Is there any bluepilled guy that intend on getting married in here?

[Deleted member 4430]

And the leonardo award for the edgiest teen wins.....

 

[FreakkForLife]

i dont think im the smartest at all
just incredibly lucky to find out how things work, which does ofc rely on some intelligence
your billionaire and politician argument is retarded, do you seriously think those guys married the right women?
no amount of money or status can save you if youve married a whore dude, its not hard to grasp

"just find the right one bro" until she is right no more.

In this age all women are whores,they just put on a faccade of trad-ness to trap gullible people like u then they show their true colours,it's only in the beginning,it's gonna be 10x more in the future years,good luck spending the rest of your life in the deserts of yemen or in the slums of mumbai for "the right one"

 

[Deleted member 13787]

Pros of not marrying:

You keep all your freedom and don't have to compromise with another individual about life choices.

You keep all your money and continue to build wealth for retirement / future generations.

You can still have kids through surrogacy, and no risk of those kids being stolen from you in divorce.

You can switch to older women as you age or just escortmaxx.

Can wake up, do whatever the fuck you want, every single day till you die.

i can still have freedom while married
i can still keep enough money for myself because i will have a high paying job
sure you can have kids, but theyre gonna grow up without a mother which is retarded, plus i'd prefer my wife to take care of them most of the time
i think i will still be able to do what i want in marriage
the single CON that i admit is a downside to marriage is the fact that your wife will end up being old and you wont be all that attracted to her compared to young women
but as long as she ages well, its not that bad, at some point i wont even care about sex anymore

Pros of marrying:

Social status halo. Since people love to mock ugly poor unmarried men but absolutely despise in shape unmarried successful men.

Easier to get time off work/promotions

there are other pros like having a co pilot in life, building a better environment for your kids, having someone you can have sex with comfortably at any time, all the affection you can give each other
In the end i think the pros outweight the con (s? i think theres only one for me)

 

[Deleted member 13787]

"just find the right one bro" until she is right no more.

In this age all women are whores,they just put on a faccade of trad-ness to trap gullible people like u then they show their true colours,it's only in the beginning,it's gonna be 10x more in the future years,good luck spending the rest of your life in the deserts of yemen or in the slums of mumbai for "the right one"

like i said, i dont rely on luck to find the right one
if i chose a woman with certain characteristics her chances of divorcing me are factually almost non existatant

 

[ItsOVERBuddyBoyos]

by choose the right woman i mean a young virgin who doesnt plan on working in a field with high divorce rates and is genuinely attracted to you
by that point the chance of divorce is virtually zero, this is completely supported by statistics
and i dont think the statistics are fake or anything so in the end there really is no counter argument to this
im waiting for mgtow copers to actually disprove this, but i doubt it will happen
i expect ad hominems and nothing more

Ok bro.

First off, if you're looking for a white women this is an absolute fantasy.

The only exceptions could be found in very religious communities but even then she will be living in a society that encourages her to act like a modern woman. Just because you find a girl with trad values at 20 after being raised in her parents strict household, at 40 she will have grown as a person and that growth is very likely to be to change her values to align more with the average modern western woman.

is genuinely attracted to you

Romantic love is a myth.
A woman loves her kids she will never have unconditional love for you.



i don't know your age but if you've never been in multiple long term relationships you shouldn't even be thinking of marriage since you don't understand the cons of losing your freedom and having to take another person into account when making your decisions.


I'm older than most posters and can easily get a hot, virgin traditional wife that would never divorce since our culture heavily stigmatises it.
But i would have to financially provide for her and the kids and work extra hours for the next couple of decades just to pay for the big house in the suburbs/ holidays / tutoring for kids.
i would have to come home everyday and have her in my space and demanding an equal say in decision making. I would have to make appearances at all the social events she wants to go to.

Why? for pussy?


Girls will only be genuinely attracted to you, if your are good looking and have money.

The thing is if you already have these things you don't need the woman. You already have everything you need.

You can string women along while they try to get commitment out of you and you get the best from her. In this period you get the est sex, the most fun version of her while she tries to lock you down. And then once she becomes even a small inconvenience you just drop her and rinse & repeat.

If you actually wife up the girl you lose all your leverage and you are betting your whole life on how she feels.

HOW SHE FEELS

I don't care how perfect you think she is, this is a decision made by your dick not your brain.


You can get everything you want without giving her a ring.
its only for guys who are :

1 - Ugly
2 - Stupid
3 - Starved for affection

 

[Deleted member 18814]

When will they fucking learn....

its like I said, no one can be bluepilled forever hahahahha

but this one will only learn when it is too late

 

[Deleted member 18814]

Marriage is bullshit.
The greatest gift feminism gave us is that we don't have to wife up these hoes anymore.

Since i'm Muslim, I can even get a traditional religious virgin bride if i wanted to and i still wouldn't go through with it.
( RIP to all mayocels hoping for a tradwife JFL )


Marriage has far too many cons to be considered by anyone that isnt:

1 - Ugly
2 - Stupid
3 - Starved for affection



Pros of not marrying:

You keep all your freedom and don't have to compromise with another individual about life choices.

You keep all your money and continue to build wealth for retirement / future generations.

You can still have kids through surrogacy, and no risk of those kids being stolen from you in divorce.

You can switch to older women as you age or just escortmaxx.

Can wake up, do whatever the fuck you want, every single day till you die.


Pros of marrying:

Social status halo. Since people love to mock ugly poor unmarried men but absolutely despise in shape unmarried successful men.

Easier to get time off work/promotions

even the pro of "easier to get time off work/promotion" is useless since unmarried man will spend at least 4x less with makes them 4x richer in relative terms hahaha

 

[ItsOVERBuddyBoyos]

its like I said, no one can be bluepilled forever hahahahha

but this one will only learn when it is too late

He's probably never even dated a girl for 2+ years and on here talking like he some authority on picking a good woman.

 

[ItsOVERBuddyBoyos]

even the pro of "easier to get time off work/promotion" is useless since unmarried man will spend at least 4x less with makes them 4x richer in relative terms hahaha

based.
"Its not the money you make, its how much money you keep"
Is a good mantra to remember.

Also i'm paki so i can just lie and say i'm married no one will ever fucking question it at work anyway.

 

[Deleted member 18814]

i can still have freedom while married
i can still keep enough money for myself because i will have a high paying job
sure you can have kids, but theyre gonna grow up without a mother which is retarded, plus i'd prefer my wife to take care of them most of the time
i think i will still be able to do what i want in marriage
the single CON that i admit is a downside to marriage is the fact that your wife will end up being old and you wont be all that attracted to her compared to young women
but as long as she ages well, its not that bad, at some point i wont even care about sex anymore

there are other pros like having a co pilot in life, building a better environment for your kids, having someone you can have sex with comfortably at any time, all the affection you can give each other
In the end i think the pros outweight the con (s? i think theres only one for me)

you're 15 aren't you?? I can't believe what I am reading here

 

[Deleted member 18814]

He's probably never even dated a girl for 2+ years and on here talking like he some authority on picking a good woman.

Yeah, I dated a 17yo trad virgin for 3 years it was hell on earth hahahahha never again

there is aboslutely not a single unicorn in this world we call them unicorns for a reason

 

[FreakkForLife]

Yeah, I dated a 17yo trad virgin for 3 years it was hell on earth hahahahha never again

there is aboslutely not a single unicorn in this world we call them unicorns for a reason

Its Incel cope and /polcel/ fantasy that a virgin trad girl is waiting for them.
They watch too much anime so it fries their brains.

LTRs and marriage are only good in the beginning when she is trying to lock u up and she is showing her best Version as @ItsOVERBuddyBoyos said.

As soon as relationships age u will feel the cuckening,u will feel the nagging,u will feel the pain.
U will spend 100k on the marriage ceremony just to kiss the mouth of a freak bitch who probably performed rimjobs on 30 men a week before,while the priest and church earn buxxes from ur naivety.
Some men even get cucked by the male strippers on the day before in the bachelor party and they don't even know.


People like @cloUder And other marriage copers thnk they are oversmart and different from other men until they experience the same problem,then their marriage ends and they end up miserably in a mens's shelter while paying child support and HubbyBuxxes to keep their wife happy or else the government would jail them.

Seen so many of these cases,it's sad sometimes,its always the macho wannabes who think marriage would increase their masculinity.

Another cope i hear is "u are making sure u live on forever by passing on ur genes" ,this is the biggest cope i have heard,with the upcoming times in this age ,u can gaurantee ur grandchildren or their children wont reproduce or marry.
Even if u pass on ur genes,u won't be even remembered,u will just be another retard ancestor to your great grandchildren.

 

[FreakkForLife]

Yeah, I dated a 17yo trad virgin for 3 years it was hell on earth hahahahha never again

there is aboslutely not a single unicorn in this world we call them unicorns for a reason

The grass is always greener on the other side for incels.

They think they would get happy with this,no,u would get more happy by fixing ur life.

 

[Deleted member 18814]

The grass is always greener on the other side for incels.

They think they would get happy with this,no,u would get more happy by fixing ur life.

holy fucking mother of based !

well said brother !

 

[AlexAP]

Don’t you want to have children and continue your genetic line that your ancestors worked so hard to maintain? I just wouldn’t feel satisfied leaving this earth knowing I failed to do the one thing I was put there to do: have kids. That’s literally the entire point of an organisms existence. Imagine failing to reproduce.

Continuing your genetic lineage is cope. You will not experience it after you die, so if you had kids or not, after you're dead it doesn't matter. Having kids is solely about COMPANIONSHIP at old age. If you have kids, you could have people who you have a very deep emotional connection with and who will visit you, send you texts/messages, pics, and whose achievements could make you proud when you're getting older and older.

But if you have good companionship at old age (many close friends, LTR partner, maybe nephews) it could replace the joy of having kids and you won't feel like you missed out. And don't forget that you could have a shitty relationship with your kids. In that case it could make you feel very alone and like you wasted all your life (time and money) for nothing. The important thing is good companionship, not necessary kids.

 

[AlexAP]

and i explained to you how wanting to marry and have kids goes against the mainstream agenda

"Marrying goes against the mainstream agenda"

If you marry, you get tax benefits, you get better work opportunities, you get social status. Politicians want to encourage marriage all the time, with more financial benefits, better childcare, etc., and everyone will always say how great parents are and "kids are our future", Normies wil think you're weird if you're not married with 35.
Literally nothing is more Normie, more mainstream, more NPC than getting married.

I'm not against marriage, but don't cope with calling it a "against the mainstream agenda". Marriage is ultra-mainstream.

 

[RichmondBread]

I do plan on getting married. It may not be until I'm too old to make children. I am already in my early 40s. I just figure though that it's never too late unless you give up. Black pill mentality is cope, IMO.