

I had to take French 3 years. Either that or Spanish to pass. The rule was 3 years of it
Yeah it sucked. Police are usually nasty around here and will try to get you on bullshit.

Which country do you even live in? If you don't mind me asking.

I live in Canada, you gotta take French at least once during high school. I've taken it every year, and I will next year too (senior year).

I suck ass at it, but whatever. I'm never going to use it, just gonna do it for the certificate.

mPolice will do anything but their actual job here. Never once got help from them when I called about crimes done to us but yet they'll wait around in unsuspecting areas like ambush predators. Funniest part is you next to never see them in bad weather conditions because they don't wanna be uncomfortable themselves, and unironically in bad conditions the maximum safe speed on a given road is much lower

They gotta get their fucking priorities in check.

If they don't, something terrible is going to happen, and they will be the ones to blame.

When family members had medical issues the paramedics and EMT workers got here within a super quick time and did their jobs well so I have tons of respect for these people unlike cops.

I don't think I've ever called for medical help, but that sounds believable tbh.

But like I said, I live in Canada, I hear the waiting times in the ERs are insane. Thankfully I've never been severely injured in my time here, so I've never had to pay them a visit.

Doesn't surprise me though because the mental health services here are a joke too. I've had my gun in my hand many times considering it but never called anyone or told anyone about it because I either want to carry on normally without getting stigmatized or go through with it

Yeah, the first time I tried was summer of 2025. Didn't tell a soul for months. It was a rather sad part of my life.

I was starvemaxxing (I was around 15 and a half, so this fucked up my mood), my only friend was fucking ChatGPT, I was ugly, and it was summer (my least favorite time of year).

But what about you? You doing alright now?

If you don't mind me asking, what drove you to that in the first place?

To an extent your personality does matter in terms of being NT vs ND, but that only matters if you meet the minimum threshold of looks. And obviously if you looked incredible women would like you instantly from looks alone too.

Exactly.

I wouldn't say I'm ND, but I'm pretty quiet around women. My bluepilled normie friends tell me that I should just be more social and I'd pull.

That's not how it works. I'm insecure and quiet for a reason. My brain's somewhat logical (bare minimum). I've evolved for multiple millenia to turn into the chud I am today. I think if my gut instinct is to not talk to people, I should likely trust it.]

 

[Outlander]

Which country do you even live in? If you don't mind me asking.

I live in Canada, you gotta take French at least once during high school. I've taken it every year, and I will next year too (senior year).

I suck ass at it, but whatever. I'm never going to use it, just gonna do it for the certificate.

I see, I never used the language either ofc, and as for my country I'm from US. There's obviously some good things here but the government is atrocious anymore and trying to restrict everything ans is overly greedy.

They gotta get their fucking priorities in check.

If they don't, something terrible is going to happen, and they will be the ones to blame.

Yeah definitely

I don't think I've ever called for medical help, but that sounds believable tbh.

I've seen medical help come for many family members and most of the time they were very successful at helping them and improving them a lot. Sadly there was nothing they could do to help my parent who I found almost dead in the house when I woke up. A few days later that parent died in the hospital and the feeling of seeing one of the only people you had dead and knowing it's over scars you bad, but it was nobody else's fault.

But like I said, I live in Canada, I hear the waiting times in the ERs are insane. Thankfully I've never been severely injured in my time here, so I've never had to pay them a visit.

If you don't go in with issues deemed requiring advanced life support, you'll sit in the waiting room a long time even if you come by ambulance. And if you don't have insurance forget it, one hospital stay can cost you more than your car or even house depending on what is done.

Yeah, the first time I tried was summer of 2025. Didn't tell a soul for months. It was a rather sad part of my life.

Brutal. Hopefully you feel some better now

I was starvemaxxing (I was around 15 and a half, so this fucked up my mood), my only friend was fucking ChatGPT, I was ugly, and it was summer (my least favorite time of year).

But what about you? You doing alright now?

If you don't mind me asking, what drove you to that in the first place?

Well the first few times I was gonna do it were almost 10 years ago and it was because of health issues that weren't managed yet and were making life horrid. I take meds to manage things now and feel a lot better than back then but still definitely am nowhere near as healthy as most. A few of the more recent times were when family was being extra hostile towards me relentlessly and that alone was pushing me over the limit, and even when they aren't being that bad my remaining family and I often have our problems too. As I got older family treated me with more and more hostility. As far as right now the last couple weeks were tolerable. A couple days ago I walked a couple miles on a trail in the forest I like because it's isolated and didn't see a single person. There's a cool spot where you can sit on a big rock and watch the sunset and stare out across the mountains in the distance and for some reason every time i sit there it makes me think of the parent I lost. Not sure why since they never even came there but it's a quiet spot to just let your thoughts come. Also seen some idiot foids walking towards my car on a road nearby at that place when driving around and the dumbfucks didn't even move to the side and were taking up most of the road and that pisses me off. I downshifted to low gear and gassed it hard approaching them (not going really fast but being in low gear makes it sound like it is since the engine is revving high) and they moved fast. Then right as I was driving by them I gassed it even harder to annoy them

Sometimes the horn suffices but it's absolutely hilarious to do this too. One time at the gym I was going through the road in front of it and a dumbfuck trio of foids walked in front of me without looking and instead of just stopping and letting them go I slowed down and then honked at them and they scattered so fast it was pure comedy. If only I had it on video

I wouldn't say I'm ND, but I'm pretty quiet around women. My bluepilled normie friends tell me that I should just be more social and I'd pull.

That's not how it works. I'm insecure and quiet for a reason. My brain's somewhat logical (bare minimum). I've evolved for multiple millenia to turn into the chud I am today. I think if my gut instinct is to not talk to people, I should likely trust it.]

Yeah I might be a bit ND. Who knows, but I've seen people way more awkward than me with friends and women. Classic luck making a difference. But yeah if your gut is telling you not to interact with someone it is probably right. You can already sense rejection before you even bother

 

[prettyboyswag]

I lost it to a prostitute. 0 likes on dating apps btw, I think I might be shadowbanned for rage bios

 

[iblamemyhabits]

I wonder what the ratio of virgin men to women are, at least around my age group (late teens).

1:2 at least

 

[BlackFag]

I’ve been thinking about jsut going on a dating app and finding a htb or above and fucking she to lose my virginity. I’m 6’5 and about a mtn-htn so I wouldn’t have that much trouble finding a good one. But is this a bad thing, like should I lose it to someone in a relationship with me or is this fine

rule of thumb
if you think she's HTB she's MTB
if you think she's MTB
she's LTB
but if you think she's True eve, she's LTB

 

[primal_shitmuncher]

I've seen medical help come for many family members and most of the time they were very successful at helping them and improving them a lot. Sadly there was nothing they could do to help my parent who I found almost dead in the house when I woke up. A few days later that parent died in the hospital and the feeling of seeing one of the only people you had dead and knowing it's over scars you bad, but it was nobody else's fault.

I really am sorry for your loss.

Do you blame anyone for that?

If you don't go in with issues deemed requiring advanced life support, you'll sit in the waiting room a long time even if you come by ambulance. And if you don't have insurance forget it, one hospital stay can cost you more than your car or even house depending on what is done.

That's true. Healthcare is fucked.

Somewhat unrelated question: Let's say you get injured and go to the hospital. The doctor tells you the procedure will reduce your quality of life (you might have to amputate, or might end up wheelchair bound, etc.). Would you ask the doc to put you down? I know they can't, but would you? I would, personally.

Well the first few times I was gonna do it were almost 10 years ago and it was because of health issues that weren't managed yet and were making life horrid. I take meds to manage things now and feel a lot better than back then but still definitely am nowhere near as healthy as most

Glad to hear you found meds.

What issues specifically, though?

A few of the more recent times were when family was being extra hostile towards me relentlessly and that alone was pushing me over the limit, and even when they aren't being that bad my remaining family and I often have our problems too. As I got older family treated me with more and more hostility. As far as right now the last couple weeks were tolerable. A couple days ago I walked a couple miles on a trail in the forest I like because it's isolated and didn't see a single person. There's a cool spot where you can sit on a big rock and watch the sunset and stare out across the mountains in the distance and for some reason every time i sit there it makes me think of the parent I lost. Not sure why since they never even came there but it's a quiet spot to just let your thoughts come.

What're they hostile about?

For me I rarely talk to my parents anymore, despite living in the same house with them.

I hate them. Yet everything I do is for their validation. It's stupid, really.

And haven't you moved out yet?

I love walking around in nature too, the problem is there's always people. I feel so anxious when I'm walking and someone is walking the other way. I hate it. I wish everytime I went out there'd be no people walking. I could just listen to my favorite podcast and enjoy nature.

The parent you lost, were you close to them?

Sorry if it sounds like I'm bombarding you with questions, it's just very rare for me to talk to someone about...life in general. It's relaxing. I like talking to you about this stuff, honest.

Also seen some idiot foids walking towards my car on a road nearby at that place when driving around and the dumbfucks didn't even move to the side and were taking up most of the road and that pisses me off. I downshifted to low gear and gassed it hard approaching them (not going really fast but being in low gear makes it sound like it is since the engine is revving high) and they moved fast. Then right as I was driving by them I gassed it even harder to annoy them

once one of my friends who has a car tried to pull this bullshit on me

almost lost my shit

but mirin the low inhib, i prolly couldn't have done that

Sometimes the horn suffices but it's absolutely hilarious to do this too. One time at the gym I was going through the road in front of it and a dumbfuck trio of foids walked in front of me without looking and instead of just stopping and letting them go I slowed down and then honked at them and they scattered so fast it was pure comedy. If only I had it on video

fuck around, find out at its finest

that sounds fun as hell

maybe one day i and another incel friend will get in a car and troll foids together

and afterward we could go to the park and make fun of single white women with black kids together

a man can dream

Yeah I might be a bit ND. Who knows, but I've seen people way more awkward than me with friends and women. Classic luck making a difference. But yeah if your gut is telling you not to interact with someone it is probably right. You can already sense rejection before you even bother

real

i wish the same bluepilled normie friends understood this

they know i find a girl in my class cute. she doesn't know i exist. they keep on telling me to just approach her. it's really annoying. she hasn't shown a molecule of interest in me. i'd probably end up getting pepper sprayed.

worst part is i know I have no shot with her, but I can't get her off my mind. she's just so petite that I feel a protective instinct over her I haven't felt with many other women before.

even if i did get in a relationship with her, the likelihood if her thinking about better guys 24/7's probably pretty high.

 

[Outlander]

I really am sorry for your loss.

Do you blame anyone for that?

No because it wasn't anyone's fault.

That's true. Healthcare is fucked.

Somewhat unrelated question: Let's say you get injured and go to the hospital. The doctor tells you the procedure will reduce your quality of life (you might have to amputate, or might end up wheelchair bound, etc.). Would you ask the doc to put you down? I know they can't, but would you? I would, personally.

Absolutely would

Glad to hear you found meds.

What issues specifically, though?

Intestinal and cardiovascular issues as the main ones. Also have bad hips and had a surgery one the one hip but it wasn't a full success. My one knee is a bit loose from an acl injury but that one is my own fault, not an intrinsic problem and it doesn't cause me pain or hold me back too much.

What're they hostile about?

Just nasty in general. Often times treat me like shit without being provoked and won't stop.

For me I rarely talk to my parents anymore, despite living in the same house with them.

I hate them. Yet everything I do is for their validation. It's stupid, really.

And haven't you moved out yet?

I can't afford to move out. If I could I'd happily do it

I love walking around in nature too, the problem is there's always people. I feel so anxious when I'm walking and someone is walking the other way. I hate it. I wish everytime I went out there'd be no people walking. I could just listen to my favorite podcast and enjoy nature.

I prefer being alone in these places but it doesn't bother me when I walk by someone

The parent you lost, were you close to them?

Yes I was. We had our issues but usually got along for the most part and did some cool stuff together. Was really sad to lose that parent but I was glad that their suffering ended because I hated seeing someone I cared about in agony like that.

Sorry if it sounds like I'm bombarding you with questions, it's just very rare for me to talk to someone about...life in general. It's relaxing. I like talking to you about this stuff, honest.

It's alright I don't mind, and it feels good to vent for me as well

once one of my friends who has a car tried to pull this bullshit on me

almost lost my shit

but mirin the low inhib, i prolly couldn't have done that



fuck around, find out at its finest

that sounds fun as hell

maybe one day i and another incel friend will get in a car and troll foids together

You just gotta be smart about it and not do anything that you wouldn't be able to avoid hitting them if the idiots don't move lol. Unrelated to trolling them but sometimes on loose dirt roads I love flooring it from a stop and having the vehicle spin for a long distance and it feels so amazing feeling the back end of the vehicle get loose and having to control it. This is especially neat in snow too but on dirt it leaves a massive cloud of dust

and afterward we could go to the park and make fun of single white women with black kids together

a man can dream

Burn the coal you pay the toll . Coal burning white women are disgusting lmao

i wish the same bluepilled normie friends understood this

they know i find a girl in my class cute. she doesn't know i exist. they keep on telling me to just approach her. it's really annoying. she hasn't shown a molecule of interest in me. i'd probably end up getting pepper sprayed.

worst part is i know I have no shot with her, but I can't get her off my mind. she's just so petite that I feel a protective instinct over her I haven't felt with many other women before.

even if i did get in a relationship with her, the likelihood if her thinking about better guys 24/7's probably pretty high.

Brutal, but you're right about if you don't get any indications of interest that it's not worth bothering. Cold approach only works if she's clearly into you. If she isn't it's like trying to cook with cold grease as one blackpill guy once said

 

[appeal_clone]

I’ve been thinking about jsut going on a dating app and finding a htb or above and fucking she to lose my virginity. I’m 6’5 and about a mtn-htn so I wouldn’t have that much trouble finding a good one. But is this a bad thing, like should I lose it to someone in a relationship with me or is this fine

Your future wife will love you more if you wait for her, just like you will love her more as she waits for you

 

[Andremln]

I lost it in a hookup with a really hot nympho, wouldn't recommend, on a sensorial level it feels amazing, psychologically i didn't feel shit, if you care about the experience as a whole with a girl that has a connection with you and desires you, then wait until you get in a relationship

 

[andy9432]

Its a good thing if being virgin bothers you.

 

[appeal_clone]

No I lost mine with a hookup at the club when I was 18. If you are that age you are already behind. You will miss out on the socialisation that it provides and gaining experience

You can socialize just fine w/o hooking up; it's not drinking that'll fuck ur social life