Is therapy worth it (mentalcels gtfih )

[SouthAfricancel]

I've always had destructive personality since I was young violent, always angry and depressed I have even done some flesh wound cuts on myself when I was 12

At the moment it's the worst as it has ever been I'm considering going to therapy

So I'm wondering does therapy help or I gotta thug it out

 

[Jason Voorhees]

Therapy imo doesn’t work for men because it focuses more on talking than solving. Most men need structure, direction and most importantly results. not just emotional validation that women get. It is like paid venting rather than real progress more of a temporary cope than a proper fix. ironically for me joining the army, getting yelled at daily with people barking orders at me, building discipline and taking responsibilities helped me more than therapy @imontheloose

 

[imontheloose]

No. Therapy is rubbish. I remember a day before my 15th birthday going to a £100/hr therapist for them pre-session questionnaires and for the next 5-6 months or so, I just got the most useless talkings tos.

Therapy is only useful if you want to live and are willing to accept some 100mg cope.

 

[imontheloose]

Therapy imo doesn’t work for men because it focuses more on talking than solving. Most men need structure, direction and most importantly results. not just emotional validation that women get. It is like paid venting rather than real progress more of a temporary cope than a proper fix. ironically for me joining the army, getting yelled at daily with people barking orders at me helped me in building discipline and taking responsibilities helped me more than therapy @imontheloose

No. Therapy is rubbish. I remember a day before my 15th birthday going to a £100/hr therapist for them pre-session questionnaires and for the next 5-6 months or so, I just got the most useless talkings tos.

Therapy is only useful if you want to live and are willing to accept some 100mg cope.

Thought this was ur thread

 

[Eskorbutin]

Only therapist that helped me was an argentinian psychoanalyst, white world western psychologists are close to gpt tier.

 

[Jason Voorhees]

No. Therapy is rubbish. I remember a day before my 15th birthday going to a £100/hr therapist for them pre-session questionnaires and for the next 5-6 months or so, I just got the most useless talkings tos.

Therapy is only useful if you want to live and are willing to accept some 100mg cope.

£100 an hour. Wtf. You should have become a psychologist nigga. Muh engineering lol

 

[cjc]

If your parents would pay for it, there’s no harm in trying

 

[imontheloose]

£100 an hour. Wtf. You should have become a psychologist nigga. Muh engineering lol

She was a family friend’s daughter too. We often had conversations about these things and she told me the process to owning your own private clinic/business was gruelling. You need to have a PhD for starters or you’ll be serving burgers, then you have to spend some years volunteering at prisons or whatever, then you can go to NHS, then hopefully soon after start private.

She was mid-30s with a daughter during our sessions together.

 

[Jason Voorhees]

Thought this was ur thread

Been there and done that

 

[Acquiescence]

For things like general depression or anxiety it’s prob giga cope

If you’re legitimately neurologically fucked like me though it can def help you find coping mechanisms and muh mental strategies to approximate some level of day to day NT functioning

 

[valentine]

lol no its trash noone cares about your problems

 

[SouthAfricancel]

in building discipline and taking responsibilities helped me more than therapy

I don't really struggle with this I'm very disciplined

If your parents would pay for it, there’s no harm in trying

It will be free

 

[ybuyhgui]

volunteering at prisons

Therapy sounds like a dodgy career in that case. Always the risk of Jamal shooting you mid-session if you bring up his past trauma.

 

[imontheloose]

Therapy sounds dodgy in that case. Always the risk of Jamal shooting you mid-session if you bring up his past trauma.

I believe you do more data collecting and so forth than constant therapy or psychoanalysis lol. Some sessions are indeed given but the screws know to not put Tyreek the baby mauler in there with a fresh post-grad.

 

[unknownfatcel]

Gotta thug it out bro, dont ever rope though. It gets better.

 

[SouthAfricancel]

dont ever rope

Don't have the guts to rope I'm too chicken to do it

 

[unknownfatcel]

Don't have the guts to rope I'm too chicken to do it

Thats good then, dont do it. Never worth it. It DOES get better. Gotta thug ts out