Is this a sign of betabux marriage ?

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So I was talking to a foid for LTR/Marriage and when one night we talked about the wedding, and due to some cultural differences our families don’t want to organize the wedding the same way. After that night, she got really cold and said that’s a dealbreaker and why did I hide this to her.

So she cares more about the wedding itself than our potential relationship.

Do you think I was getting into a cuck betabux marriage ?
 
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@SecularIslamist @Gengar oldcel bhais
 
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Betabux, relationships should always come first. Marriage is just a ceremony; u can get married now and celebrate it 10 years later
 
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Betabux, relationships should always come first. Marriage is just a ceremony; u can get married now and celebrate it 10 years later
Yes youre right wedding is not that important
 
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So I was talking to a foid for LTR/Marriage and when one night we talked about the wedding, and due to some cultural differences our families don’t want to organize the wedding the same way. After that night, she got really cold and said that’s a dealbreaker and why did I hide this to her.

So she cares more about the wedding itself than our potential relationship.

Do you think I was getting into a cuck betabux marriage ?
The age they dated is the indicator unless he mogs her to the fucking ground he is and always is a cuck clean up battle cuck
 
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So I was talking to a foid for LTR/Marriage and when one night we talked about the wedding, and due to some cultural differences our families don’t want to organize the wedding the same way. After that night, she got really cold and said that’s a dealbreaker and why did I hide this to her.

So she cares more about the wedding itself than our potential relationship.

Do you think I was getting into a cuck betabux marriage ?
Is this you?

Let me tell you something. If you even gotta ask then 9/10 it's the worst case scenario. And even if it's not it wouldn't make a difference. You should only write her off whatever the case.

In your specific situation then no. No you should never enter into a marriage with a girl who says anything is a deal breaker. You should only marry a girl, or even be with her romantically for that matter, if she's willing to break every rule she ever thought she had for you.
 
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Is this you?

Let me tell you something. If you even gotta ask then 9/10 it's the worst case scenario. And even if it's not it wouldn't make a difference. You should only write her off whatever the case.

In your specific situation then no. No you should never enter into a marriage with a girl who says anything is a deal breaker. You should only marry a girl, or even be with her romantically for that matter, if she's willing to break every rule she ever thought she had for you.
Yes it's me.

I know it's over, I will send her a message soon to stop everything as right now she said she needed space and time . I have a friend who got foids obsessed to him ( One foid was going to fight with her dad for him to accept my friend as her husband jfl) Considering he only does temporary work.

Just wanted to make sure that I am not overreacting as being in these type of community for too long can make you overreact out of ego.
Thanks for your help, appreciate it!
 
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Yes it's me.

I know it's over, I will send her a message soon to stop everything as right now she said she needed space and time . I have a friend who got foids obsessed to him ( One foid was going to fight with her dad for him to accept my friend as her husband jfl) Considering he only does temporary work.

Just wanted to make sure that I am not overreacting as being in these type of community for too long can make you overreact out of ego.
Thanks for your help, appreciate it!
Your not overreacting dude.

Tell her it's over and make it clear, and don't let her get you to sit there and explain beyond that. Simple and short. Then stop communication. Don't block on any social media if you can and don't update your own social media at all or the next six months. Don't reply to any of her texts. As far as you go for her you go completely silent.

She's already shown her true colors and she will probably make it very difficult for you not to get back together, with temporary behavior modification and a promise to change. Do not fall for it though. This girl has already shown her colors and isn't really suitable as a wife for any man, if the man takes marriage seriously.
 
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Your not overreacting dude.

Tell her it's over and make it clear, and don't let her get you to sit there and explain beyond that. Simple and short. Then stop communication. Don't block on any social media if you can and don't update your own social media at all or the next six months. Don't reply to any of her texts. As far as you go for her you go completely silent.

She's already shown her true colors and she will probably make it very difficult for you not to get back together, with temporary behavior modification and a promise to change. Do not fall for it though. This girl has already shown her colors and isn't really suitable as a wife for any man, if the man takes marriage seriously.
Thanks man, it's ok it's not that deep to end this "whatever it's called" thing. I feel like when things started to get serious she would always try to find a way out.
The good thing is I'm numb so I don't care much (https://looksmax.org/threads/this-f...to-being-cheated-on-dumped-or-ghosted.1604647) .
 
What are the cultural differences?
 
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What are the cultural differences?
My family members are practicing muslims so they except a seperated wedding ( men with men and foids with foids) hers are more liberal and she want a wedding like in the west
 
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