Is this a Madonna Whore Complex? All slayers GTFIH

[Amnesia]

basically I can have really good sex with random women and FWBs that strictly is FWB relationship. She will only come over in the evening and it's 100% for sex. Great sex call her dirty whore slap her spit her, degrade her in every way and it's great for both

However every time I start to "date" any of these women where we then do "normal" couple activities like go out for dinner, go to the mall, gym together, meet her parents for dinner, walk in the park. Basically I can't have that dirty super rough degrading sex after spending all day being sweet and doing bf/gf stuff. Is this normal.

Like spending an afternoon SMELLING FUCKING SCENTED CANDLES and exchanging "yea babe that one smells really good, definteily get that for ur room" and telling her how adorable she looks wearing her poof ball beanie to then going back to my place and railing her deep while holding her hands behind her back and telling her she's a worthless whore that I only fuck for her 3 holes. Like that just doesn't feel right to say anymore after the day's activities.



TLDR its hard to have ideal rough bad boy sex after starting to date and doing cutesy activities, I can't see her the same way



slayers who also have gf's plz respond

@forevergymcelling
@cvzvvc

 

[Deleted member 23558]

I personally just rape and eat them. I have a collection of Dravidian skulls in my freezer they all morph into @Birdcell avi at some point or another

 

[BearBoy]

Dnrd

 

[Gengar]

I'm the opposite of a slayer, still got here.

 

[Chadeep]

Did you get any girl you slayed pregnant Accidentally?

 

[Tylermax]

Can't believe amnesia is still around here. I thought this place was left with indians

 

[Deleted member 23399]

You have to be as confident as the Indians in my Stacyfish's Dms

 

[sasha777]

Yes it's common, I think because before you date them, they don't hold as much value anymore i.e. used for purely pleasure. Once you start dating them, their value changes and then it's more than just used to smash. This is IMO tho, I've been dating gf for 4 years now, and when we first started it much more degrading then than now

 

[khvirgin]

I understand this even if I'm not a slayer but I had a gf who wanted rough sex
It's not a big deal if you can enjoy sex even without calling her a dirty slut no?
Passionate sex is even better in my opinion

 

[Corleone]

basically I can have really good sex with random women and FWBs that strictly is FWB relationship. She will only come over in the evening and it's 100% for sex. Great sex call her dirty whore slap her spit her, degrade her in every way and it's great for both

However every time I start to "date" any of these women where we then do "normal" couple activities like go out for dinner, go to the mall, gym together, meet her parents for dinner, walk in the park. Basically I can't have that dirty super rough degrading sex after spending all day being sweet and doing bf/gf stuff. Is this normal.

Like spending an afternoon SMELLING FUCKING SCENTED CANDLES and exchanging "yea babe that one smells really good, definteily get that for ur room" and telling her how adorable she looks wearing her poof ball beanie to then going back to my place and railing her deep while holding her hands behind her back and telling her she's a worthless whore that I only fuck for her 3 holes. Like that just doesn't feel right to say anymore after the day's activities.



TLDR its hard to have ideal rough bad boy sex after starting to date and doing cutesy activities, I can't see her the same way



slayers who also have gf's plz respond

@forevergymcelling
@cvzvvc

Yup, that‘s the way it goes. LTR and i guess also marriage kill good sex.

I barely get hard for my GF anymore, while I can fuck a much worse looking new side chick, that I only use as a low maintenance degen-sex coomdevice, 3-4times in a row.

E.g. I have this anal-queen in my rotation that surely thinks I‘m gay by now because I only ever fuck her ass when meeting up. When in reality I only do this because I‘d never bring up anal with my GF

Same goes for other degen-sex with other side-chicks. Makes you wonder why you even start a LTR in the first place.

 

[hypernormie]

True slayers aren’t monogamous on principle

 

[ChickenAndRiceBrah]

kinda happened with my ex but more that she was also less keen to do that stuff jfl probably because she had secured me and there's less of a spark or dopamine rush when it's with an LTR partner vs someone you're only hooking up with

 

[Prettyboy]

I always catch Madonna complex too if I get to know a girl better. It happened with multiple girlfriends that with time they became kinkier than me, asked for dirtier things in bed than what I would have prefer to do to them

Idk it always was just a hard pill to swallow for me that women are all the same, some clubslut I taken back home on a friday night and my highschool sweetheart LTR both had similarly dirty minds

I instinctly want to respect my girlfriend that I’m serious with (because I have alreaddy chosen her based on her pureness / coiness), but it’s impossible when they ask for the most freaky shit in the bedroom

I really like sensual stuff with girls I know but they tend to interrupt in the middle of it and instead ask for getting fucked roughly

Brutal how we’be been told all our lives women are the more refined gender, while men are much more romantic in bed, girls just want to get dicked down as hard and fast as possible

 

[Amnesia]

I always catch Madonna complex too if I get to know a girl better. It happened with multiple girlfriends that with time they became kinkier than me, asked for dirtier things in bed than what I would have prefer to do to them

Idk it always was just a hard pill to swallow for me that women are all the same, some clubslut I taken back home on a friday night and my highschool sweetheart LTR both had similarly dirty minds

I instinctly want to respect my girlfriend that I’m serious with (because I have alreaddy chosen her based on her pureness / coiness), but it’s impossible when they ask for the most freaky shit in the bedroom

I really like sensual stuff with girls I know but they tend to interrupt in the middle of it and instead ask for getting fucked roughly

Brutal how we’be been told all our lives women are the more refined gender, while men are much more romantic in bed, girls just want to get dicked down as hard and fast as possible

Good post, I can agree with it all.

Like I do also like the sweet stuff like cuddling and when she looks up to me with adoration and being a bit protective around her. Like you said I have picked a girl worthy of being my GF BECAUSE she isn't an overt whore, and then I like doing the sweet stuff with her but at the end of the day she still wants the same degrading sex I give my FWBs that I would never ever dare date

Brutal stuff

 

[Foreverbrad]

Agree 200%

I think the ideal is a one sided open relationship with a girl with non existent or asexual sex drive. You have your cute gf for cute stuff and you have your side hoes to abuse.

 

[Deleted member 16501]

He asks for slayers, 2 Indians show up as first 2 comments

 

[Prettyboy]

Good post, I can agree with it all.

Like I do also like the sweet stuff like cuddling and when she looks up to me with adoration and being a bit protective around her. Like you said I have picked a girl worthy of being my GF BECAUSE she isn't an overt whore, and then I like doing the sweet stuff with her but at the end of the day she still wants the same degrading sex I give my FWBs that I would never ever dare date

Brutal stuff

The most brutal thing is when you are licking her pussy + stimulating her clits with your fingers in a sensual way (which girls are supposed to LOVE based on what everyone tells you) but midway in almost a bored fashion she rushes you to instead fuck her roughly doggystyle and slap her ass

Also I just can’t with dirty talking

When an LTR asks to be verbally degraded in bed it’s super cringe
Like why would I call the girl I’m exclusive with a worthless piece of cumslut, the one I see more valuable than any othe girl?

I had a few tries at BDSM (all of it with girls than were way kinkier than me) but cringed out all the time, the whole thing felt fake, like if I was just playing a role to jester to her

It would only turn me on if it wasn’t just a play, but then there would be no mercy for her

 

[cvzvvc]

It happens. It sounds like these girls are pushing for more than FWB and you're yielding to them. Every FWB I've ever had tried to change the terms of our arrangement beyond the bedroom and this is always the end result; typical strategy to try and lock you down. Once they do there's a pretty huge chance they'll get bored of you and discard you

 

[Deleted member 22354]

I barely get hard for my GF anymore, while I can fuck a much worse looking new side chick, that I only use as a low maintenance degen-sex coomdevice, 3-4times in a row.

Thats called Coolidge effect btw.

I am quite apathetic (probably genetic), so it makes me lack emotional connection with every woman I have fucked, so in my case nothing changes (ofc coolidge effect also applies to me, so i have to change fwb after a while).

Like I do also like the sweet stuff like cuddling and when she looks up to me with adoration and being a bit protective around her. Like you said I have picked a girl worthy of being my GF BECAUSE she isn't an overt whore, and then I like doing the sweet stuff with her but at the end of the day she still wants the same degrading sex I give my FWBs that I would never ever dare date

We live in civilized times, while still being primitive at the core. Our brain, our instincts, our neurochemistry, everything is primitive. If you behave in a civilized way and do unnatural things (like consuming in capitalism) it has no effect on women, because there is no such thing in nature. But primitive rough sex is natural and will always be the ideal.

Also I just can’t with dirty talking

When an LTR asks to be verbally degraded in bed it’s super cringe

But also this, we need a dirty talk guide on this forum asap.

 

[APJ]

It happens. It sounds like these girls are pushing for more than FWB and you're yielding to them. Every FWB I've ever had tried to change the terms of our arrangement beyond the bedroom and this is always the end result; typical strategy to try and lock you down. Once they do there's a pretty huge chance they'll get bored of you and discard you

This is what people (women) don't realise about why guys keep them in situationships whilst dangling the commitment carrot, it's because more often than not once you give her that carrot the shitty treatment starts and you eventually get discarded like a child quickly discards the toy he wanted after finally getting it as a Christmas present

 

[Deleted member 17872]

midway in almost a bored fashion she rushes you to instead fuck her roughly doggystyle and slap her ass

And what's wrong with that?

It's way better than licking pussy. Avtually it's amazing.

Lol u fags are mentally ill if u don't wanna have a bit of a rough sex with your gf.

 

[Deleted member 19567]

beta. The whole idea of love dating is beta and normie simp effemite behavior. Male and women are separate genders for a reason. Let them be separate. Feminist mind have the world thinking this buxx dating, extract of resource culture is natural. That's your girlfriend, not your wife. Your still fornicating, and she is doing nothing more than extracting ur resources and timr for sex.

Human nature up until modern times have always had this line between male and female. Listen to the bible, they knew more than us. Estrogen and test is different. Women had different houses then the husband. They controlled them and prob did not do that kissing passionate spooning simper unless they were ab to, or having sex. A 0-100 behavior.

All of that midday love cuddly type stuff with a women is effemite and unnatural. Do i have to explain when you already are testifying against it? Even the male gender and flesh lets you know there's no excitement or rush in that.

Same concept of getting starved before you eat. Or do you eat when you are already full? Eating a spoonful of food every minute is worst than fasting for a 2 days before eating a large meal.

 

[Deleted member 23558]

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You have to be as confident as the Indians in my Stacyfish's Dms

full convo. immediate.

 

[autistic_tendencies]

Gotta ask yourself would you cum on her face or not and you will know your answer

 

[Deleted member 22888]

Ur just soy and old

 

[Aladin]

Ur just soy and old

He has too much of a romantic heart.

 

[Aladin]

while holding her hands behind her back and telling her she's a worthless whore that I only fuck for her 3 holes. Like that just doesn't feel right to say anymore after the day's activities.

Is that an actual line you use during sex?

Would be interesting to know which phrases you use that work vs don’t work.

 

[TheTakeoverHasBegun]

lol at being in a ltr with a girl who wants you to degrade her
Your girlfriend should be the most vanilla girl known to woman

 

[latincell95]

basically I can have really good sex with random women and FWBs that strictly is FWB relationship. She will only come over in the evening and it's 100% for sex. Great sex call her dirty whore slap her spit her, degrade her in every way and it's great for both