Is there even a point in approaching a girl who doesn’t give clear IOIs?

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Basically there is this one girl in my Uni course who I find attractive but we never talked till now and I also never saw her checking me out or anything.
So is there even a point in trying anything? And if yes how would you do it? I mean the thought of just approaching her completely random sounds weird to me.

She is btw a stacylite so I guess there is no Hope anyways.
But she has a low Follower count on Instagram so maybe going the route over Instagram might be the right way?

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be confindent, hold frame and use game
 
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imo, no because you could face rejection


from what i've heard... girls will make it obvious or straight up tell you if your attractive to them


but only chad experiences this
 
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Yes, talk online first though.
 
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Start slow and in the length you will start to understand how she feels
 
i’d approach her in person before texting at all man it shows that you’re interested and more respectful

approach her have a chat doesn’t have to be for a long time but a few minutes then ask for her Snapchat or number, keep it private wait for a while see if she snaps you first and if a day goes by then you snap/text her first.
 
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Idk don’t have her snap added for now.
But she doesn’t have an avatar so I guess she just doesn’t use social media that much
When a girl doesn’t have an avatar I automatically think it’s a bot account.
 
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When a girl doesn’t have an avatar I automatically think it’s a bot account.
Same haha.
But it’s her real account for 100% sure because it has the same username as her insta
 
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if u have friends in common ask them to ask her if she's interested in dating
 
but only chad experiences this
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are you chad?

I thought not
no but i have still got IOI's even flustered ones when they try to look and pretend they arn't but still look and go back and turn again
@Ethereal has gotten these too
you just need unique looks, be high teir normie or have good pheno to get IOI's
But the crazy ones like girls doing anything to get near you, and purposely bumping into you
and asking to borrow useless shit just so they can talk to you, and visibly exposing themselves the more they talk to you
that's chad territory
 
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no but i have still got IOI's even flustered ones when they try to look and pretend they arn't but still look and go back and turn again
@Ethereal has gotten these too
you just need unique looks, be high teir normie or have good pheno to get IOI's
But the crazy ones like girls doing anything to get near you, and purposely bumping into you
and asking to borrow useless shit just so they can talk to you, and visibly exposing themselves the more they talk to you
that's chad territory
imo the guy should always carry the conversation and talk with a enthusiastic voice tone, Chad or not Chad

i always smile and add in a laugh if i walk out of a convo without having both smiled and laughed it’s a failed conversation in my books
 
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What would you describe yourself looks and status wise?
Without clear ioi's I would just try to get acquainted with her casually without giving off any creep or thirst vibes, and hopefully
be able to tell if she's interested.
But I agree with the top commenter, a girl makes it known she's into you; if she's shy, her friends will try to talk to you for her, etc.
 
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What would you describe yourself looks and status wise?
-6‘3 manlet in Germany
-Skinny and wristcel
-I guess around normie/average face and nordic pheno
-zero status or just not more than the average guy
-but relative good clothing style
But I agree with the top commenter, a girl makes it known she's into you; if she's shy, her friends will try to talk to you for her, etc.
true probably.
We have also a lot of online Uni so I didn’t have that much situations where she could have given me IOIs. But I will see what comes in the future
 
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-6‘3 manlet in Germany
-Skinny and wristcel
-I guess around normie/average face and nordic pheno
-zero status or just not more than the average guy
-but relative good clothing style

true probably.
We have also a lot of online Uni so I didn’t have that much situations where she could have given me IOIs. But I will see what comes in the future
6'3 is still decent for Germany, wear one or 2 inch soles jfl. I'm 6'1 in Canada and still do jfl.
With an average face and nordic, you could looksmax hard if you did tren or sarms. Gymcelling as natty wristcel is useless.

I think you have the base to pull bro good luck.
 
If you do well on tinder then try it if you dont she will most likely reject you
 
Basically there is this one girl in my Uni course who I find attractive but we never talked till now and I also never saw her checking me out or anything.
So is there even a point in trying anything? And if yes how would you do it? I mean the thought of just approaching her completely random sounds weird to me.

She is btw a stacylite so I guess there is no Hope anyways.
But she has a low Follower count on Instagram so maybe going the route over Instagram might be the right way?

@cloUder @WontStopNorwooding @triggered @ForeverRecession @AscendingHero @Romeo1111 @uglymug @LastHopeForNorman @larsanova69 @ArvidGustavsson @n0rthface @faggotchadlite
kidnap her (in minecraft)
stockholm syndrome is pretty good this time of the year
 
Yes, there is but it's basically a numbers game, on some girls you can simply push yourself on them, if you are strong and dominant enough and they are simply too weak and insecure to say no...
 
no but i have still got IOI's even flustered ones when they try to look and pretend they arn't but still look and go back and turn again
@Ethereal has gotten these too
you just need unique looks, be high teir normie or have good pheno to get IOI's
But the crazy ones like girls doing anything to get near you, and purposely bumping into you
and asking to borrow useless shit just so they can talk to you, and visibly exposing themselves the more they talk to you
that's chad territory
Girls bumping into you is definitely not something that only happens to chads. That's like one of their main flirting tactics.


Pretty much all this stuff can happen to you if the foid is attracted to you.
 
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