Is Proxmity a sign of Attraction?

[boxing-cel]

If a girl intentionally positions herself next to you, and is trailing like 2-3 feet behind you a fair bit, is that a sign she’s into you?

I’ve heard women are hyper conscious of space and the like and will always choose where they stand in relation to a guy very carefully.

 

[LooksOrDeath]

yes

 

[boxing-cel]

yes

What if she avoids eye contact sometimes but at other times makes it

 

[LooksOrDeath]

What if she avoids eye contact sometimes but at other times makes it

could be shy
or it means nothing

 

[xXXxZeusxXXx]

If a girl intentionally positions herself next to you, and is trailing like 2-3 feet behind you a fair bit, is that a sign she’s into you?

I’ve heard women are hyper conscious of space and the like and will always choose where they stand in relation to a guy very carefully.

yes

but try to play your cards right

 

[hitthebong]

I just learned this can also mean nothing. Crazy world we live in. Had the same thing happen to me only to realize she has a boyfriend ( and stays with him.)

 

[evilfoidslayer]

If a girl intentionally positions herself next to you, and is trailing like 2-3 feet behind you a fair bit, is that a sign she’s into you?

I’ve heard women are hyper conscious of space and the like and will always choose where they stand in relation to a guy very carefully.

For sure into u

 

[xXXxZeusxXXx]

I just learned this can also mean nothing. Crazy world we live in. Had the same thing happen to me only to realize she has a boyfriend ( and stays with him.)

real

 

[lawenstn]

does this happen frequently with her?

but yes

I would try to get into a short conversation with her, who knows how long she keeps up with trying to be seen by you

 

[boxing-cel]

could be shy
or it means nothing

It’s weird. She was cold to me a while back when I wasn’t looksmaxxed at all. Now I’m like probably 2 points higher and she was following me out of class, and like moved past two people behind me so I had to keep the door open for her, looked up to me and said “thank you” and smiled a lil

 

[boxing-cel]

It’s weird. She was cold to me a while back when I wasn’t looksmaxxed at all. Now I’m like probably 2 points higher and she was following me out of class, and like moved past two people behind me so I had to keep the door open for her, looked up to me and said “thank you” and smiled a lil

@lawenstn

 

[lawenstn]

It’s weird. She was cold to me a while back when I wasn’t looksmaxxed at all. Now I’m like probably 2 points higher and she was following me out of class, and like moved past two people behind me so I had to keep the door open for her, looked up to me and said “thank you” and smiled a lil

if your looks changed her behaviour can too

and tbh that was a good chance you have missed to start a conversation, the topic can be subtle but it will help you understand what she wants by the energy she gives

and if your actually 6.4 and mtn she must find you atleast somewhat decent, so just go for it

 

[LooksOrDeath]

It’s weird. She was cold to me a while back when I wasn’t looksmaxxed at all. Now I’m like probably 2 points higher and she was following me out of class, and like moved past two people behind me so I had to keep the door open for her, looked up to me and said “thank you” and smiled a lil

she likes you

up to you what you want to do

 

[boxing-cel]

if your looks changed her behaviour can too

and tbh that was a good chance you have missed to start a conversation, the topic can be subtle but it will help you understand what she wants by the energy she gives

and if your actually 6.4 and mtn she must find you atleast somewhat decent, so just go for it

Yeah, just afraid to try again. Sat next to her back in Sept lol, and talked to her, she seemed a bit cold. Not mean, just curt. Got her insta, followed her but she didn’t accept. Tbf I didn’t tell her my name properly and my pfp was blank and account dogshit so I get it. But like, if I tried to talk to her again it might be awkward LMAO and she could just be cold again. We do make eye contact a fair bit when we pass by each other and are definitely aware of each other. She’s an MTB and like 5’4 or smth but my type for sure. Atp though I SMV mog her hard IMO, she really doesn’t stand out looks wise but I feel a super strong pull for some reason.

 

[boxing-cel]

she likes you

up to you what you want to do

What if it’s just a coincidence lol

I was sitting behind her too, but she was off to the side, so we were close in class, lol. But I was definitely a fair bit ahead of her. Idk. It’s so confusing.

 

[lawenstn]

Yeah, just afraid to try again. Sat next to her back in Sept lol, and talked to her, she seemed a bit cold. Not mean, just curt. Got her insta, followed her but she didn’t accept. Tbf I didn’t tell her my name properly and my pfp was blank and account dogshit so I get it. But like, if I tried to talk to her again it might be awkward LMAO and she could just be cold again. We do make eye contact a fair bit when we pass by each other and are definitely aware of each other. She’s an MTB and like 5’4 or smth but my type for sure. Atp though I SMV mog her hard IMO, she really doesn’t stand out looks wise but I feel a super strong pull for some reason.

yeah i get that, but even if it might be akward whats there to lose? you dont gotta go all in first conversation lol, take it slow but your the man so if you dont make the first move nothing will happen (most likely) and again once you actually interact with her youll notice if its worth to pursue

 

[LooksOrDeath]

What if it’s just a coincidence lol

I was sitting behind her too, but she was off to the side, so we were close in class, lol. But I was definitely a fair bit ahead of her. Idk. It’s so confusing.

dont doubt yourself so much

 

[boxing-cel]

yeah i get that, but even if it might be akward whats there to lose? you dont gotta go all in first conversation lol, take it slow but your the man so if you dont make the first move nothing will happen (most likely) and again once you actually interact with her youll notice if its worth to pursue

I guess, just an ego issue I guess…idk

 

[boxing-cel]

dont doubt yourself so much

Don’t wanna operate off of false assumptions

 

[LooksOrDeath]

I guess, just an ego issue I guess…idk

Don’t wanna operate off of false assumptions

Most girls don't ask you out directly even if they like you a lot

they drop hints expecting you to make the first move

 

[boxing-cel]

Most girls don't ask you out directly even if they like you a lot

they drop hints expecting you to make the first move

I mean I guess. I got a girls number a while back and she then messaged me for my Insta and kept asking me out lol. So I lowkey just wanna be chased like that.

 

[LooksOrDeath]

I mean I guess. I got a girls number a while back and she then messaged me for my Insta and kept asking me out lol. So I lowkey just wanna be chased like that.

trust me it happens anyway

they just dont ask you out directly

 

[boxing-cel]

trust me it happens anyway

they just dont ask you out directly

Okay. So let’s say I see her next time. What do I do?

 

[LooksOrDeath]

Okay. So let’s say I see her next time. What do I do?

You like her right
talk her up and ask for her number or insta

theres also the chance she asks for yours after a while