Is this a valid reason to be mad at your girl for?

[DownwardGrowthCel]

I gave my cigarettes to her before i went on vacation with my family.

(Keep in mind that she doesn’t smoke. I gave it to her because I was with her the same day I left. And I didn’t have time to get all the way home and leave them.)

And now she’s sending snap with it, smoking that shit with her friend.

Like nigger what the fuck are you doing. Just ask for it, and I’ll give you some. But don’t just fucking steal them from me.

it’s not that I’m a greedy Jew or anything like that. It’s more like a matter of principle.

 

[eㅤㅤ]

yes id be mad too. teach ur girl that communication is key

 

[RedDragonSlayer67]

Nah your stuff is her stuff

 

[DownwardGrowthCel]

Btw. When I say ”give it to her” I don’t mean that the cigarette is hers now. Just that she got to hold them for me until I’m home.

 

[Lemic]

I dknt have a good thus I couldn't tell ya

 

[DownwardGrowthCel]

Nah your stuff is her stuff

Fuhhh no

 

[Jatt]

Nah your stuff is her stuff

This is called the cuckhold mindset

 

[Lemic]

But I would say Its a valid reason

 

[Jatt]

smoking that shit with her friend.

Don’t tell me it’s a male “friend”

 

[DownwardGrowthCel]

yes id be mad too. teach ur girl that communication is key

How should I teach her without say anything?

 

[DownwardGrowthCel]

Don’t tell me it’s a male “friend”

Ohh nooo. Girl friend

 

[RedDragonSlayer67]

Fuhhh no

Just kidding

 

[Viriato_catholic]

I gave my cigarettes to her before i went on vacation with my family.

(Keep in mind that she doesn’t smoke. I gave it to her because I was with her the same day I left. And I didn’t have time to get all the way home and leave them.)

And now she’s sending snap with it, smoking that shit with her friend.

Like nigger what the fuck are you doing. Just ask for it, and I’ll give you some. But don’t just fucking steal them from me.

it’s not that I’m a greedy Jew or anything like that. It’s more like a matter of principle.

its not that deep but you should slap her in the face so she doesnt make the same mistake again

 

[DownwardGrowthCel]

Just kidding

Thought I lost you there for a sec

 

[eㅤㅤ]

How should I teach her without say anything?

ngl i would just be straight up.. i've had problems with relationships and kinda just fucked my way trough because
i always couldnt express myself clearly.

just be honest to her one day ya'll see eachother and be calm "do u remember when u smoked the cigs?, look i see no problem in you using my personal stuff but id love to be more communicative in the relationship. i know i may sound like a nerd but.. bla bla whatever u can finish the rest im sure u goated enough

 

[DownwardGrowthCel]

its not that deep but you should slap her in the face so she doesnt make the same mistake again

This is why the Orthodox Church is the true church

 

[DownwardGrowthCel]

ngl i would just be straight up.. i've had problems with relationships and kinda just fucked my way trough because
i always couldnt express myself clearly.

just be honest to her one day ya'll see eachother and be calm "do u remember when u smoked the cigs?, look i see no problem in you using my personal stuff but id love to be more communicative in the relationship. i know i may sound like a nerd but.. bla bla whatever u can finish the rest im sure u goated enough

High T org user right here. Thx genuinely

 

[Viriato_catholic]

This is why the Orthodox Church is the true church

are you affraid to use your authority on your gf?

 

[yetiorange]

How should I teach her without say anything?

you can’t be angry at her because thatll be seen as controlling, and you cant be calm about it either because itll teach her that its okay

yeah i cant think of anything good luck

 

[DownwardGrowthCel]

are you affraid to use your authority on your gf?

I don’t see the point of slapping her. She will just leave me

 

[DownwardGrowthCel]

you can’t be angry at her because thatll be seen as controlling, and you cant be calm about it either because itll teach her that its okay

yeah i cant think of anything good luck

Thx for that ig. We didn't accomplish much but I still appreciate it

 

[ndshinigami]

I wouldnt be mad If she didn't smoke too many of them tbh

 

[Viriato_catholic]

I don’t see the point of slapping her. She will just leave me

why would she leave you? I didn't tell you to beat her up, just to give her a few slaps to correct her behavior

 

[proxxyy11]

yea ur girls kind of a shitty person im ngl

 

[yetiorange]

why would she leave you? I didn't tell you to beat her up, just to give her a few slaps to correct her behavior

ruin your life speedrun

 

[Viriato_catholic]

ruin your life speedrun

how?

 

[yetiorange]

yea ur girls kind of a shitty person im ngl

Nah. She could have just been raised in a household where people take eachothers shit without a word. You never know what standards ppl grow up with

 

[DownwardGrowthCel]

I wouldnt be mad If she didn't smoke too many of them tbh

Yeah I mean, the first night they were together they only smoked 2. And I actually thought it was pretty funny because I forgot tay I gave them to her. But today they smoked 4 more. Which makes me a bit concerned. I even hinted about that in my text. I said something like

”you’re not even asking anymore, just stealing that shit. There will probably be 2 left when I come home if I’m lucky”

 

[brielarsonbf]

I gave my cigarettes to her before i went on vacation with my family.

(Keep in mind that she doesn’t smoke. I gave it to her because I was with her the same day I left. And I didn’t have time to get all the way home and leave them.)

And now she’s sending snap with it, smoking that shit with her friend.

Like nigger what the fuck are you doing. Just ask for it, and I’ll give you some. But don’t just fucking steal them from me.

it’s not that I’m a greedy Jew or anything like that. It’s more like a matter of principle.

God sign to stop inhaling smoke and leave that bitch

 

[yetiorange]

how?

she breaks up with you>she decides she is a victim of assault>go to court>prison>lose job>lose life

 

[ndshinigami]

I said something like

”you’re not even asking anymore, just stealing that shit. There will probably be 2 left when I come home if I’m lucky”

Good answer ngl, thats probably what I would've said If I were you that way you can get the information without soundint agressive

 

[Viriato_catholic]

she breaks up with you>she decides she is a victim of assault>go to court>prison>lose job>lose life

if your gf do this to you is genuinely over and you should end your life, my gf would never do that

 

[proxxyy11]

Nah. She could have just been raised in a household where people take eachothers shit without a word. You never know what standards ppl grow up with

that doesn't make her not shitty though, but she does have a reason for being shitty if that's the case

 

[brielarsonbf]

This is called the cuckhold mindset

if society was 100% trad i wouldnt care, if anything i would be openly willing to share stuff
since women dont fulfill any obligation and shit on men 24/7, idc im splitting everything your not getting a share outta me

 

[DownwardGrowthCel]

Good answer ngl, thats probably what I would've said If I were you that way you can get the information without soundint agressive

Yeah, she texted me rn. Let me see what she answered! Brb

 

[yetiorange]

I said something like

”you’re not even asking anymore, just stealing that shit. There will probably be 2 left when I come home if I’m lucky”

okay yeah you basically have to get angry now.

if she takes the hint that you don’t support her taking your cigs but doesn’t receive any follow up concerns by you, you’ll be viewed as compliant

and being treated as compliant or inferior is worse than anything… trust me

 

[DownwardGrowthCel]

Good answer ngl, thats probably what I would've said If I were you that way you can get the information without soundint agressive

Okay, I would consider this a good answer from her side. She said ”Emma (which is her friends name) said that it was your birthday present. (she turns 18 in 3 days) after that she said ”just kidding I can buy you a new pack when you’re home”

Alr thats enough for me. I will not even make her buy a new pack. I just wanted some empathy from her side.

 

[DownwardGrowthCel]

okay yeah you basically have to get angry now.

if she takes the hint that you don’t support her taking your cigs but doesn’t receive any follow up concerns by you, you’ll be viewed as compliant

and being treated as compliant or inferior is worse than anything… trust me

Okay, I would consider this a good answer from her side. She said ”Emma (which is her friends name) said that it was your birthday present. (she turns 18 in 3 days) after that she said ”just kidding I can buy you a new pack when you’re home”

Alr thats enough for me. I will not even make her buy a new pack. I just wanted some empathy from her side.