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I never actually thought much about it, I always assumed that everything is just sexual/romantic frustration in the sense that I want to make out with someone or fuck them to fulfill my evolutive natural desire, right? But, even if it seems like a cope, after thinking about it I concluded that it’s far from that.
Personally I’m 15, so it’s probably different than the case of someone who’s, say, 31 and still a KHHV. In that case, we’re anthropologically ‘programmed’ to feel frustrated if our oxytocin receptors are bone-dry.
But in my case, I think it’s more about validation and feeding my ego. I don’t even care about getting laid per se, it’s more about knowing that I’m genetically capable of being hierarchically above my peers and feeling wanted/desired by people from the opposite sex. Imagine being at a social gathering and brutally mogging a random dude to the point of suicide by making out with a gigastacy next to him while he stares at the ceiling thinking about everything wrong with his life that lead to that moment.
Now, of course that sex probably feels good, but imo most people here —including myself— have a sort-of narcissistic need of validation, and we need to fuel it, because how could we feel good about ourselves—about our “ego”—if we’re objectively ugly and have a really low social status, no wonder why we feel like shit.
My advice would be to just reconsider your life philosophy and try to cope with it somehow. My favorite cope is stoicism, which also helps me btw. In other words, remember that we’re all gonna die and life only happens once, so try to play with your cards the best way you can, even if you’re a 5’2 indian manlet with a receding hairline. Most of you don’t have it that bad tho... most of you.
TLDR: It’s narcissism
Personally I’m 15, so it’s probably different than the case of someone who’s, say, 31 and still a KHHV. In that case, we’re anthropologically ‘programmed’ to feel frustrated if our oxytocin receptors are bone-dry.
But in my case, I think it’s more about validation and feeding my ego. I don’t even care about getting laid per se, it’s more about knowing that I’m genetically capable of being hierarchically above my peers and feeling wanted/desired by people from the opposite sex. Imagine being at a social gathering and brutally mogging a random dude to the point of suicide by making out with a gigastacy next to him while he stares at the ceiling thinking about everything wrong with his life that lead to that moment.
Now, of course that sex probably feels good, but imo most people here —including myself— have a sort-of narcissistic need of validation, and we need to fuel it, because how could we feel good about ourselves—about our “ego”—if we’re objectively ugly and have a really low social status, no wonder why we feel like shit.
My advice would be to just reconsider your life philosophy and try to cope with it somehow. My favorite cope is stoicism, which also helps me btw. In other words, remember that we’re all gonna die and life only happens once, so try to play with your cards the best way you can, even if you’re a 5’2 indian manlet with a receding hairline. Most of you don’t have it that bad tho... most of you.
TLDR: It’s narcissism
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