Is our real problem low exposure to girls rather than low looks?

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If you’re barely ever to exposed to girls to meet irl what’s the chances of finding a girl to date? Maybe this our problem rather than looks
 
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If you’re barely ever to exposed to girls to meet irl what’s the chances of finding a girl to date? Maybe this our problem rather than looks
low exposure is 100% the problem, and the system has been designed to keep it that way nigga
 
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It iz what it iz
 
low exposure is 100% the problem, and the system has been designed to keep it that way nigga
But it just keep getting worse- I never meet a girl irl not for years.
 
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it's cope. i can call girls from my window and they're down to come at my house.
 
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But it just keep getting worse- I never meet a girl irl not for years.
It's because of technology, unironically if we never had the internet, we would be FORCED to go outside.

I have a friend who dropped out of sixth form and instead went to college, as a result he knows lots of girls and that's how I know a lot of girls. It's brutally over for most of us because girls don't actually go outside
 
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No exposure to girls cause they run from our asses jfl
 
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Yes Kind of most normies can get a gf and are not incel or virgins past 20. When you are a socially awkward aspie OLD is the only hope and for most normies without body halo, it's going to be a struggle to get your looksmatch
 
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i mean if you never interact or have contact with girls even if you're gl how are you meant to get any jfl. it's like sitting in your house all day and wondering why you get no girls. of course if you're ugly it won't help.
 
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you underestimate the aspie personality of most users
people like @Chadethnic101 and @DoctorLooksmax are normal people and I could seriously imagine seeing them irl and have a normal convo about shit. Low exposure is the issue
 
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i mean if you never interact or have contact with girls even if you're gl how are you meant to get any jfl. it's like sitting in your house all day and wondering why you get no girls. of course if you're ugly it won't help.
Me tbh.
 
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yea, for most of you
 
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never began for assbergers
 
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If you’re barely ever to exposed to girls to meet irl what’s the chances of finding a girl to date? Maybe this our problem rather than looks
Water just think of it… but its weird for u cuz ur nt im not flirty
 
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That is my issue and has been my whole life. Even when you get in proximity to a lot of girls its hard to adapt to it because you dont have much previous experience in seducing them.

Repetition is the mother of skill
 
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people like @Chadethnic101 and @DoctorLooksmax are normal people and I could seriously imagine seeing them irl and have a normal convo about shit. Low exposure is the issue
LMAO you can just go outside and boom you're exposed. make no mistakes though the standards are the same of OLD and you can't fraud irl.
 
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you underestimate the aspie personality of most users
Muh aspie stfu its cope. Nobody is rly aspie as much as me and its only a failo when dating from old some girls not all. Never prevented me to have back then friends, social circle and cute gfs. But those were kind organic ppl
 
Water just think of it… but its weird for u cuz ur nt im not flirty
I’m NT but I have a specific life circumstance that caused me to lose my social circle and be in another city where I know no one and this has led to me becoming giga PSL aspie
 
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I’m NT but I have a specific life circumstance that caused me to lose my social circle and be in another city where I know no one and this has led to me becoming giga PSL aspie
All i can tell you is to meet a hot out going girl out OLD and leech off her ngl
 
Muh aspie stfu its cope. Nobody is rly aspie as much as me and its only a failo when dating from old some girls not all. Never prevented me to have back then friends, social circle and cute gfs. But those were kind organic ppl
There’s plenty of girls out there irl who are slightly weird themselves who won’t care if you’re a little bit strange

It’s just hard to get exposure to these types because you won’t find them in bars or nightclubs much
 
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you'll know if your looks are the problem the moment you try to interact. If they give brief answers and don't care what you have to say, never ask you any questions (e.g what's your name, where you from etc) and you're the only one asking questions then you ugly son.
 
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jfl at leaving the basement before ur 6.5 psl
 
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Muh aspie stfu its cope. Nobody is rly aspie as much as me and its only a failo when dating from old some girls not all. Never prevented me to have back then friends, social circle and cute gfs. But those were kind organic ppl
not cope for me I'm an abomination
 
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I’m NT but I have a specific life circumstance that caused me to lose my social circle and be in another city where I know no one and this has led to me becoming giga PSL aspie
How many people here confuse anxiety for aspergers
 
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LMAO you can just go outside and boom you're exposed. make no mistakes though the standards are the same of OLD and you can't fraud irl.
If you go outisde, you need to do cold approach then. Most guys can't do that, secondly in my town I srsly barely see any girls my age outside. This isn't the 90s where girls hang out at the mall/shopping centre, most people are glued to their phones and sat at home. People go outside for a purpose, they go out to go to work, get food, etc. PUA is the only way, but even then PUA is difficult.

Then add onto the fact that I suspect most users here are probably hyper male brained and so very few women are going to be involved in our hobbies, it's a recipe for disaster
 
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you'll know if your looks are the problem the moment you try to interact. If they give brief answers and don't care what you have to say, never ask you any questions (e.g what's your name, where you from etc) and you're the only one asking questions then you ugly son.
looks have never been the problem
 
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How many people here confuse anxiety for aspergers
anxiety isn't too much of an issue but it often comes from being a social reject
 
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If you go outisde, you need to do cold approach then. Most guys can't do that, secondly in my town I srsly barely see any girls my age outside. This isn't the 90s where girls hang out at the mall/shopping centre, most people are glued to their phones and sat at home. People go outside for a purpose, they go out to go to work, get food, etc. PUA is the only way, but even then PUA is difficult.

Then add onto the fact that I suspect most users here are probably hyper male brained and so very few women are going to be involved in our hobbies, it's a recipe for disaster
If you’re cold approaching random girls during te day no shit the looks threshold is gonna be similar to online dating - but the rejections 10 times more brutal- having said that I’m tempted to try it because I feel like it might be character building. And I’m so certain where I stand looks wise that I don’t have such an ego to protect anymore and won’t be so attached the to the results
 
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If you go outisde, you need to do cold approach then. Most guys can't do that, secondly in my town I srsly barely see any girls my age outside. This isn't the 90s where girls hang out at the mall/shopping centre, most people are glued to their phones and sat at home. People go outside for a purpose, they go out to go to work, get food, etc. PUA is the only way, but even then PUA is difficult.

Then add onto the fact that I suspect most users here are probably hyper male brained and so very few women are going to be involved in our hobbies, it's a recipe for disaster
The demographics have dwindled younger peoples numbers, In countries with a low infant mortality rate, boys are born more than girls. This is also a major reason why you hardly see any girls even in populated areas.
 
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not cope for me I'm an abomination
Girls irl care way less bro. Everyone has a gf. You are not beneath normie lookswise. And i personnally find you cute
 
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If you go outisde, you need to do cold approach then. Most guys can't do that, secondly in my town I srsly barely see any girls my age outside. This isn't the 90s where girls hang out at the mall/shopping centre, most people are glued to their phones and sat at home. People go outside for a purpose, they go out to go to work, get food, etc. PUA is the only way, but even then PUA is difficult.

Then add onto the fact that I suspect most users here are probably hyper male brained and so very few women are going to be involved in our hobbies, it's a recipe for disaster
PUA this PUA that
just be gl, go near her, look at her body language, ask for number. you don't need much game just be a normal person. again if you've been abused your whole life it's impossible to be normal
 
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The demographics have dwindled younger peoples numbers, In countries with a low infant mortality rate, boys are born more than girls. This is also a major reason why you hardly see any girls even in populated areas.
you see girls but they don't see you
 
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If you’re cold approaching random girls during te day no shit the looks threshold is gonna be similar to online dating - but the rejections 10 times more brutal- having said that I’m tempted to try it because I feel like it might be character building. And I’m so certain where I stand looks wise that I don’t have such an ego to protect anymore and won’t be so attached the to the results
To do any PUA stuff during the morning you need to be indirect and secondly be competent in striking convos with random people. If you aren't competent, it doesn't matter how good you look, you won't be confident.
The demographics have dwindled younger peoples numbers, In countries with a low infant mortality rate, boys are born more than girls. This is also a major reason why you hardly see any girls even in populated areas.
Yup, I honestly barely see girls my age, they're mostly 25+ and grown ass adults outside. Brutal for zoomers tbh
PUA this PUA that
just be gl, go near her, look at her body language, ask for number. you don't need much game just be a normal person. again if you've been abused your whole life it's impossible to be normal
That's clearly not true though, girls don't give their numbers out to random men who approach them in the daytime, and secondly even if they did it's not certain she'll even meet you since you didn't make her invest at all.
 
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you see girls but they don't see you
Bro the amount of subhumans i see irl. I beg you not 99:100 of males, like out of 100 randoms, would be below 5 psl or 7/10.
And the average user is around that, or a bit below. Yet they have gfs and cute ones.
 
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im going on holiday soon. I will cold approach girls and if none seem interested/reciprocal I will say it's over for me and ldar.
 
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To do any PUA stuff during the morning you need to be indirect and secondly be competent in striking convos with random people. If you aren't competent, it doesn't matter how good you look, you won't be confident.

Yup, I honestly barely see girls my age, they're mostly 25+ and grown ass adults outside. Brutal for zoomers tbh

That's clearly not true though, girls don't give their numbers out to random men who approach them in the daytime, and secondly even if they did it's not certain she'll even meet you since you didn't make her invest at all.
bruh you just ain't gl.
 
If you go outisde, you need to do cold approach then. Most guys can't do that, secondly in my town I srsly barely see any girls my age outside. This isn't the 90s where girls hang out at the mall/shopping centre, most people are glued to their phones and sat at home. People go outside for a purpose, they go out to go to work, get food, etc. PUA is the only way, but even then PUA is difficult.

Then add onto the fact that I suspect most users here are probably hyper male brained and so very few women are going to be involved in our hobbies, it's a recipe for disaster
Dude I actualy think the problem in society we have isn’t even degeneracy or girls being sluts it’s the fuckint phones

Like eve when people are out they’re on their phones and have closed body language. I was in a club on Friday and only 4 couples out of 100 we’re making out. It wouldn’t surprise me if girls were more slutty in the 00s and 90s but life was still way better for average men
 
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Bro the amount of subhumans i see irl. I beg you not 99:100 of males, like out of 100 randoms, would be below 5 psl or 7/10.
And the average user is around that, or a bit below. Yet they have gfs and cute ones.
it is indeed easy as fuck to mog ppl irl. if one can't do that, it's over, he has to resort to betabuxx game through job circle and stuff.
 
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Dude I actualy think the problem in society we have isn’t even degeneracy or girls being sluts it’s the fuckint phones

Like eve when people are out they’re on their phones and have closed body language. I was in a club on Friday and only 4 couples out of 100 we’re making out. It wouldn’t surprise me if girls were more slutty in the 00s and 90s but life was still way better for average men
Yeah unironically technological isolation is the main issue of our generation, most girls don't even have lives.
then why you want to generalize like that
for 5'11"+ HTN it's no surprise getting girls from a night out.
that's a night out dude, I'm talking about daygame. Not night game.
 
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Yeah unironically technological isolation is the main issue of our generation, most girls don't even have lives.

that's a night out dude, I'm talking about daygame. Not night game.
"daygame" it's the same. girls look at the males they deem fuckable and talk about them, you go near them and make them wet. only works if tall and gl.
 
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then why you want to generalize like that
for 5'11"+ HTN it's no surprise getting girls from a night out.
I never went to a club ngl. I find the concept so repulsive. But once i went to the richest club looking at the waiting queue.
More than 300 people waiting. Not a single chadlite.
 
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"daygame" it's the same. girls look at the males they deem fuckable and talk about them, you go near them and make them wet. only works if tall and gl.
I seriously don't think it's the same, the way a woman behaves drunk vs sober is different, it's less socially acceptable to approach girls during the day vs night
 
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