DownwardGrowthCel
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BACKSTORY(not that important feel free to DNR):
I have been seeing this girl for about 5 months. But not as a relationship thing. More like a friend thing. One of my closest friend has been friends with her for about 4 years. And that’s why we all stared seeing each other.
I got close to her about 3 weeks ago. We meet the first time alone the day we both went to church together. (We’re both Christian). But I didn’t think much of it because I still though we were just friends. But my parents went on a trip together which ment that my house was all empty. So I invited all of them to sleep there. We were about 4 people there. Me, 2 other guys and her. I said to her ”who’s wanna watch a movie?” (The clock was a bout 2am). Both of my friends said that they were tired. So thy slept in my couch. She was the only one who was willing to watch a movie with me. After this night we shared bed together every single night for about 12 days in a row. We didn’t do anything more then being close to each other. But that changed yesterday! We cuddled. And today we kissed for the first time. It usually does not take me this long to get a kiss from a girl. But I didn’t mind this time considering this girl was genuinely my perfect looksmatch and personality match.
WHY IM MAKING THIS THREAD:
the downsides of her:
Talking about her ex often (don’t blame her too much considering we’re not anything yet.
Has many many many guy friends
Doesn’t have blond hair
Has 1 bc that she got from her ex(I think I want a pure 0 bc girl. Because I have)
She do party sometimes and likes to make out with guys
Her friends always brings up the old guys she had made out with to make fun of her when I’m with them (a black guy once)
Her good sides:
Has a10 eyes
Are a Christian
We go church together
Is my personality match and my looksmatch
Wants a relationship
She was very good at cleaning and cooking (we were at my summer place with some other friends and she actually cleaned the whole house)
Very thoughtful and actually cares about me
Conclusion:
I really don’t know if this girl is a hoe or a nice girl.
I have been seeing this girl for about 5 months. But not as a relationship thing. More like a friend thing. One of my closest friend has been friends with her for about 4 years. And that’s why we all stared seeing each other.
I got close to her about 3 weeks ago. We meet the first time alone the day we both went to church together. (We’re both Christian). But I didn’t think much of it because I still though we were just friends. But my parents went on a trip together which ment that my house was all empty. So I invited all of them to sleep there. We were about 4 people there. Me, 2 other guys and her. I said to her ”who’s wanna watch a movie?” (The clock was a bout 2am). Both of my friends said that they were tired. So thy slept in my couch. She was the only one who was willing to watch a movie with me. After this night we shared bed together every single night for about 12 days in a row. We didn’t do anything more then being close to each other. But that changed yesterday! We cuddled. And today we kissed for the first time. It usually does not take me this long to get a kiss from a girl. But I didn’t mind this time considering this girl was genuinely my perfect looksmatch and personality match.
WHY IM MAKING THIS THREAD:
the downsides of her:
Talking about her ex often (don’t blame her too much considering we’re not anything yet.
Has many many many guy friends
Doesn’t have blond hair
Has 1 bc that she got from her ex(I think I want a pure 0 bc girl. Because I have)
She do party sometimes and likes to make out with guys
Her friends always brings up the old guys she had made out with to make fun of her when I’m with them (a black guy once)
Her good sides:
Has a10 eyes
Are a Christian
We go church together
Is my personality match and my looksmatch
Wants a relationship
She was very good at cleaning and cooking (we were at my summer place with some other friends and she actually cleaned the whole house)
Very thoughtful and actually cares about me
Conclusion:
I really don’t know if this girl is a hoe or a nice girl.
